Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Mad Good Dro]

I don't play games if ur wasting my time bushes u shall go quickly
A female feeling u a lot will make a point to keep hitting up up

This one bad ass jap girl in Japan I met I hollered at in club exchange digits but she was on that bs when communication so I stopped but then every so.often I see her at Club and she see me talking and dancing with other girls and get jealous and pull me to the side talking bout why don't u call or text me.
Told her Cuz u don't reply why waste my time so I walked away and she said I'll show u I can
Later that nite she hits me up
This shyt took her 1 month to do this and she got to the point of tired of seeing me in Club talking to other girls and finally made a move
So things go smooth for a week
I get damn Pink eye on my b day so im homesick
And she calls me saying she will come see me I'm like yea right but give her address and does
I open door and she comes in I'm like why u in a robe. She takes it off in lingerie I'm like Cuz I knew she was bad but lord her body
Told me she was my b day gift come get it
Breh shyt was so wack
I even lied and said I bust she was like let me see so I can taste I was like but at same time like
Cuz I was on my side she couldn't see it i put lotion on my shyt and she tasted it talking bout wow u taste so flavory
Next day I blocked her lol
For the simple fact of playing games and taking a month to wanna take me serious to get to know me
The sex was just a bonus as far as I was concerned

DAWG

 

[Brandsdale]

I don't play games if ur wasting my time bushes u shall go quickly
A female feeling u a lot will make a point to keep hitting up up

This one bad ass jap girl in Japan I met I hollered at in club exchange digits but she was on that bs when communication so I stopped but then every so.often I see her at Club and she see me talking and dancing with other girls and get jealous and pull me to the side talking bout why don't u call or text me.
Told her Cuz u don't reply why waste my time so I walked away and she said I'll show u I can
Later that nite she hits me up
This shyt took her 1 month to do this and she got to the point of tired of seeing me in Club talking to other girls and finally made a move
So things go smooth for a week
I get damn Pink eye on my b day so im homesick
And she calls me saying she will come see me I'm like yea right but give her address and does
I open door and she comes in I'm like why u in a robe. She takes it off in lingerie I'm like Cuz I knew she was bad but lord her body
Told me she was my b day gift come get it
Breh shyt was so wack
I even lied and said I bust she was like let me see so I can taste I was like but at same time like
Cuz I was on my side she couldn't see it i put lotion on my shyt and she tasted it talking bout wow u taste so flavory
Next day I blocked her lol
For the simple fact of playing games and taking a month to wanna take me serious to get to know me
The sex was just a bonus as far as I was concerned

but I highly agree with how this was carried out

 

[John Reena]

Deleted my Tinder app.

Nothing but ugly fat bytches n spam on there.

 

[TheArchitect]

I have, when she sent me that text I didn't reply, I'm not going to reach out to her and I doubt she will reach out to me either.

I will admit it sucks, because we were clicking or so I thought. It's been a long time since I met a woman with so much drive...she owned her own business. Oh well it's part of this dating game

One of the main reasons ive been single and sexless for the past almost 4 years. shyt like this constantly happens, constantly having time wasted. It just ain't worth it to me anymore...

Deleted my Tinder app.

Nothing but ugly fat bytches n spam on there.

Havent deleted mine, but dont use it much anymore. Don't get any play, and anyone I supposedly "match" with never replies to even the simplest message....another waste of time....

 

[Mr210]

One of the main reasons ive been single and sexless for the past almost 4 years. shyt like this constantly happens, constantly having time wasted. It just ain't worth it to me anymore...

Havent deleted mine, but dont use it much anymore. Don't get any play, and anyone I supposedly "match" with never replies to even the simplest message....another waste of time....

Yea I'm not in a 4 yr drought more like a 1 yr drought, the crazy thing I'm a better and happier man than I ever have been in , but now I'm struggling, but when I was insecure and angry I had no problems getting women

 

[Hazer]

I need male input please on a text from my ex 2 months post breakup. The message is below and the background after.

My questions: male opinions on the message? Was it a genuine closure type deal? Other motives? Why send it 2.5 months later? Am i the dumper or dumpee?
Thanks.

THE MESSAGE:

XXX, I'm SORRY i hurt you. I'm SORRY i took advantage of how much you loved me. I'm SORRY i let you fall in love and didn't do my part to make you happy. I'm SORRY i was so selfish. I'm SORRY for not saying I'm SORRY. You were right and i know it's too late, but i wanted to say I'm sorry for i couldn't bare the chance of maybe not ever getting a chance to say so. I don't expect you to forgive me or talk to me ever again, but just know that i am SORRY. I know that i was wrong and you deserve so much better. Soooo much more. I'm SORRY.
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Background: was with my ex 1.5 years, broke up beginning of june. Relationship was great in the beginning. I broke up with him summer 2015 after he was "emotionally cheating" with other chicks. He begged and pleaded his way back. Worked my guilt and promised to "turn his life upside down" to make things work. My main complaints were communication, trust and his selfishness. It went fine for a while, but the same issues came back. Plus he was more insecure, claiming he worried he wasn't good enough for me (education, money, status) yet i never made him feel like that. He also was being inconsistent and too friendly with females.

Not sure who broke up with who this time though. Started with me calling him to discuss some things. He wanted to put it off. I was upset. We didn't talk for 2 days. I texted an apology and asked we talk next day. No reply. Next day i called 4x and text 4x. Nothing. Nothing else from him for 4 days. We'd never give more than a day without talking. Meantime i went ahead and blocked and deleted him. That weekend he calls from another number and leaves a msg saying he was just checking to see if he's blocked and no need to call him back. Ok. Later that night he sends me a video on instagram saying "He knows he ignored me and what not, but you can't just block some one. What i need to talk to you about is bigger than you and i." What?
I ignore it.
Nothing else from him except him blocking me on IG after i already deleted him. Fine.

A month later he sends me a happy bday whatsapp msg right at midnight.
I ignore it.
Another month later (two weeks ago) he sends me the message above on my work phone viber.

 

[FukyourFort]

I need male input please on a text from my ex 2 months post breakup. The message is below and the background after.

My questions: male opinions on the message? Was it a genuine closure type deal? Other motives? Why send it 2.5 months later? Am i the dumper or dumpee?
Thanks.

THE MESSAGE:

XXX, I'm SORRY i hurt you. I'm SORRY i took advantage of how much you loved me. I'm SORRY i let you fall in love and didn't do my part to make you happy. I'm SORRY i was so selfish. I'm SORRY for not saying I'm SORRY. You were right and i know it's too late, but i wanted to say I'm sorry for i couldn't bare the chance of maybe not ever getting a chance to say so. I don't expect you to forgive me or talk to me ever again, but just know that i am SORRY. I know that i was wrong and you deserve so much better. Soooo much more. I'm SORRY.
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Background: was with my ex 1.5 years, broke up beginning of june. Relationship was great in the beginning. I broke up with him summer 2015 after he was "emotionally cheating" with other chicks. He begged and pleaded his way back. Worked my guilt and promised to "turn his life upside down" to make things work. My main complaints were communication, trust and his selfishness. It went fine for a while, but the same issues came back. Plus he was more insecure, claiming he worried he wasn't good enough for me (education, money, status) yet i never made him feel like that. He also was being inconsistent and too friendly with females.

Not sure who broke up with who this time though. Started with me calling him to discuss some things. He wanted to put it off. I was upset. We didn't talk for 2 days. I texted an apology and asked we talk next day. No reply. Next day i called 4x and text 4x. Nothing. Nothing else from him for 4 days. We'd never give more than a day without talking. Meantime i went ahead and blocked and deleted him. That weekend he calls from another number and leaves a msg saying he was just checking to see if he's blocked and no need to call him back. Ok. Later that night he sends me a video on instagram saying "He knows he ignored me and what not, but you can't just block some one. What i need to talk to you about is bigger than you and i." What?
I ignore it.
Nothing else from him except him blocking me on IG after i already deleted him. Fine.

A month later he sends me a happy bday whatsapp msg right at midnight.
I ignore it.
Another month later (two weeks ago) he sends me the message above on my work phone viber.

Get out. I know its tempting but get out. That is a toxic situation and he isn't going to change.

 

[Hazer]

Get out. I know its tempting but get out. That is a toxic situation and he isn't going to change.

Can you explain further pls?

 

[Ohene]

I need male input please on a text from my ex 2 months post breakup. The message is below and the background after.

My questions: male opinions on the message? Was it a genuine closure type deal? Other motives? Why send it 2.5 months later? Am i the dumper or dumpee?
Thanks.

THE MESSAGE:

XXX, I'm SORRY i hurt you. I'm SORRY i took advantage of how much you loved me. I'm SORRY i let you fall in love and didn't do my part to make you happy. I'm SORRY i was so selfish. I'm SORRY for not saying I'm SORRY. You were right and i know it's too late, but i wanted to say I'm sorry for i couldn't bare the chance of maybe not ever getting a chance to say so. I don't expect you to forgive me or talk to me ever again, but just know that i am SORRY. I know that i was wrong and you deserve so much better. Soooo much more. I'm SORRY.
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Background: was with my ex 1.5 years, broke up beginning of june. Relationship was great in the beginning. I broke up with him summer 2015 after he was "emotionally cheating" with other chicks. He begged and pleaded his way back. Worked my guilt and promised to "turn his life upside down" to make things work. My main complaints were communication, trust and his selfishness. It went fine for a while, but the same issues came back. Plus he was more insecure, claiming he worried he wasn't good enough for me (education, money, status) yet i never made him feel like that. He also was being inconsistent and too friendly with females.

Not sure who broke up with who this time though. Started with me calling him to discuss some things. He wanted to put it off. I was upset. We didn't talk for 2 days. I texted an apology and asked we talk next day. No reply. Next day i called 4x and text 4x. Nothing. Nothing else from him for 4 days. We'd never give more than a day without talking. Meantime i went ahead and blocked and deleted him. That weekend he calls from another number and leaves a msg saying he was just checking to see if he's blocked and no need to call him back. Ok. Later that night he sends me a video on instagram saying "He knows he ignored me and what not, but you can't just block some one. What i need to talk to you about is bigger than you and i." What?
I ignore it.
Nothing else from him except him blocking me on IG after i already deleted him. Fine.

A month later he sends me a happy bday whatsapp msg right at midnight.
I ignore it.
Another month later (two weeks ago) he sends me the message above on my work phone viber.

ignore him he's doing one of two things...a) tryna win you back on some last ditch effort shyt so that in his mind he can say "at least I tried...it wasnt like i gave up on her she gave up on me" b) trying to bait you in with breadcrumb texts.

he sounds immature. cut him loose

 

[Hazer]

ignore him he's doing one of two things...a) tryna win you back on some last ditch effort shyt so that in his mind he can say "at least I tried...it wasnt like i gave up on her she gave up on me" b) trying to bait you in with breadcrumb texts.

he sounds immature. cut him loose

Thanks. Who says, I'm sorry i let you fall in love with me? He's the one who cried when i broke up with him last year and claimed he couldn't function without me. This feels like he's making me out to be the wounded damsel. That annoyed the hell out of me. And the, i dont expect you to ever talk to me again. It felt like calculated baiting. Really annoys me.
It's clear he never really cared about me by how he's handled everything.

 

[John Reena]

I need male input please on a text from my ex 2 months post breakup. The message is below and the background after.

My questions: male opinions on the message? Was it a genuine closure type deal? Other motives? Why send it 2.5 months later? Am i the dumper or dumpee?
Thanks.

THE MESSAGE:

XXX, I'm SORRY i hurt you. I'm SORRY i took advantage of how much you loved me. I'm SORRY i let you fall in love and didn't do my part to make you happy. I'm SORRY i was so selfish. I'm SORRY for not saying I'm SORRY. You were right and i know it's too late, but i wanted to say I'm sorry for i couldn't bare the chance of maybe not ever getting a chance to say so. I don't expect you to forgive me or talk to me ever again, but just know that i am SORRY. I know that i was wrong and you deserve so much better. Soooo much more. I'm SORRY.
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Background: was with my ex 1.5 years, broke up beginning of june. Relationship was great in the beginning. I broke up with him summer 2015 after he was "emotionally cheating" with other chicks. He begged and pleaded his way back. Worked my guilt and promised to "turn his life upside down" to make things work. My main complaints were communication, trust and his selfishness. It went fine for a while, but the same issues came back. Plus he was more insecure, claiming he worried he wasn't good enough for me (education, money, status) yet i never made him feel like that. He also was being inconsistent and too friendly with females.

Not sure who broke up with who this time though. Started with me calling him to discuss some things. He wanted to put it off. I was upset. We didn't talk for 2 days. I texted an apology and asked we talk next day. No reply. Next day i called 4x and text 4x. Nothing. Nothing else from him for 4 days. We'd never give more than a day without talking. Meantime i went ahead and blocked and deleted him. That weekend he calls from another number and leaves a msg saying he was just checking to see if he's blocked and no need to call him back. Ok. Later that night he sends me a video on instagram saying "He knows he ignored me and what not, but you can't just block some one. What i need to talk to you about is bigger than you and i." What?
I ignore it.
Nothing else from him except him blocking me on IG after i already deleted him. Fine.

A month later he sends me a happy bday whatsapp msg right at midnight.
I ignore it.
Another month later (two weeks ago) he sends me the message above on my work phone viber.

Don't fall for that. Don't message him back. It's time for new ppl n new experiences.

 

[twan83]

I need male input please on a text from my ex 2 months post breakup. The message is below and the background after.

My questions: male opinions on the message? Was it a genuine closure type deal? Other motives? Why send it 2.5 months later? Am i the dumper or dumpee?
Thanks.

THE MESSAGE:

XXX, I'm SORRY i hurt you. I'm SORRY i took advantage of how much you loved me. I'm SORRY i let you fall in love and didn't do my part to make you happy. I'm SORRY i was so selfish. I'm SORRY for not saying I'm SORRY. You were right and i know it's too late, but i wanted to say I'm sorry for i couldn't bare the chance of maybe not ever getting a chance to say so. I don't expect you to forgive me or talk to me ever again, but just know that i am SORRY. I know that i was wrong and you deserve so much better. Soooo much more. I'm SORRY.
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Background: was with my ex 1.5 years, broke up beginning of june. Relationship was great in the beginning. I broke up with him summer 2015 after he was "emotionally cheating" with other chicks. He begged and pleaded his way back. Worked my guilt and promised to "turn his life upside down" to make things work. My main complaints were communication, trust and his selfishness. It went fine for a while, but the same issues came back. Plus he was more insecure, claiming he worried he wasn't good enough for me (education, money, status) yet i never made him feel like that. He also was being inconsistent and too friendly with females.

Not sure who broke up with who this time though. Started with me calling him to discuss some things. He wanted to put it off. I was upset. We didn't talk for 2 days. I texted an apology and asked we talk next day. No reply. Next day i called 4x and text 4x. Nothing. Nothing else from him for 4 days. We'd never give more than a day without talking. Meantime i went ahead and blocked and deleted him. That weekend he calls from another number and leaves a msg saying he was just checking to see if he's blocked and no need to call him back. Ok. Later that night he sends me a video on instagram saying "He knows he ignored me and what not, but you can't just block some one. What i need to talk to you about is bigger than you and i." What?
I ignore it.
Nothing else from him except him blocking me on IG after i already deleted him. Fine.

A month later he sends me a happy bday whatsapp msg right at midnight.
I ignore it.
Another month later (two weeks ago) he sends me the message above on my work phone viber.

Dont waste ur time not a good relationship to even get back in regardless
More than likely he wanna fukk one last time and make u miserable to be honest
Ignore the breh move on live life to the fullest he ain't worth ur time or effort u can do better

 

[TRUEST]

Get out. I know its tempting but get out. That is a toxic situation and he isn't going to change.

lol u know shes not going to listen to ur advise. its very clear she still wants this dude and it wont take much for him to be digging in them guts. she knows what the right thing to do is, which is what u suggested. but i would bet money she aint gon listen to it. no one that's over somebody gon gather up the time to type up a post like that.

 

[Hazer]

Dont waste ur time not a good relationship to even get back in regardless
More than likely he wanna fukk one last time and make u miserable to be honest
Ignore the breh move on live life to the fullest he ain't worth ur time or effort u can do better

Don't fall for that. Don't message him back. It's time for new ppl n new experiences.

Thank you.

My male friend thinks me ignoring the messages showed I'm still hurt and i should've replied really briefly as if I'm unbothered. But i didn't think that was a good idea.

I hope this doesn't make me bitter. I should've left him dumped last year. I feel played.

 

[Hazer]

lol u know shes not going to listen to ur advise. its very clear she still wants this dude and it wont take much for him to be digging in them guts. she knows what the right thing to do is, which is what u suggested. but i would bet money she aint gon listen to it. no one that's over somebody gon gather up the time to type up a post like that.

I am not over the relationship. It hurt me tbh because i let myself down. I'm working on it still.
What i won't do though is contact him ever or reply. It's been almost 4 months and I've stuck to it despite his reach outs.
I'd rather work out my issues online than make the mistake of ever turning to him for answers.