Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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One of my biggest pet peeve's is being hung up on. Do that shyt to me and it's fukk you forever. Idk why but that shyt just irritates me. There's females who hung up on me like 3 years ago and it's still fukk em whenever I run into them in person :manny:
 

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One of my biggest pet peeve's is being hung up on. Do that shyt to me and it's fukk you forever. Idk why but that shyt just irritates me. There's females who hung up on me like 3 years ago and it's still fukk em whenever I run into them in person :manny:


Being hung up on never bothered me, every chick I've dated gets pissed at me because I will do it occasionally but that's because I'd rather do that than say something hurtful
 
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Brehs one thing I learned is being thirsty work sometime. Not on some overly like "got damn u the baddest girl alive lemme marry you shawty" but just complimenting them and shyt. Been adding girls on snapchat and just saying they look nice and shyt then getting numbers then hanging out.

I use to be on the :birdman: no complimenting females cuz they hear that shyt all the time wave. But when she bad as hell...u just gotta do it to get yourself in. Unless you rich or famous but IM a normal nikka

Truth here too. That "hard on hoes" mentality ain't for every nikka. Some nikkaz will make themselves look like clowns by acting that that.
 

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Brehs, I haven't chimed in here for a while, but I have to stress this again.

If you're looking for a gf or wifey type, go after a square chick. In the best relationship I've ever had right now with a "square" type. She's a PhD student who's introverted, intelligent, thoughtful, has a nice body but dresses modestly, into nutrition/fitness, doesn't club/party.....hobbies include reading, cooking, playing instruments.. and she's a virgin.

They say you only come across a few good ones in your lifetime, so when you meet one, don't fukk it up. I found one brehs.
 

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One of my biggest pet peeve's is being hung up on. Do that shyt to me and it's fukk you forever. Idk why but that shyt just irritates me. There's females who hung up on me like 3 years ago and it's still fukk em whenever I run into them in person :manny:

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fukking hilarious but I feel you on that. It's not so much the act itself, but the blatant disrespect. If you let a chick get away with doing shyt like that, then it's pretty much a gateway act to more serious shyt.
 

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Damn almost a month after breakup and its like a new wave of shytty feelings all over again. It fukking hurts.

Feels like I will never find a woman to connect with on the same level as it was with her.
The shyt sucks bro, but you gotta remain focus and know that there WILL be others that are better for you.
 

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Brehs, I haven't chimed in here for a while, but I have to stress this again.

If you're looking for a gf or wifey type, go after a square chick. In the best relationship I've ever had right now with a "square" type. She's a PhD student who's introverted, intelligent, thoughtful, has a nice body but dresses modestly, into nutrition/fitness, doesn't club/party.....hobbies include reading, cooking, playing instruments.. and she's a virgin.

They say you only come across a few good ones in your lifetime, so when you meet one, don't fukk it up. I found one brehs.
:ohhh: I know a girl like that almost exactly. Are you saying I should probably be with her? She's single too and been digging me for a while lol.
 

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nah that aint what i was saying.

see, puccy is what makes most men do what they do. men strive to be rich and famous mainly so they can get bad b1tches. men hit the gym, endure pain to stay fit, so they can get women.

when some men start to get women, they get overly excited and it shows in every aspect of how they communicate with the women they deem very attractive.
what i suspect happened was, ol boy was overly excited to introduce the girl to his family. she sensed she was a high price to him. and even worse, at the family gathering, his family members started insinuating things like "marriage, kids...etc". things she probably was not ready for or just had no plans for and that most likely put her off.

i could be wrong, and im probably wrong. but i read the posts in this thread from a different angle. when a man post about how good of a time he's having with a girl, or whatever, it signifies to me dude is emotionally invested, much to his detriment.

i've dated many many many women. and in every single relationship i've been in, there's always one person who holds the power. there's always one person who likes the other more. this is a fact. not bs. i know women. and those women who i know for a fact like me more than i like them, were always quick to get in line. all of them. every single one of them. if they're mad at me for something that was actually my fault, i can change their hearts with the simplest of apologies, no matter how half-ass it is.

point is, when u find urself posting in this thread about a girl ur dating or about to marry, and ur saying things like "shes so good to me, i think she's the one, thank god i found her, i'm gonna drop all my other girls for her, blah blah blah", you really haven't learned a damn thing.

@ me tho next time bro :sitdown:

You are wrong. The bish just has an attitude problem, been like that since day 1, I just get tired of it from time to time, and it really sent me over the edge when she had another one right after we had a great time at my fams house for thanksgiving.

I'm not a chump, so it was nothing for me to toss her ass and bring in my back up. I don't negotiate with terrorist in a relationship, and certainly won't start now.
 
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I was just thinking the other day.....

I am 33, but only have 3 bodies to my name. At this point, the "player" phase is out the window...So my 1st handicap is sexual inexperience....and I ain't got the will or funds to be paying for it....

Most women my age already have luggage, or looking to get some (looking for someone to "build" with, have children, blahblahblah)...

I'm single, and ain't falling for none of that shyt...I dated a chick with a kid once, not my cup of tea.....

So, I'm basically in between a rock and a somewhat fukked up place....

So now, the pickings for me are very slim. I have to choose between younger broads (who will be a pain in the ass indefinitely, plus age factor), or women my age who are pretty much ran through. I am NOT looking to get married, or fall into the trap known as the American dream.

Perhaps cougars will work better for me...but that shyt's seemingly once in a lifetime. Idk what to so honestly....:yeshrug:
 

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Brehs, I haven't chimed in here for a while, but I have to stress this again.

If you're looking for a gf or wifey type, go after a square chick. In the best relationship I've ever had right now with a "square" type. She's a PhD student who's introverted, intelligent, thoughtful, has a nice body but dresses modestly, into nutrition/fitness, doesn't club/party.....hobbies include reading, cooking, playing instruments.. and she's a virgin.

They say you only come across a few good ones in your lifetime, so when you meet one, don't fukk it up. I found one brehs.


Cosign, sorta sounds like my gf except she has a masters. My gf doesnt do clubs, only has a Facebook and hardly ever uses it. Great career, spends most of her free time reading and watching college football. Not into materialistic things. She is basically a hip nerd
 

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Went out with the ethopian chick lastnight. Sparked some loudpack and hit a comedy show. Went back to her crib and did the deed:yes:. Woke up around 9 and hit again:yes:.

She said im her 2nd body. Smh I can tell she inexperienced. Its gonna be hard to train her to fukk correctly.:sadcam:

ethiopian/eritrean broads got bangin bodies....so i know that broad must'a been :wow:
 
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