Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

well the gawd is single

Lol I tried brehs...you saw my thread about blowing off that other p*ssy on sunday but Im taking mama's advice if this girl doesnt crawl back shortly.

School and Work...no more concern with females like mama said. I'm just too crude and brash I guess. She wants me to be one of them lovey dovey nigerians who worship the ground they walk on and take em shopping and all that jive (all the while having 2 chicks on the side of course ) but I cant be that dude. She doesnt wanna work with me to establish this filter on my mouth for some of the brash, honest things I say then so be it.

I'd tell the story but you guys will get all asking me what the fukk is really the issue so I wont bother. Its that stupid. Anything i say or think is probably oversimplication at this point.

Better now than 6 months or a year later

 

[Ohene]

Better now than 6 months or a year later

exactly. at least i didnt tell all my roster that I'm taken. Only the ones where i had no choice but to do so.

 

[sixsixtwo]

True

I'm at the point though now where a few men reach, a point where I don't even care about dating casually multiple women or women at all. I don't need to have options but in strong enough to go cold turkey and walk away.

As a man a good book, getting into a new tv show late gives me more excitement than spending money working game and cavorting with women

No Facebook, no twitter, instagram, no dating profiles

Just the coli and a Flickr account , I've changed my number and only like 8 people have it.

I haven't given up I just don't care anymore, folks will ask me so when are you getting married, have any gf? And ill be like never and nope don't want one, not interested. "Your saying that now but one day"

Enjoy the cheaters, abusers, sexual deviants, vagabonds.
Bipolars, std carriers, liars, emasculated men.

Ill be enjoying my passport, tv series, good books, videogames

I'm ghost mode as well.. I have more fun browsing Reddit & betting Coli cash than dealing with the SMP non-sense.. I couldn't care less..

 

[winb83]

If I'm dealing with a woman and I suspect that she is cheating on me, then I will immediately break up with her.

There is no resolve to cheating as it displays her lack of loyalty, which is a built-in characteristic. It isn't situational.

Being able to leave a relationship that isn't working for you is the greatest advantage you have over a woman.

I've often been called aloof or detached simply because I can leave a bad situation without hard feelings. There's no need for saying "I can't believe you cheated on me b*tch" or "You're a bum a$$ gold digger" or things to try to denigrate her character. Just move on.

Your world should never revolve around a woman. When you have different things going on in your life which interest and stimulate you, you will be sharper and clearer.

Think of it like this... If you had an abundance of women, if one acted up or was disrespectful, you wouldn't have any problems letting her go because you have plenty more.

This is why dating multiple women is important. A man with no options stays with what he has. He will deal with the bullshiet because he either believes he can't find anybody else or find a woman who compliments him better.

Even while in a relationship, if your woman is consciously aware that you are a desired man, she will stay on her toes and be relentless in keeping you happy. This is why some woman in long term relationships gradually tear down their man's self esteem, so that he doesn't realize that he deserves better and will lose his ability to move on and attract high quality females.

Women don't want you to have female friends while in a relationship. The reason being is that they help you keep perspective of who you are. If there are constantly other females around who admire and compliment you, you will never feel the need to accept the bullshiet. Keep friends, keep company, and keep your own life going even while in a relationship.

It will keep you focused and on course to happiness and low drama.

I think as a man the two most important traits to develop before dealing with women are to be ok being alone and to be able to walk away at a moments notice. I liken it to if you wake up and the house is on fire you just get out right then and there. Many guys don't have that skill.

 

[Ohene]

I think as a man the two most important traits to develop before dealing with women are to be ok being alone and to be able to walk away at a moments notice. I liken it to if you wake up and the house is on fire you just get out right then and there. Many guys don't have that skill.

dont grab the PS3, the Ferragmos, or your Rolex...just get the fukk out breh

 

[MikelArteta]

I think as a man the two most important traits to develop before dealing with women are to be ok being alone and to be able to walk away at a moments notice. I liken it to if you wake up and the house is on fire you just get out right then and there. Many guys don't have that skill.

It took me years to acquire that skill

Another reason why I don't see myself getting married, the flexibility of ending it whenever I feel like at a glance and walking away and never looming back like lots wife would be taken from me.

I cut off my best female friend who I've known since like gr 3 a few weeks ago, she said every time she talks to me I'm negative, so i said ok I won't talk to you anymore goodbye. It's been like two weeks haven't said a word deleted her number and never looking back, of course she has sent long texts apologizing bla bla, but eh that's life.

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

Brehs

So I meet this chick while with my boy (he was talking to her girl and I just started kicking it with her). We meet for the first date. I take her to the beach and on the fishing peir. I always do this because 1. I only pay the 2.00 site seeing fee and 2. it gives me a chance to talk with them and feel them out. Second time we meet she text me asking what I was doing I said "watching movies at home" she asked if she could come over I said sure. Of course I smash and I hit her about 6-7 times after that day. So I texted her the other day and she calls me back im like but I answer anyway. I pick up and its a dude on her line furious He is like "look man I dont know who you are but this is my girl and we live together... dont contact her ever again" ... I was like and then said "alright playa...I didnt know all that" and hung up... Did I handle that correctly? She hit me up yesterday saying sorry ect I didnt respond...She has been texting me "good morning" every morning since then I want to tell her that she should have told me that she had a LIVE IN BOYFRIEND for my safety at least smh..dude sounds crazy as shyt and he could have ran up on me and blew my brains out

 

[MikelArteta]

dont grab the PS3, the Ferragmos, or your Rolex...just get the fukk out breh

Yup

But she has my cell phone charger, my playststion

 

[Ohene]

Brehs

So I meet this chick while with my boy (he was talking to her girl and I just started kicking it with her). We meet for the first date. I take her to the beach and on the fishing peir. I always do this because 1. I only pay the 2.00 site seeing fee and 2. it gives me a chance to talk with them and feel them out. Second time we meet she text me asking what I was doing I said "watching movies at home" she asked if she could come over I said sure. Of course I smash and I hit her about 6-7 times after. So I texted her the other day and she calls me back im like but I answer anyway. I pick up and its a dude on her line furious "He is like look man I dont know who you are but this is my girl and we live together... dont contact her ever again ... I was like :ohh: and was like "alright playa...I didnt know all that" and hung up... Did I handle that correctly? She hit me up yesterday saying sorry ect I didnt respond...She has been texting me "good morning" every morning since then I want to tell her that she should have told me that she had a LIVE IN BOYFRIEND for my safety at least smh..dude sounds crazy as shyt and he could have ran up on me and blew my brains out

you did everything right. Just make sure you never reply/talk to her again. She's taken...she's a cheater...you want no parts of it no matter what angle you look at it from.

 

[MikelArteta]

Brehs

So I meet this chick while with my boy (he was talking to her girl and I just started kicking it with her). We meet for the first date. I take her to the beach and on the fishing peir. I always do this because 1. I only pay the 2.00 site seeing fee and 2. it gives me a chance to talk with them and feel them out. Second time we meet she text me asking what I was doing I said "watching movies at home" she asked if she could come over I said sure. Of course I smash and I hit her about 6-7 times after that day. So I texted her the other day and she calls me back im like but I answer anyway. I pick up and its a dude on her line furious "He is like look man I dont know who you are but this is my girl and we live together... dont contact her ever again ... I was like :ohh: and was like "alright playa...I didnt know all that" and hung up... Did I handle that correctly? She hit me up yesterday saying sorry ect I didnt respond...She has been texting me "good morning" every morning since then I want to tell her that she should have told me that she had a LIVE IN BOYFRIEND for my safety at least smh..dude sounds crazy as shyt and he could have ran up on me and blew my brains out

Breh run, cut your losses and don't look back.

This how Ronald Goldman got his throat slashed, and many othe men have gotten killed, beat up etc.

No woman is worth that aggravated stress or safety of your well being. A lot of folks out there can't let go of their ex and well that's not my concern you chose that person to date and dug that whole exit.

Remember fruit in the wire?

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

you did everything right. Just make sure you never reply/talk to her again. She's taken...she's a cheater...you want no parts of it no matter what angle you look at it from.

I feel you.. I wasnt looking for anything serious (she knew that) and she agreed to just be cut buddies...but damn her having a man killed all that for me.. Dude might off me on some crazy shyt But honestly I couldnt see any signs that she was in a FULL relationship... I wonder if there are things I man could look for to know a chick is creeping

 

[kevm3]

Yup, leave that alone completley. You did the right thing in not antagonizing the dude. He was obviously outraged in seeing some guy he doesn't know chopping it with his girl. Not every man is built in a fashion to where they would 'check the girl', so obviously he came after you because he believed his woman was on some innocent tip being seduced by some outside guy.

Cut her off completely. She is a liar and a traitor. She put her own pleasure above the feelings of her boyfriend and above your safety. A woman like her can get you killed. Leave that Judas in the dust.

This is why I tell men to look into what their woman is doing. He probably never suspected until he saw your phone number pop up. His woman probably told him she loved him everyday all the while messing with another guy on the side. To be honest with you, I highly doubt you're the only guy she is cheating on him with. These women are unbelievably sneaky these days.

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

Breh run, cut your losses and don't look back.

This how Ronald Goldman got his throat slashed, and many othe men have gotten killed, beat up etc.

No woman is worth that aggravated stress or safety of your well being. A lot of folks out there can't let go of their ex and well that's not my concern you chose that person to date and dug that whole exit.

Remember fruit in the wire?

The Wire | Lex Doesn't Like Fruit - YouTube

So that one last "you put my safety at risk I dont want to continue talking to you. Please dont text/call my phone again" text shouldnt be sent out?

Edit: Yooo @kevm3 I swear breh I've never heard a man so angry with so much pain in his voice He had read the text we were sending so he knew I smashed..Dude was pissed.

 

[Ohene]

I feel you.. I wasnt looking for anything serious (she knew that) and she agreed to just be cut buddies...but damn her having a man killed all that for me.. Dude might off me on some crazy shyt But honestly I couldnt see any signs that she was in a FULL relationship... I wonder if there are things I man could look for to know a chick is creeping

fukked up shyt is that if she knows where you live or if that info is in her phone he can easily go through that or she can let it slip when trying to save her own ass and he'll catch wreck. Girl can say some shyt like you blackmailed her into it for all you know and then its off with your head.

Thats if she was really trifling though. Not saying thats the case here because youre my breh and I want you to sleep peacefully at night but .

 

[MikelArteta]

So that one last "you put my safety at risk I dont want to continue talking to you. Please dont text/call my phone again" text shouldnt be sent out?

Just because she knows where you live I would, if she didn't I'd just disappear