Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Turbulent]

Okay based off that I'm going out and checking out some apartments today... lol


I'd have no problem bringing them here, it's just my family's on some goofy shyt...

Now my ex was always at the crib every weekend, stayed the night all that... Never no issues with family...

So after we broke up, a few weeks later I brought back this one bytch with the sole purpose of getting topped off...

So I bring the bytch in right...

As I'm bringing her to my room my OG is sayin

"Nuke Who's that... who is she ?!"

I keep pushing and get her into my room


Then my OG text me...

"Who's that female.. what's she doing here.. I don't want random females stayin the night over here"


Basically all this extra shyt I gotta deal with...

Otherwise yeah id be bringing em back here n goin in some guts

your OG is actually kind of right. getting into the habit of bringing random skeezers home will get you robbed or set up if do that after you moved out. just talk to her, kiss on her, etc basically get her hot and then just drive up to the hotel without saying a word. if she asks where you guys are going, just say something like I'm gonna get us a room. don't use the word motel or hotel AT ALL. don't ask if she would like to come with you. Don't get me wrong, if she says no, or doesn't seem sure, don't insist. but sometimes a chick will be into going to a cheap motel for 2 hours as long as it's not spoken.

 

[Deafheaven]

A girl you been married to for twenty years can have you set up to get robbed. Operating out of fear is never a good way to deal with women. If you don't trust her back at your crib or can't bring her your peoples then man maybe don't fukk her. I got to take yoru ass out attract you, AND spend more bread on a room to test drive your p*ssy? Naw miss with that. fukk her in your whip if anything.

 

[Rell Lauren]

If you don't trust a bytch enough to take her home why do you trust her enough to put your dikk in her

I agree and disagree. If you live with your family or have nosy ass roommates (common in NYC), that's enough to try to make the move at her place where you'll run into the same issues with her when it comes to roommates. Don't know many ppl with their own places in my age group.

Also depends on the type of chicks y'all mess with. I have a certain type so I would never feel uncomfortable having them over. Mess with a bird from the block, she knows where you live and if worse comes to worse, she can get you set up.

I've never been one for a motel or hotel because 1) it's low-key trashy and 2) why would I spend more on top of the date?

 

[Turbulent]

A girl you been married to for twenty years can have you set up to get robbed. Operating out of fear is never a good way to deal with women. If you don't trust her back at your crib or can't bring her your peoples then man maybe don't fukk her. I got to take yoru ass out attract you, AND spend more bread on a room to test drive your p*ssy? Naw miss with that. fukk her in your whip if anything.

i disagree with this respectfully. by this logic, you should either fukk raw or not fukk at all because if you don't trust her enough...it's a slippery slope. there's a difference between fear and precautions.

 

[Sharp]

The problem is that when you are a young man between the ages of 18 and 24, most of your free time is consumed chasing after p*ssy. What if I told you that the older you get, the easier it will become and soon women will be throwing sex at you?

It is definitely true. All you have to remember is to be patience and work on yourself. Do everything you need to do so that you can be successful and happy in your life. When you start approaching your late 20s and have your shyt together, women will be on your dikk. It doesn't matter how you look. With money you can dress nice and smell nice.

And you will have your pick of the litter. The women your age, the older women, and the younger women. Dudes be stressing themselves out in their early 20s over women that they are never going to wife anyway because these girls are in the "smut me out" phase. Getting their hearts broken by girls who have no intentions of being faithful because they are getting all of this attention from not only you, but men older than you.

But just like cars, the older they get, the less valuable they become. This is why you see a lot of women in their late 20s- early 30s washed up looking for a man to love them. lol.

 

[Deafheaven]

I agree and disagree. If you live with your family or have nosy ass roommates (common in NYC), that's enough to try to make the move at her place where you'll run into the same issues with her when it comes to roommates. Don't know many ppl with their own places in my age group.

Also depends on the type of chicks y'all mess with. I have a certain type so I would never feel uncomfortable having them over. Mess with a bird from the block, she knows where you live and if worse comes to worse, she can get you set up.

I've never been one for a motel or hotel because 1) it's low-key trashy and 2) why would I spend more on top of the date?

Yeah I only mess with semi square byrds so I'm never afraid of getting jacked or some shyt. I can get the parents don't want static at they crib and if thats the case might be time to not worry about girls for a while and build up to your own place. If you living with the folks you should already be stacking since I doubt they make you pay ludicrous rent. Puss isn't a necessity and more often than not it aint even worth the chase invested if all you want to do is smash that bytch.

 

[Turk]

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[Kal El]

Also depends on the type of chicks y'all mess with. I have a certain type so I would never feel uncomfortable having them over. Mess with a bird from the block, she knows where you live and if worse comes to worse, she can get you set up.

Dudes talking about be careful with these women because they'll set you up to get robbed... I'm thinking ya'll need to step up the quality of women you're dating if that thought even crosses your mind.

 

[Kal El]

1. AWALT - All Women are like that. There are no outliers, disillusion yourself quickly.
Love this thread, but the red pill bullshyt gotta go

2. Aloof game always works, just make sure to keep talking.
My homie has the non-chalant/aloof game down pat, but you have to be you. If you're a naturally charismatic dude, no need to try to be something you're not.

3. Try not to keep the agenda on getting laid, don't be thirsty, in fact, be like water....highly expensive water that she needs to invest in.
Agreed

4. They lie all the time, sure, everybody lies, but women are the most emotional/lying pieces of shyt on the planet. Nod your head and agree with heir false ideologies. It's all irrelevant.
Call women pieces of shyt brehs..... And yeah nod your head and agree if you're just trying to get laid. But don't be that agreeable, never wanting to get into an argument beta type if you want a relationship. Call her out on things you'd disagree with as if she were your homie. She'll have more respect for you as opposed to a dude who's alway agreeing with her.

5. Never spend any kind of money on a first date/night out. 10 dollar rule...never spend more than any of that on either you or her. Coffee is usually 1-2 bucks, stay on that course.
Generally I agree with this... First date is for getting to know someone. But if your finances are right, what you do with your money is your choice.

6. Make your time valuable (even if it really isn't), use key words or phrases like "Quick, I have to head somewhere after". Present yourself as someone with a life and schedule and she'll realize she needs to match you on le totem pole.
Agreed

7. Never call a chick beautiful and or gorgeous....lest you be part of the millions of thirsty dudes on her IG.
It's ok to do it sparingly..... but the more often you do it, the less power it holds.

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[360dagod]

Yall should have the no-tell motel number in your contacts....

When you chase the mind before you chase the p*ssy, everything will fall into place..

 

[J Money]

Brehs my texting game right now is trashhhh I swear Give a brotha some tips, I might just ask her on a date now fukk it

You definitely need to regularly talk to females to keep your game on point, I don't have the game I had in 2015 tbh because of lack of activity last year

 

[Rich Spirit]

Brehs my texting game right now is trashhhh I swear Give a brotha some tips, I might just ask her on a date now fukk it

You definitely need to regularly talk to females to keep your game on point, I don't have the game I had in 2015 tbh because of lack of activity last year

that's all you need to do. Only text to set up dates

 

[Turbulent]

Brehs my texting game right now is trashhhh I swear Give a brotha some tips, I might just ask her on a date now fukk it

You definitely need to regularly talk to females to keep your game on point, I don't have the game I had in 2015 tbh because of lack of activity last year

tip: like others have said, text a few times and make plans to meet then leave her alone. No need to make her laugh or be witty or impress her with how introspective you are via text.

 

[NeilCartwright]

Met a chick on New Years Eve eve, and linked up for coffee and lunch yesterday. Took her back to my place and got her undressed yada yada. Didnt fck or get the head but

She has a fat ass but shes a little chubby, you can tell my looking at her thighs and calves. Like BBW statusShe's mad cool, 24, said she wants to commit to someone etc but you can tell she wasn't the type to play sports in HS


Am I trippen? She had that thang up in doggy and i was thinking damn its been a min since ive been with a big booty bytch

Ive been lifting weights since i was 16 (22 now), should i eventually bring up the gym to her or just leave it alone

 

[J Money]

tip: like others have said, text a few times and make plans to meet then leave her alone. No need to make her laugh or be witty or impress her with how introspective you are via text.

that's all you need to do. Only text to set up dates

So I asked her out for drinks, she said she's actually seeing someone but she still wants to go for drinks

Don't know what to make of that, what y'all brehs think should I go or leave it ?

It's someone who I've known for a couple years but only just got back into contact with btw