Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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I'm at the point though now where a few men reach, a point where I don't even care about dating casually multiple women or women at all. I don't need to have options but in strong enough to go cold turkey and walk away.
As a man a good book, getting into a new tv show late gives me more excitement than spending money working game and cavorting with women
No Facebook, no twitter, instagram, no dating profiles
Just the coli and a Flickr account , I've changed my number and only like 8 people have it.
I haven't given up I just don't care anymore, folks will ask me so when are you getting married, have any gf? And ill be like never and nope don't want one, not interested. "Your saying that now but one day"
Enjoy the cheaters, abusers, sexual deviants, vagabonds.
Bipolars, std carriers, liars, emasculated men.
Ill be enjoying my passport, tv series, good books, videogames
I'm ghost mode as well.. I have more fun browsing Reddit & betting Coli cash than dealing with the SMP non-sense.. I couldn't care less..
I think as a man the two most important traits to develop before dealing with women are to be ok being alone and to be able to walk away at a moments notice. I liken it to if you wake up and the house is on fire you just get out right then and there. Many guys don't have that skill.
It took me years to acquire that skill
Another reason why I don't see myself getting married, the flexibility of ending it whenever I feel like at a glance and walking away and never looming back like lots wife would be taken from me.
I cut off my best female friend who I've known since like gr 3 a few weeks ago, she said every time she talks to me I'm negative, so i said ok I won't talk to you anymore goodbye. It's been like two weeks haven't said a word deleted her number and never looking back, of course she has sent long texts apologizing bla bla, but eh that's life.
BrehsSo I meet this chick while with my boy (he was talking to her girl and I just started kicking it with her). We meet for the first date. I take her to the beach and on the fishing peir. I always do this because 1. I only pay the 2.00 site seeing fee and 2. it gives me a chance to talk with them and feel them out. Second time we meet she text me asking what I was doing I said "watching movies at home" she asked if she could come over I said sure. Of course I smash
and I hit her about 6-7 times after that day. So I texted her the other day and she calls me back im like 
but I answer anyway. I pick up and its a dude on her line furious 
He is like "look man I dont know who you are but this is my girl and we live together... dont contact her ever again" 
... I was like 
and then said "alright playa...I didnt know all that" and hung up... Did I handle that correctly? She hit me up yesterday saying sorry ect I didnt respond...She has been texting me "good morning" every morning since then I want to tell her that she should have told me that she had a LIVE IN BOYFRIEND for my safety at least smh..dude sounds crazy as shyt and he could have ran up on me and blew my brains out
dont grab the PS3, the Ferragmos, or your Rolex...just get the fukk out breh
Yup
But she has my cell phone charger, my playststion
So I meet this chick while with my boy (he was talking to her girl and I just started kicking it with her). We meet for the first date. I take her to the beach and on the fishing peir. I always do this because 1. I only pay the 2.00 site seeing fee and 2. it gives me a chance to talk with them and feel them out. Second time we meet she text me asking what I was doing I said "watching movies at home" she asked if she could come over I said sure. Of course I smash
you did everything right. Just make sure you never reply/talk to her again. She's taken...she's a cheater...you want no parts of it no matter what angle you look at it from.
So I meet this chick while with my boy (he was talking to her girl and I just started kicking it with her). We meet for the first date. I take her to the beach and on the fishing peir. I always do this because 1. I only pay the 2.00 site seeing fee and 2. it gives me a chance to talk with them and feel them out. Second time we meet she text me asking what I was doing I said "watching movies at home" she asked if she could come over I said sure. Of course I smash
Breh run, cut your losses and don't look back.
This how Ronald Goldman got his throat slashed, and many othe men have gotten killed, beat up etc.
No woman is worth that aggravated stress or safety of your well being. A lot of folks out there can't let go of their ex and well that's not my concern you chose that person to date and dug that whole exit.
Remember fruit in the wire?
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you did everything right. Just make sure you never reply/talk to her again. She's taken...she's a cheater...you want no parts of it no matter what angle you look at it from.
I feel you.. I wasnt looking for anything serious (she knew that) and she agreed to just be cut buddies...but damn her having a man killed all that for me.. Dude might off me on some crazy shyt
But honestly I couldnt see any signs that she was in a FULL relationship... I wonder if there are things I man could look for to know a chick is creeping 
Yup, leave that alone completley. You did the right thing in not antagonizing the dude. He was obviously outraged in seeing some guy he doesn't know chopping it with his girl. Not every man is built in a fashion to where they would 'check the girl', so obviously he came after you because he believed his woman was on some innocent tip being seduced by some outside guy.
Cut her off completely. She is a liar and a traitor. She put her own pleasure above the feelings of her boyfriend and above your safety. A woman like her can get you killed. Leave that Judas in the dust.
This is why I tell men to look into what their woman is doing. He probably never suspected until he saw your phone number pop up. His woman probably told him she loved him everyday all the while messing with another guy on the side. To be honest with you, I highly doubt you're the only guy she is cheating on him with. These women are unbelievably sneaky these days.
Cut her off completely. She is a liar and a traitor. She put her own pleasure above the feelings of her boyfriend and above your safety. A woman like her can get you killed. Leave that Judas in the dust.
This is why I tell men to look into what their woman is doing. He probably never suspected until he saw your phone number pop up. His woman probably told him she loved him everyday all the while messing with another guy on the side. To be honest with you, I highly doubt you're the only guy she is cheating on him with. These women are unbelievably sneaky these days.
So that one last "you put my safety at risk I dont want to continue talking to you. Please dont text/call my phone again" text shouldnt be sent out?Edit: Yooo @kevm3 I swear breh I've never heard a man so angry with so much pain in his voice
He had read the text we were sending so he knew I smashed..Dude was pissed.
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I feel you.. I wasnt looking for anything serious (she knew that) and she agreed to just be cut buddies...but damn her having a man killed all that for me.. Dude might off me on some crazy shyt
fukked up shyt is that if she knows where you live or if that info is in her phone he can easily go through that or she can let it slip when trying to save her own ass and he'll catch wreck. Girl can say some shyt like you blackmailed her into it for all you know and then its off with your head.
Thats if she was really trifling though. Not saying thats the case here because youre my breh and I want you to sleep peacefully at night but
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Just because she knows where you live I would, if she didn't I'd just disappear
Damn I never thought about her or her dude just coming to my crib...Yea, let me dead this shyt right now. Thanks brothers.