Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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So I asked her out for drinks, she said she's actually seeing someone but she still wants to go for drinks :jbhmm:

Don't know what to make of that, what y'all brehs think should I go or leave it ?

It's someone who I've known for a couple years but only just got back into contact with btw
i think she wants to friendzone you or try to see how much she can squeeze out of you. Not saying you couldn't get her but it's gonna be a game. Translation: "there's this guy that I'm sleeping with regularly but yeah you can buy me drinks if you want." There's different ways to go about it but is it even worth it?
 

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So I asked her out for drinks, she said she's actually seeing someone but she still wants to go for drinks :jbhmm:

Don't know what to make of that, what y'all brehs think should I go or leave it ?

It's someone who I've known for a couple years but only just got back into contact with btw

I know how it feels to link up with someone you've known for a while, but I would fall back here.
 

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Met a chick on New Years Eve eve, and linked up for coffee and lunch yesterday. Took her back to my place and got her undressed yada yada. Didnt fck or get the head but :whew:

She has a fat ass but shes a little chubby, you can tell my looking at her thighs and calves. Like BBW status:skip:She's mad cool, 24, said she wants to commit to someone etc but you can tell she wasn't the type to play sports in HS:sadcam:


Am I trippen? She had that thang up in doggy and i was thinking damn its been a min since ive been with a big booty bytch:dead:

Ive been lifting weights since i was 16 (22 now), should i eventually bring up the gym to her or just leave it alone
Why no fukk? Id it because you weren't attracted? If so, don't even waste your time trying to improve a chick you are not even attracted to enough to fukk while tipsy.

I wouldn't bring up the gym unless she brings up her weight first
 

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Met a chick on New Years Eve eve, and linked up for coffee and lunch yesterday. Took her back to my place and got her undressed yada yada. Didnt fck or get the head but :whew:

She has a fat ass but shes a little chubby, you can tell my looking at her thighs and calves. Like BBW status:skip:She's mad cool, 24, said she wants to commit to someone etc but you can tell she wasn't the type to play sports in HS:sadcam:


Am I trippen? She had that thang up in doggy and i was thinking damn its been a min since ive been with a big booty bytch:dead:

Ive been lifting weights since i was 16 (22 now), should i eventually bring up the gym to her or just leave it alone

She's already down to fukk. You want a relationship with her or no? If not, there's no reason to talk about working out IMO.
 

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So I asked her out for drinks, she said she's actually seeing someone but she still wants to go for drinks :jbhmm:

Don't know what to make of that, what y'all brehs think should I go or leave it ?

It's someone who I've known for a couple years but only just got back into contact with btw
You can do the drinks thing but don't pay for her drinks
 

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Pretty much, plus if you improve a woman she will leave you because she thinks she can do better.

I'f I could get this breh when I was 200lbs well when I'm 150lbs I can get someone better.



Why no fukk? Id it because you weren't attracted? If so, don't even waste your time trying to improve a chick you are not even attracted to enough to fukk while tipsy.

I wouldn't bring up the gym unless she brings up her weight first
 

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Pretty much, plus if you improve a woman she will leave you because she thinks she can do better.

I'f I could get this breh when I was 200lbs well when I'm 150lbs I can get someone better.
:patrice:

Girl I've been seeing for 3 months is getting a gym membership so I can help her get toned. (her idea, not mine)

I'ma be improving too so :yeshrug:
 

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1. ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS be direct when dealing with women. Never leave what you say up for interpretation.

2. NEVER be ambiguous with a woman; THEY THRIVE on men who are not direct because it allows them to justify their fucc'ry if something goes wrong.

3. A woman should always know WHAT YOU WANT, WHEN YOU WANT, and HOW YOU WANT IT!!! NO EXCEPTIONS!
 

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So I asked her out for drinks, she said she's actually seeing someone but she still wants to go for drinks :jbhmm:

Don't know what to make of that, what y'all brehs think should I go or leave it ?

It's someone who I've known for a couple years but only just got back into contact with btw

She seeing someone but willing to go out to drinks with u
:camby: status unless u trying to hit it and quit scenario
Red flag like a motherfukker tho
 

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So I'm reading this Corey Wayne book and it reminds me of my general issues with pick up advice. Here are my thoughts so far:

-I already know most of this. I have no problems getting women... The advice I need is more nuanced. This book has a lot of beginner advice.
-This book (and most PUA advice) has too many hard rules and doesn't take into account individual style. Like I thoroughly disagree with rules on how much you should take (Corey says let the women do 80% of the talking) and how long you should wait to hit them up. I've always been able to differentiate myself with women because of how good a conversationalist I am. And I don't have time to be counting days to hit someone up.
-He repeats a lot of the same stuff. I don't know if it's to reinforce the point or to pad the length of the book.

I haven't finished it yet. Some of the stuff in the end seems more applicable to my life.

A lot of PUA advice is just empty rhetoric. Much of their solutions don't even apply to the real world.
 

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Aight brehs this is my story, my homies been telling me to fall back but :sadcam:

I met this girl and she's great. She's 5'5, wears a size 4, nice round bubble butt, dark-skinned, pretty face, voice is adorable, family is from Guyana, and she's a dancer. She's smart, conscious, respectful but a little naive and innocent. She's been in a long distance relationship with her current boyfriend for almost 5 years they've been dating since HS and they've been loyal to each other.

I met her in class we are both going in the same career path. I got her number and we started talking. The first weekend we car pooled to a party we didn't even get in because it got shut down. We decided to walk around campus and I told her I was feeling her, she told me she's sorry she has a BF. On that night we ended up talking for hours into the A.M. outside. Honestly I believe in karma and I didn't want to destroy her relationship I didn't want her under those circumstances. I was gonna fall back completely but we came to the conclusion that we would be "friends".

Fast forward a couple weeks and we're still texting regularly and walking together after class. I sometimes throw in little flirts and compliments in my texts but I have fallen back. My birthday comes up and she gets me a small teddy bear for my birthday (cute, I guess). I told her what I did for my birthday. I went to some party and got wild drunk and I told her I had bagged some shorties number to see her reaction. I really did get some shorties number. Anyway, she was noticeably jealous.

Fast forward we start hanging out more regularly in my room. Studying, watching movies, naps. Eventually shyt got intimate :steviej: there was times where she felt uncomfortable and told me she felt bad for her BF. Every time she came she told me it would be the last (she once even burst into tears) but she couldn't deny me and came back. At the beginning of winter break I see that she had stopped answering my texts. She told me she loved her BF, she's not going to leave him, and she's going to confess what had gone down. By the way she described her BF he's a simp and won't leave her. She told me she was sorry for leading me on, this was all her fault, and she just wants to be friends and things to be "normal". We talked a little for Christmas and New Years and we have 2 classes together next semester.

On the real me and this girl could talk for hours I feel a real connection with her.

I don't know if I should fall back or remain persistent in pursuit :jbhmm: :mjcry:
 

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Aight brehs this is my story, my homies been telling me to fall back but :sadcam:

I met this girl and she's great. She's 5'5, wears a size 4, nice round bubble butt, dark-skinned, pretty face, voice is adorable, family is from Guyana, and she's a dancer. She's smart, conscious, respectful but a little naive and innocent. She's been in a long distance relationship with her current boyfriend for almost 5 years they've been dating since HS and they've been loyal to each other.

I met her in class we are both going in the same career path. I got her number and we started talking. The first weekend we car pooled to a party we didn't even get in because it got shut down. We decided to walk around campus and I told her I was feeling her, she told me she's sorry she has a BF. On that night we ended up talking for hours into the A.M. outside. Honestly I believe in karma and I didn't want to destroy her relationship I didn't want her under those circumstances. I was gonna fall back completely but we came to the conclusion that we would be "friends".

Fast forward a couple weeks and we're still texting regularly and walking together after class. I sometimes throw in little flirts and compliments in my texts but I have fallen back. My birthday comes up and she gets me a small teddy bear for my birthday (cute, I guess). I told her what I did for my birthday. I went to some party and got wild drunk and I told her I had bagged some shorties number to see her reaction. I really did get some shorties number. Anyway, she was noticeably jealous.

Fast forward we start hanging out more regularly in my room. Studying, watching movies, naps. Eventually shyt got intimate :steviej: there was times where she felt uncomfortable and told me she felt bad for her BF. Every time she came she told me it would be the last (she once even burst into tears) but she couldn't deny me and came back. At the beginning of winter break I see that she had stopped answering my texts. She told me she loved her BF, she's not going to leave him, and she's going to confess what had gone down. By the way she described her BF he's a simp and won't leave her. She told me she was sorry for leading me on, this was all her fault, and she just wants to be friends and things to be "normal". We talked a little for Christmas and New Years and we have 2 classes together next semester.

On the real me and this girl could talk for hours I feel a real connection with her.

I don't know if I should fall back or remain persistent in pursuit :jbhmm: :mjcry:
U a highbridge nikka from the bronx where it get gritty yeah? Smash one time bro and stay friends..you can still fukk with her after fukking her:lolbron:




Nah jk, I'd say be direct with her. But it doesn't sound like y'all relationship wouldl work long term breh:francis:
 
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