Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I been getting that itch to text my ex.....

I already know it's a bad move since she went and got a new boo (I keep thinking maybe I can duck again.. I doubt it tho lol)

Lemme just first say, since I cracked that one bytch like 2 or 3 weeks ago I thought the single life might be aiite...

I was wrong.... This shyt is dry as hell...

I'm pretty much just using dating apps when I get off work (pof/okc/tinder) and I already knew it these are some of the flakiest bytches I've ever met... I had something set up to fukk this one bytch and she bailed out and other ones lead to convo but not shyt else....


If I could rewind all this I would..

I would take all the issues I had with my ex and deal with that, than have to deal with all this single life flakey shyt....

At least when I had my girl I knew I had guaranteed p*ssy & plans on the weekend...

Now my weekends really ain't shyt..


Maybe playing 2k & drinkin hen with the guys if they ain't with their significant others, and they all got cuffed up recently too...

Idk... shyt been having me in my feelings

Reality is for some it's easier than others to build a roster
And also move forward in a timely manner
Forget ur ex let her be breh :pacspit:

Don't just use dating apps meet
Females at the random spots store movies library wherever
Just start up a convo see how it goes as u get better the easier it will be to pull females offline and online

Don't force the issue to meet people either just let it flow and come too u cuz when u do force it never works go with the flow breh

Dry spells happen to everybody some longer than others get use too it

Never said single life is rainbows shyt is not that good to most who aren't prepared for it don't know the game worry bout p*ssy too much can't talk to females properly or not ready to even to talk to females

Like with me every rare time I'm single it's like I never left cuz I know the game well
I don't give a fukk bout what these females think of me or what they want from me cuz they the ones that need to meet to my standards not the other way around
Also I don't mind doing things alone too
Workout, family, movies and games etc

I let it come too me so it's natural for me I don't force it
I'm confident not cocky
I'm blunt
No fukks given
So it appeals to them cuz it's truly who I am

Take ur time breh get over ur ex cuz ur not so it's gonna hinder u meeting females more than u know
Not saying u can't just chill let it come to u as u do u will notice a change in how women approach to u talk to u the quality coming to u and quantity
If I was in ur position I at best just have female friends to kick it with not expecting shyt won't even give them the thought I'm trying to smash and what ends up happening smashing as fukked up as it sounds
When u act thirsty and desperate they notice real quick but when u don't give em time OF day they wanna give up the goods don't matter what era or decade it's the same and it hasn't changed in the game since

Just keep focusing on u while
Meeting new people let it go from there
When u wanna chill be like u wanna go to movies or out to eat simple shyt or chill at my place Netflix
When u doing that good convo no sign of wanting fukk u be fine next thing u know they wanna do something
When u make ur roster it won't start
Off good unless u know what your doing it takes time breh but when u do it's glorious to have mvps and championship team to a dynasty

You'll be fine if u don't force the issue take ur time stop worry bout getting laid every so often reality is some do often some don't
Some have the gift while others have to be kawhi Leonard and build up to get that level and can do it quickly like him
 

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Reality is for some it's easier than others to build a roster
And also move forward in a timely manner
Forget ur ex let her be breh :pacspit:

Don't just use dating apps meet
Females at the random spots store movies library wherever
Just start up a convo see how it goes as u get better the easier it will be to pull females offline and online

Don't force the issue to meet people either just let it flow and come too u cuz when u do force it never works go with the flow breh

Dry spells happen to everybody some longer than others get use too it

Never said single life is rainbows shyt is not that good to most who aren't prepared for it don't know the game worry bout p*ssy too much can't talk to females properly or not ready to even to talk to females

Like with me every rare time I'm single it's like I never left cuz I know the game well
I don't give a fukk bout what these females think of me or what they want from me cuz they the ones that need to meet to my standards not the other way around
Also I don't mind doing things alone too
Workout, family, movies and games etc

I let it come too me so it's natural for me I don't force it
I'm confident not cocky
I'm blunt
No fukks given
So it appeals to them cuz it's truly who I am

Take ur time breh get over ur ex cuz ur not so it's gonna hinder u meeting females more than u know
Not saying u can't just chill let it come to u as u do u will notice a change in how women approach to u talk to u the quality coming to u and quantity
If I was in ur position I at best just have female friends to kick it with not expecting shyt won't even give them the thought I'm trying to smash and what ends up happening smashing as fukked up as it sounds
When u act thirsty and desperate they notice real quick but when u don't give em time OF day they wanna give up the goods don't matter what era or decade it's the same and it hasn't changed in the game since

Just keep focusing on u while
Meeting new people let it go from there
When u wanna chill be like u wanna go to movies or out to eat simple shyt or chill at my place Netflix
When u doing that good convo no sign of wanting fukk u be fine next thing u know they wanna do something
When u make ur roster it won't start
Off good unless u know what your doing it takes time breh but when u do it's glorious to have mvps and championship team to a dynasty

You'll be fine if u don't force the issue take ur time stop worry bout getting laid every so often reality is some do often some don't
Some have the gift while others have to be kawhi Leonard and build up to get that level and can do it quickly like him


Damn.. that's some real shyt...

I feel like your the popovich of this advice shyt breh...

Ima touch on all the gems you dropped tomorrow...

Appreciate it
 

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What happened breh? :ohhh: I need details.

My ex is literally the worst person I've ever met. So hypocritical, contradicting and flat out stupid. I could literally write a book on how ridiculous she was. But to keep it short and sweet, she wasn't an outgoing person. At least not anymore. From what she told me about her past she used to be. But she's 33 now and has a son so I guess that made her calm down. But even though she's not an outgoing person, I still found out a lot of shyt about her past just by digging up her past tweets and social media shyt. These hoes be sloppy. She tells me that I'm the only one she's ever been with since divorcing her husband (which wasn't true), and just all these other lies about her past that she expected me to believe. See, even though a chick ain't in the club like that, don't mean she not creeping. Social media is the new clubs/parties. She don't gotta leave the house to meet nikkas when nikkas in her DM every day. This girl ain't cheat on me or nothing that I know of (cuz I was on her like a hawk watching her every move, digital and non digital lol), but from what I seen from her dealing with her past dudes, she was a conniving hoe. She used to play nikkas left and right. Turns out I'm actually maybe the 5th or 6th dude she dealt with after her divorce, but she wanna tell me I'm the only one. She meets dudes through social media (just like how she met me)... That relationship was so exhausting. There was no trust (at least on my end for her). Could not trust her and just got tired of having to keep my eye on her.
 
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This Italian broad that I've hit in the past hit my DM last night during our conversation asking me if I know who this girl is on my page that's been liking/commenting on my shyt. :mjlol:I str8 bullshytted and said naw I don't (When I actually did fukk her a few times this summer. Mexican chick). I was asking her why she all curious out of the blue when the convo was going STEADY til SHE brought that up. Next thing I see, the bytch un-liked a couple of my IG pics (Which were mostly memes anyway) and then wants to say "I'm ok, I'm straight". Lately bytch been trying to pursue a serious relationship with me.

The funniest shyt to me about this situation is, I'm not even trying to fukk the Mexican bytch again. There's already another bytch I'm set to fukk soon. But, she is giving me that green light to say fukk it. :mjgrin:Keep in mind this Italian bytch bout to be like 32 this Friday and has a 4 year old son (She's a single mom).

This Mexican broad I fukked, I been known her for a few years via facebook (like 5 years ago). Met her a few times in some clubs within those years, but we ain't do nothing sexual. Just some ol' "hey, aren't you blah blah from FB?" and that's it. In late May, she hit my DM on facebook trying to catch up while I was at work one day. I hit her back. Chopped it up. Got her SnapChat and got it popping from there. Next thing you know she's inviting me to her friends apartment building and letting me smash in there. We still cool. She was 24 when I smashed and she just turned 25 bout 2 weeks ago. Has no kids whatsoever.

But the moral of the story here is, bytches be watching. Even when you think they don't.

 
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My ex is literally the worst person I've ever met. So hypocritical, contradicting and flat out stupid. I could literally write a book on how ridiculous she was. But to keep it short and sweet, she wasn't an outgoing person. At least not anymore. From what she told me about her past she used to be. But she's 33 now and has a son so I guess that made her calm down. But even though she's not an outgoing person, I still found out a lot of shyt about her past just by digging up her past tweets and social media shyt. These hoes be sloppy. She tells me that I'm the only one she's ever been with since divorcing her husband (which wasn't true), and just all these other lies about her past that she expected me to believe. See, even though a chick ain't in the club like that, don't mean she not creeping. Social media is the new clubs/parties. She don't gotta leave the house to meet nikkas when nikkas in her DM every day. This girl ain't cheat on me or nothing that I know of (cuz I was on her like a hawk watching her every move, digital and non digital lol), but from what I seen from her dealing with her past dudes, she was a conniving hoe. She used to play nikkas left and right. Turns out I'm actually maybe the 5th or 6th dude she dealt with after her divorce, but she wanna tell me I'm the only one. She meets dudes through social media (just like how she met me)... That relationship was so exhausting. There was no trust (at least on my end for her). Could not trust her and just got tired of having to keep my eye on her.

Of course a female gonna lie bout her damn past it's nothing new in rare cases she doesn't I mean rare
If u gotta be all up in her shyt to watch her like a hawk u already lost and should of cut your ties in the first place
Ain't no way in hell im doing that if we together
U should always be aware or have a sense u can't completely trust a female even if she is the best of best for back up reasons cuz it takes only 1 time for them to slip up and bam u can catch it easily
 

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This Italian broad that I've hit in the past hit my DM last night during our conversation asking me if I know who this girl is on my page that's been liking/commenting on my shyt. :mjlol:I str8 bullshytted and said naw I don't (When I actually did fukk her a few times this summer. Mexican chick). I was asking her why she all curious out of the blue when the convo was going STEADY til SHE brought that up. Next thing I see, the bytch un-liked a couple of my IG pics (Which were mostly memes anyway) and then wants to say "I'm ok, I'm straight". Lately bytch been trying to pursue a serious relationship with me.

The funniest shyt to me about this situation is, I'm not even trying to fukk the Mexican bytch again. There's already another bytch I'm set to fukk soon. But, she is giving me that green light to say fukk it. :mjgrin:Keep in mind this Italian bytch bout to be like 32 this Friday and has a 4 year old son (She's a single mom).

This Mexican broad I fukked, I been known her for a few years via facebook (like 5 years ago). Met her a few times in some clubs within those years, but we ain't do nothing sexual. Just some ol' "hey, aren't you blah blah from FB?" and that's it. In late May, she hit my DM on facebook trying to catch up while I was at work one day. I hit her back. Chopped it up. Got her SnapChat and got it popping from there. Next thing you know she's inviting me to her friends apartment building and letting me smash in there. We still cool. She was 24 when I smashed and she just turned 25 bout 2 weeks ago. Has no kids whatsoever.

But the moral of the story here is, bytches be watching. Even when you think they don't.

why a bytch looking at whos liking your photos and shyt? fukk is wrong with them?
 

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@twan83

I been getting that itch to text my ex.....

I already know it's a bad move since she went and got a new boo (I keep thinking maybe I can duck again.. I doubt it tho lol)

Lemme just first say, since I cracked that one bytch like 2 or 3 weeks ago I thought the single life might be aiite...

I was wrong.... This shyt is dry as hell...

I'm pretty much just using dating apps when I get off work (pof/okc/tinder) and I already knew it these are some of the flakiest bytches I've ever met... I had something set up to fukk this one bytch and she bailed out and other ones lead to convo but not shyt else....


If I could rewind all this I would..

I would take all the issues I had with my ex and deal with that, than have to deal with all this single life flakey shyt....

At least when I had my girl I knew I had guaranteed p*ssy & plans on the weekend...

Now my weekends really ain't shyt..


Maybe playing 2k & drinkin hen with the guys if they ain't with their significant others, and they all got cuffed up recently too...

Idk... shyt been having me in my feelings
this is pathetic.

go to the fukking mall on the weekend, open your mouth and approach a few women. it's close to christmas, girls are gonna be swarming up in that place either working or shopping.
next time you're at the grocery store, be on the lookout and if you see something attractive approach.
go to a bar one day with or without the homie, open your mouth and approach a few women.

if you get the number see where it goes. If you get rejected adjust your method and attempt with another.

rinse and repeat

its that simple. yall need to get it out of your minds that there are only certain places you can meet women. You gotta get comfortable and be willing to me them any and everywhere. The only excuse you have is if you're ugly or you live in a small city/suburban area where there arent people like that. Based on what you said earlier in a thread you seem to have a lot going for you so why wouldn't any of these women out here wanna fukk with you? It's distinguished nikkas like you settling for women that A) dont have much going for them outside of looks (maybe) and B) love playing games and treating their nikka like shyt ...that got the game fukked up. Why are you settling? Go for broke and find better. Come on man. I''m ashamed for you
 
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