Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Tenchi Ryu]

From what I seen dude got mandatory life about 12 yrs ago. I had just started humpin when he got locked up. Weird, cause makes me want to smash even more.


When old boy call home from the pen like snoop did in Baby Boy, I gotta hittem with the Pac line, "that's why I fukked you bytch."

If this nikka got connections and shyt, proceed with caution. Don't need to be dying over p*ssy breh.

 

[1thouwow]

This chick that I got her number like a month ago low-key giving me play

She look good and got kinda cool vibes but idk if I wanna pursue her. 2017 I'm tryna be picky and limited on who I entertain

 

[SouthSac916]

get her tested. at that age, (if shes beautiful), u can bet she's had an endless amount of d1cks that would horrify you.

I already thought of that. Just the execution. I'm thinking of the good ole trust me, I trust you let's get tested together jawn. She's a year younger the my moms so I always thinking she can just see the bullshyt. I met her less then a week ago, but I been wantin to fukk.

 

[Mr210]

Lots of beautiful women doing last minute shopping fellas

 

[1thouwow]

Lots of beautiful women doing last minute shopping fellas

Facts

 

[Turk]

All the convos I been having with chicks lately have been dead af. I've really stopped trying

 

[CW_1991]

Just handled a little situation I just had a little while ago and want to hear what you guys think.

I'll try to keep it quick. Met this pretty cool chick on an online dating site. She's 20 years old, no kids, works, but doesn't have a car and lives with her family. Also lives out of town (like 20 miles). Was established pretty early on that the whole meet-up would be strictly sexual. So anyway I take the time to go down to where she lives to pick her up, bring her to my crib to watch movies, chill, whatever whatever an Smash. She stayed quite a while and actually ended up cooking for us (nothing fancy just something to go with the movie). When everything was done I took her home and that was that.

So fast forward to tonight and we were supposed to arrange a time to chill over at my place again but when the conversation began about when was a good time she waited hours to get back with me about it and eventually I just didn't feel like bothering to go pick her up anymore. So I texted her that tomorrow would be better time and she didn't even respond to that for a couple hours and when she did it was via phone call. When I answered she was saying things like was I still coming to pick her up and when I told her that tomorrow would better because I wasn't really in the mood she just hangs up...

So to wrap this up, I texted her back after that saying I didn't like being hung up on like that and she said cool she won't call me anymore. Which to me is pretty audacious considering the entire context of the situation. So I simply added her number to The Blocklist and that's that.

What do y'all think of the situation? In my mind I feel like I handled it well.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Just handled a little situation I just had a little while ago and want to hear what you guys think.

I'll try to keep it quick. Met this pretty cool chick on an online dating site. She's 20 years old, no kids, works, but doesn't have a car and lives with her family. Also lives out of town (like 20 miles). Was established pretty early on that the whole meet-up would be strictly sexual. So anyway I take the time to go down to where she lives to pick her up, bring her to my crib to watch movies, chill, whatever whatever an Smash. She stayed quite a while and actually ended up cooking for us (nothing fancy just something to go with the movie). When everything was done I took her home and that was that.

So fast forward to tonight and we were supposed to arrange a time to chill over at my place again but when the conversation began about when was a good time she waited hours to get back with me about it and eventually I just didn't feel like bothering to go pick her up anymore. So I texted her that tomorrow would be better time and she didn't even respond to that for a couple hours and when she did it was via phone call. When I answered she was saying things like was I still coming to pick her up and when I told her that tomorrow would better because I wasn't really in the mood she just hangs up...

So to wrap this up, I texted her back after that saying I didn't like being hung up on like that and she said cool she won't call me anymore. Which to me is pretty audacious considering the entire context of the situation. So I simply added her number to The Blocklist and that's that.

What do y'all think of the situation? In my mind I feel like I handled it well.

No need to ask is you did the right thing ....IMO. Move on .

 

[Squirtle]

Took a girl out on a first date a last night had a great time. I'm gonna be in cali for a week out of curiosity when should I ask her for a second date upon my return from cali?

 

[Youseenmywork]

I will say it again open to women but don't be vulnerable they will never truly understand how to love a man.

 

[Nuke Dukem]

I got flaked on tonight and I'm trying to see if I handled it the right way...


Last weekend I took out a female to dinner & a movie.. the date was coo.. she was coo.. I enjoyed myself..

Middle of this week I set up a date for Friday..

We were gonna

-get dinner

- go look at lights at the zoo

-smoke & drink

Well the zoo plan got washed when we found out the shyt closed at 9pm...


So at 6pm I hit her up.. She asked what I had in mind since the zoo idea was dead.. I told her I wasn't sure but I'm bout to go pick up the weed from my guy and we can figure some out when I get there... she tells me be at her place by 8 n that she got an errand to run quick...


So I get to my guys round 7:15 grab the weed n start up 2k with him... my phone rings and its shorty

She said some goofy shyt like " I feel really bad but I'm sick right now and I'm gonna stay in, I don't wanna be all in your face when I'm sick"

All I said was " oh okay it's alright.. bye" and hung up with her..

5 mins later I get a text from her " damn I feel some type of way"..

I replied back "nah... don't ... it's coo.."


N haven't heard back from her since..


Back in the day I would've pushed the issue but now that I'm older if they're gonna flake they're gonna flake..

If a bytch really wants to see u she will... Even if there sick a lil bit (when I was dating my ex I'd still see her if she had a cold or whatever)..

So I'm not gonna force the issue when ultimately it's all in the bytches hands ...


I just wondered what the point of the text was after she already cancelled


And I think I might've scared her off by the simple fact that I didn't have a ACTUAL go out date set up and instead was just banking on smoking and drinking with the bytch... maybe she thought I was trynin to run game for some p*ssy... idk


@twan83

 

[Lo-Co]

All the convos I been having with chicks lately have been dead af. I've really stopped trying

i feel like im somewhat ready to just fold my hand. im genuinely trying yet. its just

cut em off and keep moving. thats all i can do.

 

[Lo-Co]

If a bytch really wants to see u she will

thats how i feel. i dont attempt to press things.

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

She said some goofy shyt like " I feel really bad but I'm sick right now and I'm gonna stay in, I don't wanna be all in your face when I'm sick"

All I said was " oh okay it's alright.. bye" and hung up with her..

5 mins later I get a text from her " damn I feel some type of way"..

I replied back "nah... don't ... it's coo.."

Sound like some shyt I went through, and no longer speaking to that person



You did all you could, she likely about to be in her "feelings" for you not magically responding how she wanted you to, all you can do is keep it pushing.

 

[CASHAPP]

Just handled a little situation I just had a little while ago and want to hear what you guys think.

I'll try to keep it quick. Met this pretty cool chick on an online dating site. She's 20 years old, no kids, works, but doesn't have a car and lives with her family. Also lives out of town (like 20 miles). Was established pretty early on that the whole meet-up would be strictly sexual. So anyway I take the time to go down to where she lives to pick her up, bring her to my crib to watch movies, chill, whatever whatever an Smash. She stayed quite a while and actually ended up cooking for us (nothing fancy just something to go with the movie). When everything was done I took her home and that was that.

So fast forward to tonight and we were supposed to arrange a time to chill over at my place again but when the conversation began about when was a good time she waited hours to get back with me about it and eventually I just didn't feel like bothering to go pick her up anymore. So I texted her that tomorrow would be better time and she didn't even respond to that for a couple hours and when she did it was via phone call. When I answered she was saying things like was I still coming to pick her up and when I told her that tomorrow would better because I wasn't really in the mood she just hangs up...

So to wrap this up, I texted her back after that saying I didn't like being hung up on like that and she said cool she won't call me anymore. Which to me is pretty audacious considering the entire context of the situation. So I simply added her number to The Blocklist and that's that.

What do y'all think of the situation? In my mind I feel like I handled it well.

All i would say is instead of just texting "I didn't like that"...I would have just not said a word and blocked her. Saying you didn't like that in a text after she hung up on you and was rude as fukk made you look weak in her eyes.

If she pulls some shyt like texting your or calling you from a different number though when she realizes she was blocked and pulls the "hey bighead" text just ignore her completely to redeem yourself.