Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[reserved_one]

worst as dudes? i dont know any nikkas that cock block. I have been at a club talking to a girl who came with a group of ppl including male friends. Them male friends wont even cock block. Its always the females you have to worry about

True but from experiences, I done had a few dudes I was supposedly cool with try to talk to a chick while I'm with her.

I was even in a situation when I almost had to fight my friend's cousin for that shyt. He kept on trying over and over to get this bytch's attention. The thing is she wanted to go home with me and he couldn't deal with it....he started tripping out and was making slick threats blowing my phone up.

I'm like really my dude? That's how you feel? We gonna do this over a hoe
She was just a basic ass white girl I met at the club. Smashed one time, found out she was a thot and we went our seperate ways.

Then it happened again with one of my childhood friends with another bytch I pulled at the club

Some of you're so called bros would throw their friendship down the drain just to get what you have..especially if its p*ssy

 

[Dreamzeedream]

I get exhaustion talking on the phone, brehs. I can text all day, but talking...just can't do it, especially if I'm watching tv or a movie. The phone is the ultimate barometer on how much I'm feeling a girl. If we're actually bf/gf, you can call whenever basically. If I miss her call....I'll call back as soon as I can. It's like a right of passage lol.

If we've been on only a couple dates and you HAVE to talk to me everyday...that barometer meter starts tilting towards bushes. That's a sign of being too clingy too fast.

Last night:
(text message)
Her: What you up to? I just left happy hr and dinner with my friends
Me: Oh word, how was that? I'm chillin watching a tv show...starting to doze off a lil bit

.......

*facetime call pops up on my phone*

i think she was trying to come through breh

 

[Dreamzeedream]

Women be on some shyt I swear.

Yesterday I went to the chicks place who I been seeing and when I got there she was going on about my job status which she knew about from the jump and was talking about how we might've went too fast.

So far everytime we have been together we have had sex except for that first date, I also have hit raw everytime since the first time but have made sure not to bust in her.

I was under the assumption that she was trying to break shyt off yesterday but after four sessions starting last night and ending early this morning the chick is talking about how she is starting to fall for me.

Why the hell do women have to be so confusing?

 

[Atlrocafella]

Do y'all brehs like when women approach you all?

There was this chick that I saw on the train yesterday, we kind of kept eyeing each other but didn't say anything by the time we both got off at our stops.

I saw her again this morning on the train and she kind of eyed me once again, once we got off she came up to me and started chit chatting, than basically asked if I wanted to meet up later and have lunch with her. I like the aggressiveness.

 

[ball15life]

I learn that if she not feeling me or rejects then its best just to move l

i think she was trying to come through breh

Oh she was, straight up


Which leads to part 2 ....don't neg me for this yall


She's invited me over to her spot multiple times on some I'm sad...come make me happy/give me a massage/ tell me a bedtime story type ish... I know she wants me to smash....I've declined every time


I know you're prolly thinking but hear me out!


She's already mad clingy and I'm fresh out of a relationship, and smashing is just gonna make her more clingy. I'm not ready for that. Not with her anyways. I had to explain to her that sex speeds things up.

She was like true...that's respectful....I just wanted to see what you would say . Most guys would try and I wanted to see if you were different


I know the game. She ain't foolin anyone lol. If I could hit without any repercussions I would cuz that body is

At this point in my life I'm not gonna smash and potentially dash a good girl though. I don't wanna ruin her.

Plus for whatever reason I've finally gained a level of confidence that I can get girls at a decent basis (esp off tinder and now the club apparently) who just want to netflix and chill. So it's not like I'm necessarily hurting.


Am I wrong for this though process?

 

[Jack Michaelson]

Do y'all brehs like when women approach you all?

There was this chick that I saw on the train yesterday, we kind of kept eyeing each other but didn't say anything by the time we both got off at our stops.

I saw her again this morning on the train and she kind of eyed me once again, once we got off she came up to me and started chit chatting, than basically asked if I wanted to meet up later and have lunch with her. I like the aggressiveness.

I don'the have a problem with it I usually get chick's who ain't my type that come at me though.

 

[Jack Michaelson]

Oh she was, straight up


Which leads to part 2 ....don't neg me for this yall


She's invited me over to her spot multiple times on some I'm sad...come make me happy/give me a massage/ tell me a bedtime story type ish... I know she wants me to smash....I've declined every time


I know you're prolly thinking but hear me out!


She's already mad clingy and I'm fresh out of a relationship, and smashing is just gonna make her more clingy. I'm not ready for that. Not with her anyways. I had to explain to her that sex speeds things up.

She was like true...that's respectful....I just wanted to see what you would say . Most guys would try and I wanted to see if you were different


I know the game. She ain't foolin anyone lol. If I could hit without any repercussions I would cuz that body is

At this point in my life I'm not gonna smash and potentially dash a good girl though. I don't wanna ruin her.

Plus for whatever reason I've finally gained a level of confidence that I can get girls at a decent basis (esp off tinder and now the club apparently) who just want to netflix and chill. So it's not like I'm necessarily hurting.


Am I wrong for this though process?

Not at all, clingy chicks are a turn off IMO.

 

[ball15life]

Do y'all brehs like when women approach you all?

There was this chick that I saw on the train yesterday, we kind of kept eyeing each other but didn't say anything by the time we both got off at our stops.

I saw her again this morning on the train and she kind of eyed me once again, once we got off she came up to me and started chit chatting, than basically asked if I wanted to meet up later and have lunch with her. I like the aggressiveness.

Dope! I don't have a problem with it...that takes the guessing game out of if she's feeling you or not. A lot of brehs would want women to do this more

 

[calixprynce]

Brehs pass the Henny y'all brehs ever been in love? Is the L word even allowed on the coli?

 

[TRUEST]

Do y'all brehs like when women approach you all?

There was this chick that I saw on the train yesterday, we kind of kept eyeing each other but didn't say anything by the time we both got off at our stops.

I saw her again this morning on the train and she kind of eyed me once again, once we got off she came up to me and started chit chatting, than basically asked if I wanted to meet up later and have lunch with her. I like the aggressiveness.

if shes attractive. if shes ugly it gets irritating.

 

[Rich Spirit]

Do y'all brehs like when women approach you all?

There was this chick that I saw on the train yesterday, we kind of kept eyeing each other but didn't say anything by the time we both got off at our stops.

I saw her again this morning on the train and she kind of eyed me once again, once we got off she came up to me and started chit chatting, than basically asked if I wanted to meet up later and have lunch with her. I like the aggressiveness.

Pay for your own lunch

 

[Jack Michaelson]

Brehs pass the Henny y'all brehs ever been in love? Is the L word even allowed on the coli?

Yep, shyt sucked.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

Oh she was, straight up


Which leads to part 2 ....don't neg me for this yall


She's invited me over to her spot multiple times on some I'm sad...come make me happy/give me a massage/ tell me a bedtime story type ish... I know she wants me to smash....I've declined every time


I know you're prolly thinking but hear me out!


She's already mad clingy and I'm fresh out of a relationship, and smashing is just gonna make her more clingy. I'm not ready for that. Not with her anyways. I had to explain to her that sex speeds things up.

She was like true...that's respectful....I just wanted to see what you would say . Most guys would try and I wanted to see if you were different


I know the game. She ain't foolin anyone lol. If I could hit without any repercussions I would cuz that body is

At this point in my life I'm not gonna smash and potentially dash a good girl though. I don't wanna ruin her.

Plus for whatever reason I've finally gained a level of confidence that I can get girls at a decent basis (esp off tinder and now the club apparently) who just want to netflix and chill. So it's not like I'm necessarily hurting.


Am I wrong for this though process?

Nah breh. u just got out of a relationship. Take your time an do u until ur ready

 

[Atlrocafella]

Today was a good day

 

[Shadow King]

dude. ur slumping back into your old self. until the girl u r dating feels you can take it or leave it, they'll keep playing these silly games with u. i read ur post and it reads like a guy who cares do damn much.

this should have been you:

her: this isnt going to work?
you: are you stupid?
her: ??? what?
you:*hang up on her* or if ur in front of her, u just walk out.

yall dont seem to get it. try being a complete d1ckhead when a chick says or does something u dont like and see if u ever hear some nonsense like "this isnt going to work" ever again.

yeah i get this may not be who u are. but if u have to be a actor to find the gadamn peace of mind ur body craves, u better be that gadamn actor. the pain of rejection is too burdensome for any one person to carry on a consistent basis. its either u put urself in a position to reject others, or be the one at the mercy of being rejected. and yes, no matter how u slice and dice it, u r at the mercy of this girl.

get ur sh1t together and man the fucck up man

nikka talking bout me