Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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so today right after i got out of the gym , i noticed this other chick who also goes to gym was leaving ..so i decided to cold approach her which is something i never do. I wouldnt say it went good
but it also didnt go totally bad. For some reason my mind blanked a few times plus we also live like in the same block but it seemed that i was trying to find out where she lives as if i was
some sort of stalker even though i was on my way home as well. Anyways, i told her to add me on instagram because my phone didnt have any power but she didnt :mjcry: which i wasnt
expecting her to add me after how our conversation went :russ: . It didnt go as bad as some stories i be hearing of guys approaching women. Just got to keep working on my mouth game.


Always say better to try than not try at all and live with that what if regret
To find out all u had to do was talk to her and u could of gotten a girl u wanted
Happens to often to brehs and don't realize it
A past girl sees u and u talking and she was like man wish we went out only if u asked I would of said yes
And u out here like :mjcry: inside and outside cuz u were too scared to take a chance

Worse thing a female will tell u is NO that's it
Rather hear NO then find out YES was a option cuz I was to bytch made to ask her out

Take a shot brehs u just might hit nothing but net or a game winner for a championship (meaning she ends up being ur wife in long run)
 

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Tinder filled with SJWs now. The only thing that's saving me from possibly getting any buns from there is not wearing a Trump hat. App is not what it used to be.
 

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When y'all cold approach what kinda things do y'all be saying to these women?

its not what u say. its about how quickly u seize the moment and u jet the fucck outta there.

case in a point, a while back, i was shopping alone. for some reason, i was feeling myself on this particular day. anyway, im walking and i look ahead at this chick coming in the direction i was going. by the time i saw her, i figured she had already seen me but was going to act like she didnt. so im walking, and this whole time i was smiling lol. i never smile, but today i was. lol. so when i passed by her, i smiled even more and gave her one of these faces :obama: and said hello, to which she timidly smiled back and then i went about my business. i forgot about it. i continued to shop.

when i got done shopping as i was leaving, we happened to cross path again. and this time, i decided to build on the lil foundation i had laid earlier with her. i saw her and said "ha, lol, we meet again. what's your name sweety" she told me. and i told her mine. and i went directly for the kill right after she told her name, i was like, so kathy, how about we exchange numbers. shes like sure. keep in mind, this is in the middle of a very busy mall. lol. folks were looking at me like damn, thats bold. but anyway, i pull out my phone, and i got her number. told her id hit her up later in the day so we can grab a drink.

she tells me, im gonna be at at so and so bar in a few minutes. why dont u come join me. i paused for a minute cause i really wasnt interested in going anywhere else except home. im a hermit. but im like sure. so i go to the bar. shes there. we chitchat for a minute. she tells me she has a man. in my head, im like "wtf". but still, i know women. she would fucck if i was about that business. anyway, we finished drinking, and we head our separate ways. the plan was to meet up later that night and do movies.

as i soon as i get home, she texts me on some "im doing a lil grocery shopping right now. im going to grab a couple of beers. why dont u come over and lets drink a lil before we go to the movies". so in my head, im like :banderas:"lol im bout to beat the breaks off this chick". she texts me the address to her apartment. i go in there, and she tells me she'd just gotten out the shower. she was wearing one of those tights. She was letting me feel all up on her booty. man, i wanted to fucck her so bad.

to make a long story short. i chose not to fucck her because 1. she has a man. 2. she invited a dude she'd only known for 3 hours to her apartment. granted, its a secured gated apartment. but still. 3. she has that kinda body that using a condom aint gon do justice to. but id be a fool if i fuccked her without a condom, given the scenario under which i met her. and since i dont like condoms, and i dont know this chick. i had to abort mission. we went to the movies, and i never did call her again.

point being, u need to be direct with these women. for beginners, i suggest u only kick it to women who give u the signal they want to be spoken to...ie. shes smiling, looking at u. if shes already doing that, and u walk up to her and drop a funny introduction, its a wrap.

what u do after u get them is up to you :smile:. Stay macking, my friends lol :mjpls:
 
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its not what u say. its about how quickly u seize the moment and u jet the fucck outta there.

case in a point, a while back, i was shopping alone. for some reason, i was feeling myself on this particular day. anyway, im walking and i look ahead at this chick coming in the direction i was going. by the time i saw her, i figured she had already seen me but was going to act like she didnt. so im walking, and this whole time i was smiling lol. i never smile, but today i was. lol. so when i passed by her, i smiled even more and gave her one of these faces :obama: and said hello, to which she timidly smiled back and then i went about my business. i forgot about it. i continued to shop.

when i got done shopping as i was leaving, we happened to cross path again. and this time, i decided to build on the lil foundation i had laid earlier with her. i saw her and said "ha, lol, we meet again. what's your name sweety" she told me. and i told her mine. and i went directly for the kill right after she told her name, i was like, so kathy, how about we exchange numbers. shes like sure. keep in mind, this is in the middle of a very busy mall. lol. folks were looking at me like damn, thats bold. but anyway, i pull out my phone, and i got her number. told her id hit her up later in the day so we can grab a drink.

she tells me, im gonna be at at so and so bar in a few minutes. why dont u come join me. i paused for a minute cause i really wasnt interested in going anywhere else except home. im a hermit. but im like sure. so i go to the bar. shes there. we chitchat for a minute. she tells me she has a man. in my head, im like "wtf". but still, i know women. she would fucck if i was about that business. anyway, we finished drinking, and we head our separate ways. the plan was to meet up later that night and do movies.

as i soon as i get home, she texts me on some "im doing a lil grocery shopping right now. im going to grab a couple of beers. why dont u come over and lets drink a lil before we go to the movies". so in my head, im like :banderas:"lol im bout to beat the breaks off this chick". she texts me the address to her apartment. i go in there, and she tells me she'd just gotten out the shower. she was wearing one of those tights. She was letting me feel all up on her booty. man, i wanted to fucck her so bad.

to make a long story short. i chose not to fucck her because 1. she has a man. 2. she invited a dude she'd only known for 3 hours to her apartment. granted, its a secured gated apartment. but still. 3. she has that kinda body that using a condom aint gon do justice to. but id be a fool if i fuccked her without a condom, given the scenario under which i met her. and since i dont like condoms, and i dont know this chick. i had to abort mission. we went to the movies, and i never did call her again.

point being, u need to be direct with these women. for beginners, i suggest u only kick it to women who give u the signal they want to be spoken to...ie. shes smiling, looking at u. if shes already doing that, and u walk up to her and drop a funny introduction, its a wrap.

what u do after u get them is up to you :smile:. Stay macking, my friends lol :mjpls:

Thanks for the reply, I get this shyt so much from women but always fukk up overthinking things.:snoop:
 

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My cousin is freaked out, he cummed inside of his girl for the first time on wednesday night, well he noticed that on her birth control pills that she never took the Wednesday pill, but did take the Thursday and Friday pill.

What's the chances she gets pregnant?

100/100 your cousin gonna dump her body somewhere :lolbron:
 

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When y'all cold approach what kinda things do y'all be saying to these women?

Anything that comes to my mind. "Aye I saw you over there and you look really good.. so I had to see what you were about.." or "how do you feel about giving head" comes to my mind. I don't use pick up lines or anything like that. i never get numbers or a yes. Just "I'm married, why do you need to know my name? And I had a bf.." fukk it atleast I approach a chick then go home with my dikk hand wondering :gucci:
 

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When y'all cold approach what kinda things do y'all be saying to these women?
I was hooping with my two homeboys Friday. We waiting to play and some chick was leaving with a guy she came to watch hoop or some shyt.

He just caught up to her and told her he had to tell her she looked beautiful, yada yada. After that I'm assuming he said some shii like "You got a # right? I'll text you"

Have the time with approaching it doesn't even matter what you say if the the girl thinks you look good.

Would you care if a chick who looked like Kelly Rowland came up on you stuttering trying to have a conversation. You'd look past it bc she's attractive
 
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Stop forcing communication with hoes, mane.

Yea, you're trying to get your dikk wet, but before you even do that, the communication gotta be SOME kind of steady. IDK how to explain it in detail, but nikkaz need to learn how to speak up mane. This was an issue for me in early life. I've gotten over that bump year by year.
 

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What are some qualities you look for in a wifeable woman?

Ive got some women im dealing with. And in my mind im like "Yea id fck, but i cant see myself long term with this person. Id get tired of waking up next to them everyday."

Like they look good enough to get their back blown out but not relationship material. What makes a woman wifeable to yall?

How do you get a chicks to be down to smash. fukk all that wife/gf shyt
 

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:myman: thanks so much, I'll keep you in the loop for sure

Sometimes, insist for paying. Even if she makes more than you, pay for the meal on some occasions. Even millionnaires like when someone give them a gift. It's a matter of pride and etiquette as a man.

Of course, I'm saying this if you're entertaining the idea of getting serious with her.
 
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