Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

CASHAPP

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Me?
White girl?

:mjlol:Nah

have you ever thought about finding a hoe on backpage if your just looking for sex only?

i feel like you get attached too easily.

maybe just do it once to control yourself when you have needs.

some nice chicks on there you can smash








































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I hate how everytime i talk to or im around a square chick ...its a square chick im not attracted to? :snoop:

I know there are plenty pretty attractive ones just like anybody else but its like i have bad luck finding those Kyla Pratt from the proud family type of girls

well she not 100 percent "square" but yall know what i mean...just like an around the way girl with a regular vibe...
 

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I hate how everytime i talk to or im around a square chick ...its a square chick im not attracted to? :snoop:

I know there are plenty pretty attractive ones just like anybody else but its like i have bad luck finding those Kyla Pratt from the proud family type of girls

well she not 100 percent "square" but yall know what i mean...just like an around the way girl with a regular vibe...


My girl is the most squarish chick I've ever been with. She hardly watches TV except for college football. She is huge college football fan. On her free time all she does is read if she isn't with me or her family. She loves going to museums and plays. She is very laid back and goes with the flow and whatever I pick for us to do she goes along and is always able to have fun with me. Only thing she ask is that I don't drag her to a baseball game. She hardly ever wears makeup and when she does its very little. I love seeing the little freckles under her eyes. She has her master's with a great job. I've learned so much from her. I've never told her this but she is the smartest and most intelligent woman I have ever dated or been with
 

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5'5" or 5'6"

This is why you're not getting any girls.

I know this is the coli so everybody always comes in and says they know a gang of short dudes fukking a different dime every day, but in real life, guys like you are going to get passed over and ignored by decent to good looking chicks because of your height. Even if they fukk with you it's only going to be temporary when theyre down and out
The only thing you can do is either make a ton of money and spend it on material things so you attract good diggers or start targetin fat/ugly women who can't get good looking men, or just be content with being alone. I never see short dudes with bad bytches, EVER, and I live in Chicago, a pretty big city and I'm out all the time.

These other dudes going to come in here and lie to you and say its about your clothes or your personality or mouthpiece or all that bullshyt, it ain't got nothing to do with that bruh, you're a short nikka and short nikkas get garbage out here unless they got tall paper to offset it. :manny:
Sorry it had to be you, but look at dudes like Kent and even on the forum, shyt even @DarkHorse23 and see what the similarities are. They all have DEEP trouble with girls and they all short dudes. If you was at least average height you wouldn't have NONE of those problems.
 

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I seen a short dude with a bad chick last week..... Which yeah was rare. He was on his black hipster shyt though, expensive sneakers, mohawk/weekend hair cut, etc..... Though to be fair that's how you got to dress to get bad chicks
 

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Me and my ex are both fukking lunatics. We not together but lay up about 2 times a week. We both fukking around with other people. I got a nice little roster im knocking down right now. And im sure somebody giving her pipe cuz im not. fukk it :yeshrug: it is what it is. Maybe down the road we'll get together. Either that or one of us will find someone to make all this back and forth end.

I wouldn't suggest anyone else to move like this tho :russ:

Def not good for your mental health lol
 

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How do yall deal with old chicks hitting you up?

-I been plotting on this volleyball chick since this spring. I went to Houston this summer for work, texting her while i was there. When i came back we linked up once but she kept ducking and dodging chilling:dahell: She actually pledged, worked, had practice, and still maintained a 3.8:leon:, but still. Probably got athlete nikkas at school checking for her. So I fell back

-Had another chick come onto me. She runs track for the school. We were good for a couple weeks then she went ghost on me...She hits me up yesterday. Asks if im single. She basically told me she was talking to other nikkas and i still "better be single":childplease:


I was actually feeling the volleyball chick. I wouldn't mind fukking either of em but how do yall handle these females who try and do you like that? Right now i just keep it cordial, but let them hit me up. Ion chase em after they go ghost then try to hit me back up
 

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I know this is hard to believe but I haven't messed with any broads for about 3 years literally and i just turned 27 a couple days ago. No texts, convos, etc. :heh: which ironically was my last date. I'm a weird ass nikka so i used Tinder when it was first popping and got lucky with 3 thick/chubby girls which i wasn't really attracted to.

Went out with the first one for ice cream after work, she ghosted me after that then married some nikka in jail a year later :dead: the 2nd one just wanted someone to fukk while her nikka was in jail :mjlol: we smoked the first couple of days then when her roommates were gone I "attempted" to smash :laff: my dikk was soft af so she got mad and fell asleep :pachaha: she felt bad later, sucked me off then took me home. Tried again the next day to try to make it up but her roommates came back early so i dipped and got lost trying to find a way out her Apartment complex in the rain :dead: got ghosted after that. The 3rd and final chick didn't want to fukk but kept sexting me :what: then said she wanted a relationship, i told her i just want a fwb then she was like "Goodbye" :francis:

And like a year before all this i took my co-worker to the Spaghetti Factory for my very first date :ehh: turns out it was a pity date set up by another coworker :troll: which i pretty much figured after we got done eating when we were suppose to go to the movies, she hit me with "Sorry my brother just text me and he wants me to go to San Jose with him":manny:. bytch ghosted me and the job the next week with no notice :heh:

The funny thing is that i'm not really stressed about it. I mean at my age I should be more experienced than just those moments i've named above but i'm wired differently than most and really don't care for dating, love, relationships, getting married, kids etc. :yeshrug: and i use to get mad about that shyt too in school like "Why is _____ getting all the girls and i can't" :dwillhuh: but i ended up like :manny: it is what it is.

I mean I just spent 2 months losing 20+ lbs just by changing my diet and exercise everyday after getting lazy. I quit my job because they wouldn't give me a raise and it turns out they're closing in Jan 2017. Right now i'm learning Video Editing with the help of my sis who's studying film and plans to make an production company. Idk maybe i'll start traveling around the globe and end up meeting a crazy bytch who clicks with me :russ: just my luck

Guess my rambling is over lol but for all the nikkas struggling with these women...
Don't worry about it:hubie:
I'm FAR from an expert but I'll say you need to (1) Continue improving your appearance and/or body. (2) Based on the cards we're dealt(height) you need to be more aggressive and approach more women but also be extremely confident and bold. That attitude worked for me when I first started out approaching. You can't be 5'4-5'7 and be on some gentlemen "I'd like to take you to dinner" shyt. Women(especially black) will see you as fodder. (3) You need to know what you're looking for. It sounds like you want a FWB relationship. Ok well you need to communicate what you're looking for with every woman so you don't waste your time. It's not more complicated than that.
 
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Me and my ex are both fukking lunatics. We not together but lay up about 2 times a week. We both fukking around with other people. I got a nice little roster im knocking down right now. And im sure somebody giving her pipe cuz im not. fukk it :yeshrug: it is what it is. Maybe down the road we'll get together. Either that or one of us will find someone to make all this back and forth end.

I wouldn't suggest anyone else to move like this tho :russ:

Def not good for your mental health lol


I think you guys will love again but it won't be each other.
 

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Women I been dating has started acting weird, she stopped texting, replies with one word messages. Is quick to end a phone convo. I have seen it all before. Its the beginning of the end
 

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Women I been dating has started acting weird, she stopped texting, replies with one word messages. Is quick to end a phone convo. I have seen it all before. Its the beginning of the end

How many dates have y'all been on
 

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I'm FAR from an expert but I'll say you need to (1) Continue improving your appearance and/or body. (2) Based on the cards we're dealt(height) you need to be more aggressive and approach more women but also be extremely confident and bold. That attitude worked for me when I first started out approaching. You can't be 5'4-5'7 and be on some gentlemen "I'd like to take you to dinner" shyt. Women(especially black) will see you as fodder. (3) You need to know what you're looking for. It sounds like you want a FWB relationship. Ok well you need to communicate what you're looking for with every woman so you don't waste your time. It's not more complicated than that.

Don't think being short in my area as a bad thing considering the majority of women around here are Hispanic then White and i didn't take the broad to dinner lol she said she wanted to get to know me and suggested that we get lunch down the street
 

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How do yall deal with old chicks hitting you up?

-I been plotting on this volleyball chick since this spring. I went to Houston this summer for work, texting her while i was there. When i came back we linked up once but she kept ducking and dodging chilling:dahell: She actually pledged, worked, had practice, and still maintained a 3.8:leon:, but still. Probably got athlete nikkas at school checking for her. So I fell back

-Had another chick come onto me. She runs track for the school. We were good for a couple weeks then she went ghost on me...She hits me up yesterday. Asks if im single. She basically told me she was talking to other nikkas and i still "better be single":childplease:


I was actually feeling the volleyball chick. I wouldn't mind fukking either of em but how do yall handle these females who try and do you like that? Right now i just keep it cordial, but let them hit me up. Ion chase em after they go ghost then try to hit me back up

Other fish in da sea. Don't chase them chicks breh
 
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