Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Don’t Commit To A Woman With A Lot Of Male Friends
A woman who has a lot of male friends is bad news, for three reasons. First, her battalion of beef buddies is a leading indicator she’s an attention whore who won’t give up her whore ways just because she’s added a “serious” boyfriend to her roster of men.

Second, there’s something off about a woman who has as many, and more, male friends as female friends. She’s not comfortable with the company of her own sex because the demands of her avaricious sexuality, sumptuously fed by her male orbiters, has the opposite effect on women. It’s a good idea not to place your trust in a woman, or a man for that matter, who won’t, or can’t, cultivate same-sex friendships with the same care and enthusiasm shown toward opposite-sex friendships.

Finally, and most importantly, odds are she has slept with at least one of her male friends, and he laughs at you. Laughs? Yes. He pounded that p*ssy for free when it was younger, hotter, tighter while you pay exorbitant relationship fees to keep an older product past its obsolescence date. In fact, every time you’re at a social function with your heavenly angel and her twenty male friends, they’re all inwardly smirking that they tapped that twat before you got close to putting just the tip in, and counting their blessings that they’re not the schmuck forswearing all other p*ssy for the opportunity to lock down a social circle slut.

There was a good reason our high T forefathers and high E foremothers discouraged young women from hanging around “with the boys”. They knew it was bad for a girl’s reputation and her romantic prospects.
 

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brehs, any advice?

im just convinced that i am a fukk up when it comes to establishing a positive/non-toxic relationship with a woman. i have some career success with only potential for growth after i graduate, talented in the arts and well cultured, i dress well, in great shape, active social life, lots of friends and definitely one of the more popular people across my multiple friend groups. im even able to bag flings/one-night stands when i try so i know im not ugly (although i can get my grill fixed and plan on doing that within the year lol)

but relationships? 0 fukking success. i am to the point where im just gonna give up for now cause im tired of having the emotions from being rejected/stalled out interfere with my productivity for career goals i can very well achieve in the next 2-3 years. its like im trying to do the right thing constantly and the universe is just re-directing me to demonic territory

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Don’t Commit To A Woman With A Lot Of Male Friends
A woman who has a lot of male friends is bad news, for three reasons. First, her battalion of beef buddies is a leading indicator she’s an attention whore who won’t give up her whore ways just because she’s added a “serious” boyfriend to her roster of men.

Second, there’s something off about a woman who has as many, and more, male friends as female friends. She’s not comfortable with the company of her own sex because the demands of her avaricious sexuality, sumptuously fed by her male orbiters, has the opposite effect on women. It’s a good idea not to place your trust in a woman, or a man for that matter, who won’t, or can’t, cultivate same-sex friendships with the same care and enthusiasm shown toward opposite-sex friendships.

Finally, and most importantly, odds are she has slept with at least one of her male friends, and he laughs at you. Laughs? Yes. He pounded that p*ssy for free when it was younger, hotter, tighter while you pay exorbitant relationship fees to keep an older product past its obsolescence date. In fact, every time you’re at a social function with your heavenly angel and her twenty male friends, they’re all inwardly smirking that they tapped that twat before you got close to putting just the tip in, and counting their blessings that they’re not the schmuck forswearing all other p*ssy for the opportunity to lock down a social circle slut.

There was a good reason our high T forefathers and high E foremothers discouraged young women from hanging around “with the boys”. They knew it was bad for a girl’s reputation and her romantic prospects.

Cosign, my gf has 1 male friend who is her sister husband and that's because they have all known each other since high school
 

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brehs, any advice?

im just convinced that i am a fukk up when it comes to establishing a positive/non-toxic relationship with a woman. i have some career success with only potential for growth after i graduate, talented in the arts and well cultured, i dress well, in great shape, active social life, lots of friends and definitely one of the more popular people across my multiple friend groups. im even able to bag flings/one-night stands when i try so i know im not ugly (although i can get my grill fixed and plan on doing that within the year lol)

but relationships? 0 fukking success. i am to the point where im just gonna give up for now cause im tired of having the emotions from being rejected/stalled out interfere with my productivity for career goals i can very well achieve in the next 2-3 years. its like im trying to do the right thing constantly and the universe is just re-directing me to demonic territory

:francis:
i am kinda where you at. what have been the problems with your relationships...what do girls and your friends tell you?
 

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i am kinda where you at. what have been the problems with your relationships...what do girls and your friends tell you?

for girls i meet on tinder (4 in total): some first dates, not going past a couple texts afterwards. maybe sex on that first date tho. one girl really liked me after having sex first night but i could tell that we were on 2 different levels professionally and economically so i deaded it. she was cute and we had other stuff in common tho

for girls ive known long term: either im misreading signals or not aggressive enough or they are taken. they looooove to keep me around as a friend. i unfollow a lot of them on social media after they reject me and they still follow me, check on my pics, talk irl, invite to events. just nothing further. also hooked up with a classmate and we flirt from time to time but she moved :/

for a while ive thought that maybe im not as "ugly" as i think and that girls must think im a player or something cause i keep to myself but im always in fun shyt/having friends and that maybe it scares them off. but really im still on the edge of getting out of insecurity. i just have a lot of hobbies im good at that i want to be great at so i practice to stay occupied and that takes time. my friend says i should be more aggressive and just fukk hoes.

my main source of nonsexual/non-toxic affection has been from this older lady who is approaching sugar mama status. hooks me up with good conversation, funds, gifts, tickets and other shyt but no sex (which is fine with me cause shes in her late 30s anyway + in relationship)
 
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for girls i meet on tinder: some first dates, not going past a couple texts afterwards. maybe sex on that first date tho. one girl really liked me after having sex first night but i could tell that we were on 2 different levels professionally and economically so i deaded it. she was cute and we had other stuff in common tho

for girls ive known long term: either im misreading signals or not aggressive enough or they are taken. they looooove to keep me around as a friend. i unfollow a lot of them on social media after they reject me and they still follow me, check on my pics, talk irl, invite to events. just nothing further.

for a while ive thought that maybe im not as "ugly" as i think and that girls must think im a player or something cause i keep to myself but im always in fun shyt/having friends and that maybe it scares them off. but really im still on the edge of getting out of insecurity. i just have a lot of hobbies im good at that i want to be great at so i practice to stay occupied and that takes time. my friend says i should be more aggressive and just fukk hoes.

my main source of nonsexual/non-toxic affection has been from this older lady who is approaching sugar mama status. hooks me up with good conversation, funds, gifts, tickets and shyt but no sex (which is fine with me cause shes in her late 30s anyway)
is that what they tell you? that you're not aggressive enough?

eff speculating. find out from the girls themselves. They will pull a lot of mental gymnastics but reading between the lines can let you know what the real issue is.

I know for me...one issue is when I like a girl I can be too serious, romantic and shytt and it puts pressure on the girl. I'm only 25. So dating girls 20-25 i'm bound to run into women who are not looking for anything serious and want to have fun because A) they're scared of being heartbroken and B) dont wanna deal with the rules and regulations of relationships. And I have no problem with that. It's just that sometimes my behavior doesnt align with the fact that I would be fine just fukking a bytch, no strings attached.
 

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is that what they tell you? that you're not aggressive enough?

eff speculating. find out from the girls themselves. They will pull a lot of mental gymnastics but reading between the lines can let you know what the real issue is.

I know for me...one issue is when I like a girl I can be too serious, romantic and shytt and it puts pressure on the girl. I'm only 25. So dating girls 20-25 i'm bound to run into women who are not looking for anything serious and want to have fun because A) they're scared of being heartbroken and B) dont wanna deal with the rules and regulations of relationships. And I have no problem with that. It's just that sometimes my behavior doesnt align with the fact that I would be fine just fukking a bytch, no strings attached.
i told one of my female friends that i used to be a scumbag and she said she could never believe it

but, for the bolded: same af.

its like, damn, sex or relationship, i'd be cool either way, just let me know which way and ill stfu :damn:
 

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I got that smiley face and happy look from a chick a few years ago, she was my nephews teacher for the last two years in fact and I wasn't trying to cross that line. I ended up letting her know I liked her after she continued showing some interest and I feel like that was one of the worst decisions ever since she would keep on the doing the same smiley and happy shyt even though she said she had a boyfriend. I feel sorry for anyone who dates this bytch.


:lolbron:

Call a friendly upbeat woman a bytch because she rejected your advances brehs
 

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i told one of my female friends that i used to be a scumbag and she said she could never believe it

but, for the bolded: same af.

its like, damn, sex or relationship, i'd be cool either way, just let me know which way and ill stfu
:damn:
yup

cant expect girls to be forthcoming like that though. they dont understand how men work.
 

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@MilesTailsPrower @Asantehene

update

threw this woman in the bushes when i told her were going dutch when she invited me to go to boiling crab on her "cheat day" this sunday. (some seafood place where you buy pounds of crab, not worth the price IMO). The money isn't the problem, its what i stand for to be honest

When she kept bringing the topic about going to the restaurant i'm like "who youre going with? :mjgrin:" playing dumb as I'm setting up bushes for her to fall in. I know where she's headed


Her "with you duh :usure:"

Me: "Hmmm maybe, boiling crab is kinda expensive and not worth it "

Her "true, i just want carbs actually, rice, pasta maybe even wing stop"

in my head I'm thinking :dahell:, am i a fukking food bank to you, the audacity

Me: "you know were going dutch on that right? :mjgrin:"

Her: "what does going dutch mean? :lupe:"

Me: you don't know what going dutch means? :heh:, go ahead and google it"

Her: "so you mean pay half lol? *in a sarcastic tone*

Me: Correct :aicmon:, whats with the sarcasm though?

Her: no response for like 4 hours "there is no sarcasm lol, you said youre only there for good dikk and conversation right?

Me: yup, nothing wrong with that though, better than bad dikk and bad convo :smugdraper:

Her: didn't say anything was wrong

Me: no response, bushes activated and she's thrown in:camby:

bytch is so entitled and also without a job, no car, going to some expensive ass art school for no reason, grew up rich but family took a couple L's so now she's not where she's used to. she started bringing up all these expensive places to eat like she's my girlfriend when i CLEARLY told her I'm just here for good dikk and good conversation nothing more nothing less (literally verbatim).

Funny thing is she got some older nikkas who she's fukking with that she told me about, why don't you ask that older established nikka to take you out to boiling crab and not a 25 year old breh whose still building his foundation :hhh:


not gonna lie, first couple times we chilled i did pay for her shyt to but that was just out of KINDNESS smh, i normally don't even do that. but i fukked up rookie mistake


you give them an inch they want a mile :comeon:

I repeat
YOU GIVE THESE FEMALES AN INCH AND THEY WANT A MILES BREHS! :damn:

With that being said, i got a bad thick Guatemalan that i just signed to the practice squad :banderas:, her cousin linked me up with her, we shall see how that first date goes next week :win:

Reality is you bushed yourself.
 

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It's a numbers game but :damn:

Got like 4 ladies number over the weekend hit them to hang out no reply :mjcry:


What makes it worse when I get the number I'm building good rapport clowning and joking with them
Not really going stress about just keep shooting I love the game

Me and this one girl was texting back and forth I got busy and didn't reply til 4 hours later
I think she got pissed and didn't text back
 
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