Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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It feels like women respond better to you when they know that they dont matter in your life or that you don't care about them.

when u give a woman so much attention, she automatically (even if its subconscious) believe you're beneath her.
but when youre not chasing her, or freely giving away ur attention, or she senses u can take it or leave it, she'll find herself working to get UP to the level that'll make her more desirable to u.

think of it like this. say jlo(jennifer lopez) is ur celebrity crush. and u meet jlo. and she's head over heels inlove with u. blowing up ur phone. wanting to have a piece of u all the time. wouldnt u start to feel urself and then, next thing u know, u wont be answering jlo's phone calls anymore. cause now u feel if i can get her, im sure i can get better or more like her. u stop trying to impress jlo.

thats how it works with women.
 
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I haven't updated in awhile, so much going on... But I did want to say this BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU PUT ON SOCIAL MEDIA IN REGARDS TO YOUR RELATIONSHIPS. I'm old school so I have ZERO pics of me and my past gfs on social media.

I'm dating this new girl tho. She made the comment about me having exes on my IG. I was like nah that cant be. Turned out that I still had one pic. But this made me think, I wonder what's on her page. :jbhmm: I went to her facebook and them pics went all the way back to 2007. I started putting faces to her exes and everything. One of them is in the NFL.

It's not a big deal because I'm not insecure, but I was just laughing at how much information is out there and people don't realize. Breh still has her in tagged pics and she's still in pics with her former friend who stole him from her. :wow:

I know a lot of this is :gurl: but it still pertains to my main point. Watch what you put on social media.

Also, my heart is kinda cold so I don't put my gfs all over social media. That shyt becomes a chore to remove if it doesn't work out. And sadly, I'm always prepared for it not to work out. (This relationship is going great so far tho)
 

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I need some advice brehs... so there's this girl at work, we have a slight history together (we were seeing each other for a little while last year, but it ended for reasons too long to go into). Thing is, I'm still really into her, and I have no idea if she feels the same way - sometimes I think she does, but other times it seems like I'm friend zoned. I kinda just need to know where I stand with her so I can either pursue something with her if there's something to pursue, or make a clean break and move on with my life if there's nothing there. Obviously I'm not going to come right out and spill my guts all over the place... how should a breh proceed???
 
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I need some advise brehs... so there's this girl at work, we have a slight history together (we were seeing each other for a little while last year, but it ended for reasons too long to go into). Thing is, I'm still really into her, and I have no idea if she feels the same way - sometimes I think she does, but other times it seems like I'm friend zoned. I kinda just need to know where I stand with her so I can either pursue something with her if there's something to pursue, or make a clean break and move on with my life if there's nothing there. Obviously I'm not going to come right out and spill my guts all over the place... how should a breh proceed???
Just tell her how you feel. If you think about it, what other option is there? If you have no idea now based on her behavior, sticking around and guessing for 6 more months isn't going to make the picture any clearer. Stop avoiding potential rejection and find out what you need to know breh.
 

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I need some advice brehs... so there's this girl at work, we have a slight history together (we were seeing each other for a little while last year, but it ended for reasons too long to go into). Thing is, I'm still really into her, and I have no idea if she feels the same way - sometimes I think she does, but other times it seems like I'm friend zoned. I kinda just need to know where I stand with her so I can either pursue something with her if there's something to pursue, or make a clean break and move on with my life if there's nothing there. Obviously I'm not going to come right out and spill my guts all over the place... how should a breh proceed???

:gucci:

Yall nikkaz wanna learn lessons the hardway,
 

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Yall nikkaz wanna learn lessons the hardway,


I was about to say the same thing. Yall dudes gonna learn about shytting where you eat at. In 2017 you are one HR case from getting the :camby: and a dirty background to boot. It aint worth it.

If you feel this strong about this chick, you should start lining up some other opportunities for employment, get her facebook or something like that and shoot your shot then.
 

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I need some advice brehs... so there's this girl at work, we have a slight history together (we were seeing each other for a little while last year, but it ended for reasons too long to go into). Thing is, I'm still really into her, and I have no idea if she feels the same way - sometimes I think she does, but other times it seems like I'm friend zoned. I kinda just need to know where I stand with her so I can either pursue something with her if there's something to pursue, or make a clean break and move on with my life if there's nothing there. Obviously I'm not going to come right out and spill my guts all over the place... how should a breh proceed???

Breh..let it be and move on...

If you were able to keep it cordial in the workplace after all that consider yaself lucky..

In saying that, you know her better than me...
 
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