Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Deafheaven]

Yall every tried putting a woman in "timeout"?

Like say shes acting cool one week and shyt testing you by acting funny the next. Yall ever not contact her and let her come crawling back? I think Ive seen something similar to this posted before

Well I tried this. She hit me up out of the blue and has been better in the conversations and texting back quikker.

Also giving myself the upper hand, since shes not playing games for now, by not texting her back for a day at a time or giving her only 2-3 replies per day. Its working so far

i do this. you should only really use the phoen for logistics anyway unless thats your girl girl and even then if she starts acting funny for w/e reason take that away and let her come to you or make her wonder why you taking so long ot reply. a man should have infinite patience.

 

[Deafheaven]

@twan83 please tell me if I fukked up lol..

So there's a new girl at the job, that just came out here with her sister from North Carolina, and both are military (sister is active, she's reserve)

So I seen her at work and got to talking to her..

Ended up finding out she lived in the same sub division and about 400 ft away lol..

So on Saturday night me and my guy went over there, we're drinking , got music playing.. I got shorty grinding on me, and I'm gripping ass cheeks, and basically just vibing..

So today I asked her if she wanted to go catch a movie, and we did... we were cuddled up in the movie theatre and all that..

So I take her home and get out and give her a hug goodbye but DIDNT go for the kiss but I did grab a hand full of ass again..

Now since

- she lives 400 ft away

- she works with me

- I literally first spoke with her on Friday


I felt like there wasn't really a huuuuge rush , and tonight she was also telling me how she's gonna have the house all to herself I think this weekend coming up since her sister has to fly back out to Carolina for a few days, so I'm thinking maybe that's when I'll go for it if I kick it with her then..


Did I fukk up not going for it asap or is it cool I'm taking it sorta slow..

why take shyt slow? I never understand this with nikkas. you obviously find ol girl attractive and want to fukk her why are you putting up so many unneeded hurdles to it. I also go for the kiss first time I'm chilling with a girl because that shows you think "I know I'm good enough for you" now she can reciprocate or not but at the least you know whats up right then and there. I've never had a girl straight up refuse or give me the cheek or anything but if they did they number deleted because she just not into me. Women nowadays think a kiss is damn near more intimate than sex so you juking with ol girl don't really mean shyt right now. it doesn't seem like you in a bad spot or anything but all this guess work you have now could have been quelled by going for a kiss.

 

[Bald Head Ba$tard]

why take shyt slow? I never understand this with nikkas. you obviously find ol girl attractive and want to fukk her why are you putting up so many unneeded hurdles to it. I also go for the kiss first time I'm chilling with a girl because that shows you think "I know I'm good enough for you" now she can reciprocate or not but at the least you know whats up right then and there. I've never had a girl straight up refuse or give me the cheek or anything but if they did they number deleted because she just not into me. Women nowadays think a kiss is damn near more intimate than sex so you juking with ol girl don't really mean shyt right now. it doesn't seem like you in a bad spot or anything but all this guess work you have now could have been quelled by going for a kiss.

THANK YOU.....and also in reply to the OTHER homies post, yea you fukkED up.

 

[Bald Head Ba$tard]

@twan83 please tell me if I fukked up lol..

So there's a new girl at the job, that just came out here with her sister from North Carolina, and both are military (sister is active, she's reserve)

So I seen her at work and got to talking to her..

Ended up finding out she lived in the same sub division and about 400 ft away lol..

So on Saturday night me and my guy went over there, we're drinking , got music playing.. I got shorty grinding on me, and I'm gripping ass cheeks, and basically just vibing..

So today I asked her if she wanted to go catch a movie, and we did... we were cuddled up in the movie theatre and all that..

So I take her home and get out and give her a hug goodbye but DIDNT go for the kiss but I did grab a hand full of ass again..

Now since

- she lives 400 ft away

- she works with me

- I literally first spoke with her on Friday


I felt like there wasn't really a huuuuge rush , and tonight she was also telling me how she's gonna have the house all to herself I think this weekend coming up since her sister has to fly back out to Carolina for a few days, so I'm thinking maybe that's when I'll go for it if I kick it with her then..


Did I fukk up not going for it asap or is it cool I'm taking it sorta slow..

Mane, AND you're from CHICAGO too??? Come on, mane.....

if the opportunity is right there in front of you, the only thing that's stopping you from pursuing it is your own brain logic. Anytime I'm kicking it with a bytch that I HAVEN'T fukked yet, I'm clearly trying to see what that p*ssy/mouth do. When you HAVEN'T fukked, you have to make a move letting her know you're not some p*ssy ass nikka....Not saying you are, but PERCEPTION is everything to people. Men and women. Don't give off that kind of vibe.

If She invites you to kick it with her, TAKE ADVANTAGE. No matter if the conversation is happening on facebook or in real life. The 1st time you kick it with a bytch is what they remember the most....they remember if you were a a scared nikka that didn't want to take her p*ssy or if you were a nikka that took the p*ssy. bytches can say alot of dumb shyt, but they remember shyt, mane....don't think that they don't....

 

[MollyGalaga]

talked to a couple of women today , and it's occurred to me that i should find a balance in what i say

i come off as boring sometimes, but i dont like being "nerdy"

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

Funny it seemed like I had outgrown this board sometimes but I'll take a stab at posting in here from time to time.

Yall know me, if not, 30 but looks 20, young daughter, good job, townhouse crib, decent whip.

Just dropped my ex after the new year for being stagnant and needy. Taking time to stack bread but being in the A and being an extrovert I meet women by accident.

Will give insight when I can and post my encounters when they come.

 

[True Blue Moon]

Funny it seemed like I had outgrown this board sometimes but I'll take a stab at posting in here from time to time.

Yall know me, if not, 30 but looks 20, young daughter, good job, townhouse crib, decent whip.

Just dropped my ex after the new year for being stagnant and needy. Taking time to stack bread but being in the A and being an extrovert I meet women by accident.

Will give insight when I can and post my encounters when they come.

Random question, but how is the situation raising your daughter having broken up with her mother? I ask because my wife has been talking kids lately so we'll probably have one in the next couple of years. Of course, I'm not planning on us splitting up, but ever since we've started thinking about it, I'm more sensitive to stories of people raising kids apart from each other and end up mentally putting myself in that situation to wonder how it would play out.

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

Random question, but how is the situation raising your daughter having broken up with her mother? I ask because my wife has been talking kids lately so we'll probably have one in the next couple of years. Of course, I'm not planning on us splitting up, but ever since we've started thinking about it, I'm more sensitive to stories of people raising kids apart from each other and end up mentally putting myself in that situation to wonder how it would play out.

At first you might drive yourself crazy, especially when there's a new dude in your ex's life. I was over my BM, but I didn't want my daughter thinking some other nikka was daddy.

I used to call a bit too much and try to have my daughter even when it wasn't convenient. Wasn't til mom dukes told me "Chill out. She's not kidnapped. She knows who daddy is." Then i chilled and my daughter definitely knows the deal.

Communication is key and we still get into petty shyt like who pays for what and days with our kid but it's all about co-parenting.

 

[Bald Head Ba$tard]

talked to a couple of women today , and it's occurred to me that i should find a balance in what i say

i come off as boring sometimes, but i dont like being "nerdy"

Expanding the vocab helps. But, what really helps is being quicker and wittier with responses.


nikka DON'T YOU EVER fukk AROUND!

 

[True Blue Moon]

At first you might drive yourself crazy, especially when there's a new dude in your ex's life. I was over my BM, but I didn't want my daughter thinking some other nikka was daddy.

I used to call a bit too much and try to have my daughter even when it wasn't convenient. Wasn't til mom dukes told me "Chill out. She's not kidnapped. She knows who daddy is." Then i chilled and my daughter definitely knows the deal.

Communication is key and we still get into petty shyt like who pays for what and days with our kid but it's all about co-parenting.

Nothing like having your mom tell you some real shyt. That's what's up bruh. Glad y'all were able to find that sweet spot. Kids take everything in life up a notch.

 

[DaHNIC82]

Another thing is when a chick offers the "lets be friends first" option.. Reject that shyt.

Understand what a woman's meaning behind what a friend is. A woman meaning of a friend is someone that she's nice too whenever she sees him. Men think "Oh we're still gonna kick it, hang out, and eventually she'll see that she wanna get with me"

Most of the time, Its usually not the case. Ask that broad to do what friends normally would do, Like go out for ice cream, go to a movie, go to skating, or take a trip and watch how many bullshyt excuses she would give out as if you still trying to holler at her.

 

[Jack Michaelson]

Another thing is when a chick offers the "lets be friends first" option.. Reject that shyt.

Understand what a woman's meaning behind what a friend is. A woman meaning of a friend is someone that she's nice too whenever she sees him. Men think "Oh we're still gonna kick it, hang out, and eventually she'll see that she wanna get with me"

Most of the time, Its usually not the case. Ask that broad to do what friends normally would do, Like go out for ice cream, go to a movie, go to skating, or take a trip and watch how many bullshyt excuses she would give out as if you still trying to holler at her.

Real shyt.

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

Been in 3 relationships before 30 where i shacked up with a woman.

I feel like ive had 3 divorces.

The new goal is 18-24 months of freedom and not looking for anything serious. Yes ill holla but i wanna get my money right and do some self improvement before i get serious again.

 

[Youseenmywork]

I almost for got ....

 

[Stan Winters]

Her titties pierced....now i dont take her seriously....am i wrong?