Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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My mouthpiece can only get me so far. Cant keep inviting these broads back to my crib and my parents sitting in the crib like

Be careful what u wish for nikka I'm 22 with my own car crib but my game is inconsistent . I be lowkey jealous of n1kkaz that stay with their grandmama crib all day playing 2k and still got bytchess
 

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Of course a female gonna lie bout her damn past it's nothing new in rare cases she doesn't I mean rare
If u gotta be all up in her shyt to watch her like a hawk u already lost and should of cut your ties in the first place
Ain't no way in hell im doing that if we together
U should always be aware or have a sense u can't completely trust a female even if she is the best of best for back up reasons cuz it takes only 1 time for them to slip up and bam u can catch it easily

guys need to stop saying that. if ur not keeping an eye out on a woman who u find urself liking a lot, you're a complete and utter fool. keeping an eye out, even if she has given u no reason for it, will save ur ass from the potential shock if u were to find out she was creeping. that's how n1ggas end up killing women from temporary insanity cause they're walking around with that "oooo she's good to me. she cant possibly be creeping". then the find evidence to the contrary and go apesh1t.

back when i had the time to be running through multiple chicks. i was extremely nice to the women i called my girl but i was still creeping. if i can do it, i can only imagine women can do infinitely worse.
 

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guys need to stop saying that. if ur not keeping an eye out on a woman who u find urself liking a lot, you're a complete and utter fool. keeping an eye out, even if she has given u no reason for it, will save ur ass from the potential shock if u were to find out she was creeping. that's how n1ggas end up killing women from temporary insanity cause they're walking around with that "oooo she's good to me. she cant possibly be creeping". then the find evidence to the contrary and go apesh1t.

back when i had the time to be running through multiple chicks. i was extremely nice to the women i called my girl but i was still creeping. if i can do it, i can only imagine women can do infinitely worse.

Well i disagree cuz I think u misinterpreted it wrong also
I said like a hawk all up in her shyt is what I said if u going thru her phone all the damn time and email or facebook etc.... I stand by my statement
But if she laying her shyt around u go thru it outta the blue that is a diff story u ain't all up in her shyt all the time like a hawk
It's why I said can't completely trust a female especially if she good at keeping shyt at low take one slip up and the one time outta blue u do check and u find something well there u go if u don't then keep it moving for the time being and be happy with her

When u going thru her shyt all the time she eventually gonna catch on and then make it even harder to find out if she creeping on the low if u give her space and shyt she won't see it coming

This narrative saying utter fool always checking is unnecessary stress also too always up in her shyt and I can easily say if she is a good one and loyal one and u doing that she leave ur ass cuz u being insecure as fukk too and tired of u going thru her shyt too
I agree women are the goat to creeping and u should be aware even if she is treating u well cuz of potential shock trust I know been thru it but I feel hawking her ain't the way give her space and do that shyt outta the blue cuz she more likely to be relaxed and it be easier to do it then every so often
 

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guys need to stop saying that. if ur not keeping an eye out on a woman who u find urself liking a lot, you're a complete and utter fool. keeping an eye out, even if she has given u no reason for it, will save ur ass from the potential shock if u were to find out she was creeping. that's how n1ggas end up killing women from temporary insanity cause they're walking around with that "oooo she's good to me. she cant possibly be creeping". then the find evidence to the contrary and go apesh1t.

back when i had the time to be running through multiple chicks. i was extremely nice to the women i called my girl but i was still creeping. if i can do it, i can only imagine women can do infinitely worse.
That's too much unnecessary energy spent on someone else. If she cheats, creeps, whatever you just dead it and move on. Checking her Facebook wall, calling talking bout who you out with? shyt is insecure and lame
 

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That's too much unnecessary energy spent on someone else. If she cheats, creeps, whatever you just dead it and move on. Checking her Facebook wall, calling talking bout who you out with? shyt is insecure and lame

nah im not talking monitoring on the level the other poster was talking about. that's psychotic. im talking verifying the sh1t ur woman tells u from time to time. checking her history before u get too involved with her.

i think a lot of you guys just enjoy talking tough just for the hell of it. this thread didn't get this big because instructions on how to deal with women are that hard to follow. they're not. this thread is huge because guys who know better often find themselves doing things they shouldn't be doing...i.e. calling or texing an EX who doesnt want them. why do they do that? its not because they're stupid or aren't privy to the game. it's mainly because of emotions. it's because they let themselves get entangled in a very complex web of intense feelings with a chick who was toxic from the getgo. they buried their heads in the sands because the woman was doing some things they liked and they didn't want to be labeled "insecure" or "paranoid" for questioning the other things she did that they did not like.

the tough talking guys in here come here with the "man if a girl does this or does that to me, forget that, i'm out. i'm dumping her in an instant.". yeah, that's very easy to do if its at the beginning of the relationship. but when ur neck deep in the relationship (with a girl u really like, not some placeholder ur using just to pass time) and its 2 years in, all that tough man nonsense goes out the window.

the point of what i say and have been saying is very, very, very clear. Before you get urself deep with any girl., you must, i repeat, you must verify everything she tells u. get a solid picture of who she is before u get too deep. how do u get a solid picture? by checking her damn history. from time to time, glance at the conversations she's having with her friends about u. or at conversations she's having with guys. see if the girl is someone u ought to be dedicating time to.

if ur dating a girl for just under a month or two or even three, and she's showing signs of the unscrupulous nature...i.e. maintaining a list of guy friends and MAKING new guy friends, talking to exes, talking to you sideways in public, reckless eyeballing, its easy to end the relationship because these are signs that predict pure agony. but when u wanna play that don juan bullsh1t, u'll just be back in this thread crying over the same sh1t over and over again.

its best to find out a girl aint down for you within months of dating because u did ur due diligence than to find out years down the line that all this time, she was just using u to get over a dude who really did her dirty, or that, she's mentally screwed up and cant be satisfied by just one man.
 

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I was just thinking the other day.....

I am 33, but only have 3 bodies to my name. At this point, the "player" phase is out the window...So my 1st handicap is sexual inexperience....and I ain't got the will or funds to be paying for it....

Most women my age already have luggage, or looking to get some (looking for someone to "build" with, have children, blahblahblah)...

I'm single, and ain't falling for none of that shyt...I dated a chick with a kid once, not my cup of tea.....

So, I'm basically in between a rock and a somewhat fukked up place....

So now, the pickings for me are very slim. I have to choose between younger broads (who will be a pain in the ass indefinitely, plus age factor), or women my age who are pretty much ran through. I am NOT looking to get married, or fall into the trap known as the American dream.

Perhaps cougars will work better for me...but that shyt's seemingly once in a lifetime. Idk what to so honestly....:yeshrug:

Walk up on a college campus to one for the chicks there
 

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Went back and read some of my old posts in here :russ:

Main chick I was pursuing and pressing up on recently got married. The world/field was in so damn small I worked with her husband about a year after I was messing with her:lolbron:
 

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Went back and read some of my old posts in here :russ:

Main chick I was pursuing and pressing up on recently got married. The world/field was in so damn small I worked with her husband about a year after I was messing with her:lolbron:
Props on your avy
 

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Old exes n bytches that curved ya coming out da woodworks cuz it's cold outside, they bf sent em to da bushes, they lonely AND horny.

Now they blowing up ya phone n shyt.

That's why u shouldn't stress no bytch leaving CUZ THEY ALWAYS COME BACK.

:win:

My bad for da multi postings, I just had sum cheap liquor and I'm hype.
 

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nah im not talking monitoring on the level the other poster was talking about. that's psychotic. im talking verifying the sh1t ur woman tells u from time to time. checking her history before u get too involved with her.

i think a lot of you guys just enjoy talking tough just for the hell of it. this thread didn't get this big because instructions on how to deal with women are that hard to follow. they're not. this thread is huge because guys who know better often find themselves doing things they shouldn't be doing...i.e. calling or texing an EX who doesnt want them. why do they do that? its not because they're stupid or aren't privy to the game. it's mainly because of emotions. it's because they let themselves get entangled in a very complex web of intense feelings with a chick who was toxic from the getgo. they buried their heads in the sands because the woman was doing some things they liked and they didn't want to be labeled "insecure" or "paranoid" for questioning the other things she did that they did not like.

the tough talking guys in here come here with the "man if a girl does this or does that to me, forget that, i'm out. i'm dumping her in an instant.". yeah, that's very easy to do if its at the beginning of the relationship. but when ur neck deep in the relationship (with a girl u really like, not some placeholder ur using just to pass time) and its 2 years in, all that tough man nonsense goes out the window.

the point of what i say and have been saying is very, very, very clear. Before you get urself deep with any girl., you must, i repeat, you must verify everything she tells u. get a solid picture of who she is before u get too deep. how do u get a solid picture? by checking her damn history. from time to time, glance at the conversations she's having with her friends about u. or at conversations she's having with guys. see if the girl is someone u ought to be dedicating time to.

if ur dating a girl for just under a month or two or even three, and she's showing signs of the unscrupulous nature...i.e. maintaining a list of guy friends and MAKING new guy friends, talking to exes, talking to you sideways in public, reckless eyeballing, its easy to end the relationship because these are signs that predict pure agony. but when u wanna play that don juan bullsh1t, u'll just be back in this thread crying over the same sh1t over and over again.

its best to find out a girl aint down for you within months of dating because u did ur due diligence than to find out years down the line that all this time, she was just using u to get over a dude who really did her dirty, or that, she's mentally screwed up and cant be satisfied by just one man.

Nobody should be doing psychotic shyt checking people stuff in the first place

In the beginning I get what u saying especially if she keep making new guy friends

Some guys do actually tho :camby: their girl even if they been with their girl for a min I seen it and I right so talk tough and don't

Glancing at shyt to me isn't a big deal if she leave it out in open while taking a shower or going to bathroom every so often outta the blue

Especially if she all giggles while with u on her phone and wondering y
 

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Dating is all about who cares the least these days it seems :jbhmm:

Just one constant power play to see who has leverage :jbhmm:

Instant gratification insecure ass nikkas and bytches got 30 other options on deck so they got a short turnaround for some new p*ssy/dikk since they're afraid of getting hurt :jbhmm:

Our generation is fukked :jbhmm:

jahahahahahaha @dio.nova.vvs.*
 
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