Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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brehs I just signed up for a new boxing gym for group training its 90% women in there and they are all in shape:whoo: in the same complex there photography classes and other hobbies its full of women, yall really need to step outside of your comfort zone and meet people from different walk of life if you're looking for different results
 

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to add on a chick is only gonna fukk you if she feels comfortable and secure. So like asking them to blow you within the first ten minutes usually doesn't make them comfortable :mjlol: mundane shyt about their lives, dreams, passions etc and being able to remember something she said is what builds comfort. Women love to talk about themselves and the less you talk the more mysterious and shyt you are. It all sounds dumb as shyt but this is what works :yeshrug: women literally talk themselves into fukking you.

This is so gotdamn true.. :mjlol:

When I was younger, two questions I asked to get the snowball rolling down the hill was "How was your day at work?" and depending on the answer I would modify my second question to flow to "I know there's some folks hating on you up there then..". My lordt :mjlol: .....she would just take over the conversation and all I'd had to do was just listen and throw in some bits to show I was paying attention. Next thing, I'm trying to calm her down and massage her shoulders to "reduce her tension :tronbronparker:"..next thing you know we on the kitchen table with forks and spoons poking our backs.
 

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Been a while since I've posted in here... main thing I've found pretty much confirms what has been said several times before. If she's not feeling you, stop wasting your time. A woman that really feels you makes things extremely easy for you and things go smoothly. If it feels like a job to keep her attention, then that woman isn't for you. We often get caught up trying to keep a woman around because she's fine and we stick around with this woman that clearly isn't feeling us because we think we will eventually be able to do something to give her a change of mind. I'm telling you, it's a waste of time. A woman who is feeling you makes things 10,000 times easier.
 
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Been a while since I've posted in here... main thing I've found pretty much confirms what has been said several times before. If she's not feeling you, stop wasting your time. A woman that really feels you makes things extremely easy for you and things go smoothly. If it feels like a job to keep her attention, then that woman isn't for you. We often get caught up trying to keep a woman around because she's fine and we stick around with this woman that clearly isn't feeling us because we think we will eventually be able to do something to give her a change of mind. I'm telling you, it's a waste of time. A woman who is feeling you makes things 10,000 times easier.


One of the many things I've learned breh is that if you trying to make a women happy and lie to her to get the vagina or just jumping threw hoops your just playing the BOYFRIEND role something just to entertain HER. When you a man you looking for someone to BUILD with...as you say don't waste your time.
 

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Ah so she do have a man.

Am I sad no, dissapointed no, bothered, meh what i look like

i didnt wanna have to take her from nobody tho
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he may be in luck if i get her friend first
 

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Been a week since I seen my girl..

Said i'd made plans for us tomorrow and am gonna surprise her.. But I've got nothing

Coli fam, I need ideas for for a afternoon/evening date.. Something where we can talk.. and she aint really the dinner type (apparently, that's boring)

So I pick her up.. where we going?
 

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Been a week since I seen my girl..

Said i'd made plans for us tomorrow and am gonna surprise her.. But I've got nothing

Coli fam, I need ideas for for a afternoon/evening date.. Something where we can talk.. and she aint really the dinner type (apparently, that's boring)

So I pick her up.. where we going?
Painting and wine?
 

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This chick tried to violate:francis:

Knew this joint for a minute and she happened to ask me for the number

my text game is spotty due to work and being tired...Not in a relationship and these broads got their own issues,so they understand

instead of communicating her concerns to me, she has an attitude when i run into her:mjgrin:

she then flipped it into saying that i was somehow "bothering"her,yet complained about my spotty texting..

then she got upset about a date after i specifically told her a time frame and she even initiated the the fact that we could wait...:dwillhuh:

She texted later to apologize...Not for her actions, but the way in which she went about it...Basically saying she should have been a lil nicer instead of straight up trying to violate...:heh:

in her same text she said it was nice seeing me:mjlol:

I already can tell she is one of those clingy chicks who will drive a nikka up the wall regardless of what the relations are...And she gotta be in her 30s..

I got instant flashbacks to my ex...

I run into her from time to time, so im not gonna directly bush her to create tension, but im ghosting from this broad:ld:
 

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This is so gotdamn true.. :mjlol:

When I was younger, two questions I asked to get the snowball rolling down the hill was "How was your day at work?" and depending on the answer I would modify my second question to flow to "I know there's some folks hating on you up there then..". My lordt :mjlol: .....she would just take over the conversation and all I'd had to do was just listen and throw in some bits to show I was paying attention. Next thing, I'm trying to calm her down and massage her shoulders to "reduce her tension :tronbronparker:"..next thing you know we on the kitchen table with forks and spoons poking our backs.

I think ima try this soon at thee grocery store.
:mjgrin:

I hate hearing women complain about shyt tho . i dont give a damn about who dont like you that work in the back
:patrice:
 

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Checked my whatsapp contacts and i know she deleted my number because her pic and last seen ain't showing no mo, although I stopped making effort trying to pursue her this still hurts brehs :mjcry:
Do I just delete hers too or be like fuk it and hit her up in about a week or so on some "hey stranger" shyt? Bit of background its not that deep we have never met in person (she lives in another city) but spoke damn near daily for several months until around December.
 

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Checked my whatsapp contacts and i know she deleted my number because her pic and last seen ain't showing no mo, although I stopped making effort trying to pursue her this still hurts brehs :mjcry:
Do I just delete hers too or be like fuk it and hit her up in about a week or so on some "hey stranger" shyt? Bit of background its not that deep we have never met in person (she lives in another city) but spoke damn near daily for several months until around December.
You already know the answer breh. She made her decision, so stop trying to use desperate moves to save your pain and ego. Let it hurt for as long as it hurts and then let it go.
 

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Been a while since I've posted in here... main thing I've found pretty much confirms what has been said several times before. If she's not feeling you, stop wasting your time. A woman that really feels you makes things extremely easy for you and things go smoothly. If it feels like a job to keep her attention, then that woman isn't for you. We often get caught up trying to keep a woman around because she's fine and we stick around with this woman that clearly isn't feeling us because we think we will eventually be able to do something to give her a change of mind. I'm telling you, it's a waste of time. A woman who is feeling you makes things 10,000 times easier.


Damn right, please post more!
 
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