its not what u say. its about how quickly u seize the moment and u jet the fucck outta there.
case in a point, a while back, i was shopping alone. for some reason, i was feeling myself on this particular day. anyway, im walking and i look ahead at this chick coming in the direction i was going. by the time i saw her, i figured she had already seen me but was going to act like she didnt. so im walking, and this whole time i was smiling lol. i never smile, but today i was. lol. so when i passed by her, i smiled even more and gave her one of these faces

and said hello, to which she timidly smiled back and then i went about my business. i forgot about it. i continued to shop.
when i got done shopping as i was leaving, we happened to cross path again. and this time, i decided to build on the lil foundation i had laid earlier with her. i saw her and said "ha, lol, we meet again. what's your name sweety" she told me. and i told her mine. and i went directly for the kill right after she told her name, i was like, so kathy, how about we exchange numbers. shes like sure. keep in mind, this is in the middle of a very busy mall. lol. folks were looking at me like damn, thats bold. but anyway, i pull out my phone, and i got her number. told her id hit her up later in the day so we can grab a drink.
she tells me, im gonna be at at so and so bar in a few minutes. why dont u come join me. i paused for a minute cause i really wasnt interested in going anywhere else except home. im a hermit. but im like sure. so i go to the bar. shes there. we chitchat for a minute. she tells me she has a man. in my head, im like "wtf". but still, i know women. she would fucck if i was about that business. anyway, we finished drinking, and we head our separate ways. the plan was to meet up later that night and do movies.
as i soon as i get home, she texts me on some "im doing a lil grocery shopping right now. im going to grab a couple of beers. why dont u come over and lets drink a lil before we go to the movies". so in my head, im like

"lol im bout to beat the breaks off this chick". she texts me the address to her apartment. i go in there, and she tells me she'd just gotten out the shower. she was wearing one of those tights. She was letting me feel all up on her booty. man, i wanted to fucck her so bad.
to make a long story short. i chose not to fucck her because 1. she has a man. 2. she invited a dude she'd only known for 3 hours to her apartment. granted, its a secured gated apartment. but still. 3. she has that kinda body that using a condom aint gon do justice to. but id be a fool if i fuccked her without a condom, given the scenario under which i met her. and since i dont like condoms, and i dont know this chick. i had to abort mission. we went to the movies, and i never did call her again.
point being, u need to be direct with these women. for beginners, i suggest u only kick it to women who give u the signal they want to be spoken to...ie. shes smiling, looking at u. if shes already doing that, and u walk up to her and drop a funny introduction, its a wrap.
what u do after u get them is up to you

. Stay macking, my friends lol