Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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IM MAXIM #199 – Sometimes destruction must precede creation in order for the optimal to be born anew. In this vein and given sufficient skill, man can destroy woman to rebuild her into his desired image, yet if woman is allowed to destroy man, know this: she will leave him to rot.
 
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IM MAXIM #191 – In a crisis your first concern should not be to fix the problem, but to handle her emotional state. Once her emotions have been handled, it is then and only then she will allow you to address the problem, for until her emotions have been managed, she will be uncooperative and do little but panic and whine.
 
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IM MAXIM #181 – You never get a break with women. If you choose poorly, she will be entitled, arrogant and demanding. She can be put in her place, but she will rebel often. If you choose a quality woman, she will be insecure and needy. Either way she is emotionally erratic, and thus either way, she will test you unrelentingly to feel the authoritative security of your dominance.
 

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@twan83 please tell me if I fukked up lol..

So there's a new girl at the job, that just came out here with her sister from North Carolina, and both are military (sister is active, she's reserve)

So I seen her at work and got to talking to her..

Ended up finding out she lived in the same sub division and about 400 ft away lol..

So on Saturday night me and my guy went over there, we're drinking , got music playing.. I got shorty grinding on me, and I'm gripping ass cheeks, and basically just vibing..

So today I asked her if she wanted to go catch a movie, and we did... we were cuddled up in the movie theatre and all that..

So I take her home and get out and give her a hug goodbye but DIDNT go for the kiss but I did grab a hand full of ass again..

Now since

- she lives 400 ft away

- she works with me

- I literally first spoke with her on Friday


I felt like there wasn't really a huuuuge rush , and tonight she was also telling me how she's gonna have the house all to herself I think this weekend coming up since her sister has to fly back out to Carolina for a few days, so I'm thinking maybe that's when I'll go for it if I kick it with her then..


Did I fukk up not going for it asap or is it cool I'm taking it sorta slow..

U don't have to rush for kiss breh ur good everyone has their own pace but I will say this if a female really puts it out there for u to do it and u don't do it she will :camby: u

But as another poster said another work female be smart breh
Learn from ur past mistakes so u don't repeat them again
 
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Never stress yourself acting like you HAVE to have a fukking child in the moment. You don't. Wait it out. Remember the ages your own parents had you, mane. For me, I was born in 88 in October. My momz was 39, my dad was 35.

My folks been married 31 years now going on 32 this year. I'm likely going that route and embracing it. I'm 28 now going on 29. In shape. Hitting up the gym, been in the best shape in my life so far and trying to improve it further. If something pops off for me and becomes genuine, I'm wit it. By the time you're past 25, you should already know who's on some real or fukk shyt. Most men naturally get better senses with age unless you're just a str8 up fukk nikka with a brain full of mush.



 

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@Youseenmywork ........

I hadn't until now........

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@twan83 please tell me if I fukked up lol..

So there's a new girl at the job, that just came out here with her sister from North Carolina, and both are military (sister is active, she's reserve)

So I seen her at work and got to talking to her..

Ended up finding out she lived in the same sub division and about 400 ft away lol..

So on Saturday night me and my guy went over there, we're drinking , got music playing.. I got shorty grinding on me, and I'm gripping ass cheeks, and basically just vibing..

So today I asked her if she wanted to go catch a movie, and we did... we were cuddled up in the movie theatre and all that..

So I take her home and get out and give her a hug goodbye but DIDNT go for the kiss but I did grab a hand full of ass again..

Now since

- she lives 400 ft away

- she works with me

- I literally first spoke with her on Friday


I felt like there wasn't really a huuuuge rush , and tonight she was also telling me how she's gonna have the house all to herself I think this weekend coming up since her sister has to fly back out to Carolina for a few days, so I'm thinking maybe that's when I'll go for it if I kick it with her then..


Did I fukk up not going for it asap or is it cool I'm taking it sorta slow..
Some of y'all just don't learn huh..
 
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