Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Youseenmywork
KING
Any brehs got some books on body language they recommend? Im bout to start hitting the gym to get my body right. Eating healthier gonna be tricky. Just tryna get my confidence back before i really jump back in the game. Damn its alot of pages in this thread to read
Youseenmywork
KING
Marlostanfield.
High On That Ray Charles
You can't hide nothing from a female if detectives and investigators was all females everybody would go to jail
Being newly single I need to work on myself and being in Atlanta i need to always be on my shyt.
Went to a restaurant for a pickup order after moving in my new spot and started a convo with a pretty server but I was lookin kinda bummy.
Got her number and she texted me her name then i told her to hit up when she got off and didnt hear anything after that.
This is the 2nd time ive gotten the # and it doesn't go further than that. Gotta figure out what my issue is but im gonna keep shooting my shot.
Went to a restaurant for a pickup order after moving in my new spot and started a convo with a pretty server but I was lookin kinda bummy.
Got her number and she texted me her name then i told her to hit up when she got off and didnt hear anything after that.
This is the 2nd time ive gotten the # and it doesn't go further than that. Gotta figure out what my issue is but im gonna keep shooting my shot.
Womb Raider
5* Gooneral
brehs, I've been torn between trying to make shyt work with my ex and moving on with someone new for the past 3 months
literally tried to make my decision by blocking the new girl and focusing on my ex but I can't get over the fact that we resent each other so much. she wants me to be selfless and fix all the shyt that I did before she will accept responsibility and do the same for me, which is bullshyt because when has selfish shyt like that ever helped a relationship? we just gonna get back to the same phase of us holding shyt in until we get mad and then having a big ass argument. we've had this talk about 3-4 times where she guilt trips me into trying to make shyt work again. I think my final decision is moving on with the new girl....she respects me so far and I feel like shyt just isn't going to change with my ex. now I gotta earn the new girls trust because I sent her a long ass text about not knowing where my heart is and I blocked her on everything
literally tried to make my decision by blocking the new girl and focusing on my ex but I can't get over the fact that we resent each other so much. she wants me to be selfless and fix all the shyt that I did before she will accept responsibility and do the same for me, which is bullshyt because when has selfish shyt like that ever helped a relationship? we just gonna get back to the same phase of us holding shyt in until we get mad and then having a big ass argument. we've had this talk about 3-4 times where she guilt trips me into trying to make shyt work again. I think my final decision is moving on with the new girl....she respects me so far and I feel like shyt just isn't going to change with my ex. now I gotta earn the new girls trust because I sent her a long ass text about not knowing where my heart is and I blocked her on everything
from personal experience. a relationship with a ex like that is never going to pan out. Its too much bad history and precedent. Its much easier to take those mistakes you made with your ex and don't repeat them with new women. Because at one point your ex looked at you like superman (which is probs where the new chick was at b4 you blocked her) and because of w/e mistakes you made in the relationship that aura slowly chipped away and its impossible to get it back. Its much easer to get a new girl, be her superman and just make less mistakes to preserve that. I wasted a loooootttt of time on my ex when I should have deaded the shyt the first time we broke up.brehs, I've been torn between trying to make shyt work with my ex and moving on with someone new for the past 3 months
literally tried to make my decision by blocking the new girl and focusing on my ex but I can't get over the fact that we resent each other so much. she wants me to be selfless and fix all the shyt that I did before she will accept responsibility and do the same for me, which is bullshyt because when has selfish shyt like that ever helped a relationship? we just gonna get back to the same phase of us holding shyt in until we get mad and then having a big ass argument. we've had this talk about 3-4 times where she guilt trips me into trying to make shyt work again. I think my final decision is moving on with the new girl....she respects me so far and I feel like shyt just isn't going to change with my ex. now I gotta earn the new girls trust because I sent her a long ass text about not knowing where my heart is and I blocked her on everything
Dreamzeedream
Banned
I join the coli back in 2012, just reading this post i see u hace come sling way from the things you use to preach ."A Man that Finds a wife finds a Good thing"I had a substantial amount of debt brehs , when I mean substantial I mean substantial incurring interest at a high rayev, since I'm getting married I told my fiance not knowing what to expect.
She gave me the money brehs.
She gave me the money to pay it off
Of course I'm going to pay her back but
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Womb Raider
5* Gooneral
well it looks like I can still move on with the other girl, I'm actually gonna hang with her tonight and get something for her sister who just came home from a mental health facility.
I gotta actually cut off my ex, tho. I'm done wasting time on something I really don't believe I can fix.
For one, don't kick it to chicks on their job. It's not fair to them. They have to be nice to u. The ones who like u will give very verbose responses to whatever it is u decide to talk to them about. But it's just a shaky situation.Being newly single I need to work on myself and being in Atlanta i need to always be on my shyt.
Went to a restaurant for a pickup order after moving in my new spot and started a convo with a pretty server but I was lookin kinda bummy.
Got her number and she texted me her name then i told her to hit up when she got off and didnt hear anything after that.
This is the 2nd time ive gotten the # and it doesn't go further than that. Gotta figure out what my issue is but im gonna keep shooting my shot.
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reserved_one
#Ambivertgang
I never thought of it from that perspective. I guess that could be true
. Just from my experience, girls that gave it up off the rip to me turn out to either be hoes or not long term options.I've shown signs of me liking her on plenty occassions without kissing her. If she isn't attracted to me doesn't see me as a serious option than I guess its
Marlostanfield.
High On That Ray Charles
Whatever you give she will make greater
I think I'm more comfortable speaking to older women 
thats because they realize playing games gets them no where. so in the olden years, they are more willing to succumb to a mans authority.I think I'm more comfortable speaking to older women
Maybe...I'm not going around chatting up every broad left and right but in my few awkward attempts at small talk, more often then not they're 10+ years older. Between growing up social media getting gassed up and the likelihood that I need to fit into a box for them, it's just a whole another level of discomfort and apathy about saying anything to females in their 20s. I don't feel pressure to live up to a concept (except for one) with older women. But of course I still have obstacles with cougars so
the solitude is still necessary for now