Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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If we find a man that actually has the desire to be in a relationship with us and spend time with us outside of his sexual interests, shouldn’t we be obliged to recognize the value in that and show some appreciation? We certainly expect men to show appreciation and gratitude for our vaginas, don’t we? Sometimes we are so busy protecting our surface value that we don’t realize all we have to do to increase our worth instantaneously is to remove the thick wall of false dominance we have built up over the years that we think aids us in our demand for what is actually the wrong type of respect. Far too often women want to be treated like a lady but seek to be respected as a man. That’s a ridiculous thought. A man’s presence alone demands a certain level of respect that a woman could never acquire. That is not to say that a woman’s presence doesn’t demand respect at all, but a woman’s presence is different; therefore, a different type of respect is acquired. There is absolutely nothing wrong with what you are and what you get as a result. You should always and only want to be respected as what you are, and if you are a woman, embrace the respect that comes with that instead of being resentful of what a man is and trying to take what he has, thereby remaining attractive, desirable, and, most importantly, valuable.

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If we find a man that actually has the desire to be in a relationship with us and spend time with us outside of his sexual interests, shouldn’t we be obliged to recognize the value in that and show some appreciation? We certainly expect men to show appreciation and gratitude for our vaginas, don’t we? Sometimes we are so busy protecting our surface value that we don’t realize all we have to do to increase our worth instantaneously is to remove the thick wall of false dominance we have built up over the years that we think aids us in our demand for what is actually the wrong type of respect. Far too often women want to be treated like a lady but seek to be respected as a man. That’s a ridiculous thought. A man’s presence alone demands a certain level of respect that a woman could never acquire. That is not to say that a woman’s presence doesn’t demand respect at all, but a woman’s presence is different; therefore, a different type of respect is acquired. There is absolutely nothing wrong with what you are and what you get as a result. You should always and only want to be respected as what you are, and if you are a woman, embrace the respect that comes with that instead of being resentful of what a man is and trying to take what he has, thereby remaining attractive, desirable, and, most importantly, valuable.

- Von oneal
:wow: i want to meet von. thatd be an interesting convo.
 
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A bytch will tighten up fast when she see's you not giving her attention like you're giving the other women on your social media. She'll pop up in your DM somewhere on some "you don't text me/snapchat me anymore" type shyt. LOL. That's how you know you got her on lock.

I've mentioned it in here before. bytches don't want a nikka that doesn't have women liking/commenting on their shyt. While you're doing you in this manner, you gone make the hoes competitive for your attention.
 

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This is why you're not getting any girls.

I know this is the coli so everybody always comes in and says they know a gang of short dudes fukking a different dime every day, but in real life, guys like you are going to get passed over and ignored by decent to good looking chicks because of your height. Even if they fukk with you it's only going to be temporary when theyre down and out
The only thing you can do is either make a ton of money and spend it on material things so you attract good diggers or start targetin fat/ugly women who can't get good looking men, or just be content with being alone. I never see short dudes with bad bytches, EVER, and I live in Chicago, a pretty big city and I'm out all the time.

These other dudes going to come in here and lie to you and say its about your clothes or your personality or mouthpiece or all that bullshyt, it ain't got nothing to do with that bruh, you're a short nikka and short nikkas get garbage out here unless they got tall paper to offset it. :manny:
Sorry it had to be you, but look at dudes like Kent and even on the forum, shyt even @DarkHorse23 and see what the similarities are. They all have DEEP trouble with girls and they all short dudes. If you was at least average height you wouldn't have NONE of those problems.
Lol at dis shyt
 

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This is why you're not getting any girls.

I know this is the coli so everybody always comes in and says they know a gang of short dudes fukking a different dime every day, but in real life, guys like you are going to get passed over and ignored by decent to good looking chicks because of your height. Even if they fukk with you it's only going to be temporary when theyre down and out
The only thing you can do is either make a ton of money and spend it on material things so you attract good diggers or start targetin fat/ugly women who can't get good looking men, or just be content with being alone. I never see short dudes with bad bytches, EVER, and I live in Chicago, a pretty big city and I'm out all the time.

These other dudes going to come in here and lie to you and say its about your clothes or your personality or mouthpiece or all that bullshyt, it ain't got nothing to do with that bruh, you're a short nikka and short nikkas get garbage out here unless they got tall paper to offset it. :manny:
Sorry it had to be you, but look at dudes like Kent and even on the forum, shyt even @DarkHorse23 and see what the similarities are. They all have DEEP trouble with girls and they all short dudes. If you was at least average height you wouldn't have NONE of those problems.
How tall are you a$$hole? No guy of any height is fukking a different dime every week. Most guys are fukking below average to average women. Best case scenario above average.
 

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Femsles are choosing out here but be so damn awkward...

Walking past you on the sidewalk doing the :queen:...or wait at the crosswalk till you get there then when I say hello how You doing they get shy and freeze up. I mean damn I try to go in with a chill tone not expecting shyt but I run into ALOT of females who downright make convo awkward as fukk...I think I legit make these girls nervous...thing is I aint used to this shyt:damn:

I use to be fat..now that I lost weight,play guitar and grew my dreads I have seen women give me the :merchant: :lupe: and cross the street to avoid standing near me.

Its like they expect you to be the confident aggressive black man..but at the sametime they scared....



Also in Tinder I get no luck...I only match with fat chicks on tinder...meanwhile out in public its different. Real talk I honestly believe these women assume im some cocky rocker with a gang of hoes.

:francis:
 
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A bytch will tighten up fast when she see's you not giving her attention like you're giving the other women on your social media. She'll pop up in your DM somewhere on some "you don't text me/snapchat me anymore" type shyt. LOL. That's how you know you got her on lock.

I've mentioned it in here before. bytches don't want a nikka that doesn't have women liking/commenting on their shyt. While you're doing you in this manner, you gone make the hoes competitive for your attention.

Lowkey... this is why I think most marriages fail. Brehs think life is good, got a girl but she start getting bored and wants to some excitement in her life
 

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Femsles are choosing out here but be so damn awkward...

Walking past you on the sidewalk doing the :queen:...or wait at the crosswalk till you get there then when I say hello how You doing they get shy and freeze up. I mean damn I try to go in with a chill tone not expecting shyt but I run into ALOT of females who downright make convo awkward as fukk...I think I legit make these girls nervous...thing is I aint used to this shyt:damn:

I use to be fat..now that I lost weight,play guitar and grew my dreads I have seen women give me the :merchant: :lupe: and cross the street to avoid standing near me.

Its like they expect you to be the confident aggressive black man..but at the sametime they scared....



Also in Tinder I get no luck...I only match with fat chicks on tinder...meanwhile out in public its different. Real talk I honestly believe these women assume im some cocky rocker with a gang of hoes.

:francis:

So you haven't had any girls since you started losing weight?

And girls walking to the other side of the str ret Is NOT a good thing.
 
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i got a bit better at flirting by just talking to everyone. because i dont give a fukk. its just funny to me. i know most women pump fake so i just joke around. :yeshrug:

That's the correct attitude to have, rather than act like a fakkit crying about getting curved (for a legitimate good reason) by a hoe.
 

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That's the correct attitude to have, rather than act like a fakkit crying about getting curved (for a legitimate good reason) by a hoe.
i learned to just talk. thats it. JUST TALK. i kept trying to be calculated and i ended up stagnant and dry. i dont have a whole lot of women interested, but its better than my old habits. i mean ive been told i have good dating qualities. :yeshrug:
 

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i learned to just talk. thats it. JUST TALK. i kept trying to be calculated and i ended up stagnant and dry. i dont have a whole lot of women interested, but its better than my old habits. i mean ive been told i have good dating qualities. :yeshrug:
yep......can't be overthinking shyt, just gotta do it
 

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i just need to be more interesting. and shape my looks up. basically keep working on my weight to keep my confidence rising.
 
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