Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Bald Head Ba$tard]

1. Nah

2. She never stated that

3. I didn't blow her up at all

well this is worse than I thought, my nikka. I'm referring to #1. If you smashed, you'd still have a great chance of still being cool with her/smashing and shyt.....You done bought the ol' girl a gift before smashing.....come on, mane.....If she ain't giving me the draws on the FIRST time we kick it, it ain't real...

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

The red flags are always there. Your levels of consciousness is dependent on whether you can detect them from the onset or not. A chick can be yelling "Soo-Woo" and throwing up big Bs, and could go undetected if you are unaware of the "signs".

For example, growing up in the hood, I used to think baby-mamas and single mothers were a way of life until I escaped the clutches of poverty and landed into the upper-echelons of society.

Young brehs of all races should refer to my post I made a few months back where they spend the majority of adolescence observing female behavior
prior to any romantic interactions.

Treat relationships like you would when driving a vehicle. Watch and listen (actions and words) for other drivers and pedestrians at the road. You see a stop sign(al) or red light, obey the sign or face consequences such as accidents or the law. If they match, proceed to the next light, however, move with at the speed limit until you reach the next light.

 

[Turk]

well this is worse than I thought, my nikka. I'm referring to #1. If you smashed, you'd still have a great chance of still being cool with her/smashing and shyt.....You done bought the ol' girl a gift before smashing.....come on, mane.....If she ain't giving me the draws on the FIRST time we kick it, it ain't real...

We've been pretty good friends for a minute though...that's why I bought her one. And she isn't even that type of girl to begin with.

 

[Lord Bison]

We've been pretty good friends for a minute though...that's why I bought her one. And she isn't even that type of girl to begin with.

She's just not that type of girl for YOU. I'm 98.3% sure her phone is filled with nasty sext messages from the dude she fukking.

You just have to take that L and move on breh. There's a way you can get out the friend zone and I've done it before, but its really not worth it. You'd be better off spending that energy on someone new.

I think it was @Supreme Leader Reinscarf who said this, but while you're out here scrapping for a second, third, fourth chance with this chick, there is a decent woman out there praying for her first with someone real.

Play the game accordingly.

 

[The Mad Titan]

This is the most confused I've ever been with a woman. Last month we were hanging out and I had bought her a present for her birthday. Now almost a month later she won't talk to me and appears to have blocked me. This is extremely baffling especially considering the fact that the last time I spoke to her everything was cool and she was asking me when we were gunna hang out again

Almost 100 percent of the time this happens you were option #2

Meaning there was another guy all along and once it got serious she cut you loose completely or her and an Ex got back together and she cut you lose.

 

[Positive Posting]

From what it sounds like I get the sense that she was sensing some thirst on your side. Women (especially today) will bail on a nikka at the first sign of thirst so sometimes you gotta know when to pursue and when to fall back. You'll get better in time at calibrating on when to do this. You'll be alright breh, the only way to learn is to fail.

thats some ill shyt, whats the perfect balance between perusing and falling back, can you drop some gems on that?

im dumb ass shyt, so if you can provide actual examples, that will be dope.

 

[Positive Posting]

when u give a woman so much attention, she automatically (even if its subconscious) believes you're beneath her.
but when youre not chasing her, or freely giving away ur attention, or she senses u can take it or leave it, she'll find herself working to get UP to the level that'll make her more desirable than u.

think of it like this. say jlo(jennifer lopez) is a ur celebrity crush. and u meet jlo. and she's head over heels inlove with u. blowing up ur phone. wanting to have a piece of u all the time. wouldnt u start to feel urself and then, next thing u know, u wont be answering jlo's phone calls anymore. cause now u feel if i can get her, im sure i can get better or more like her. u stop trying to impress jlo.

thats how it works with women.

mmmmm, #anotherone

 

[Positive Posting]

can you even tell a bytch she got some good p*ssy nowdays, not in conversation but when you pounding that shyt? they start feeling themselves afterwards, u cant tell a bytch shyt.

and these bytches kill wit this one lol. its becoming common sense, its like all these bytches wanna be in a relationship, while they gettin dogged out (pounded and skeeted on) by some dogs who dont even respond to their texts. how you want me to make u my girl and you foolin, gtfoh.

real nikkaz got the game on smash, fukk these bytches, im boutta read up on some donald goins.

 

[Lord Bison]

thats some ill shyt, whats the perfect balance between perusing and falling back, can you drop some gems on that?

im dumb ass shyt, so if you can provide actual examples, that will be dope.

Pretty much you have to test for her interest level in you. A woman who is into you will let it be known that she likes you and will go through hell and high water to spend time with you.

If you're talking to a chick and you suddenly stop giving her the attention she's used to, she WILL notice and if she likes you, she'll make an effort to keep things going.

Example: It was snowing and ice outside and the freeways were pretty much shut down. This chick I was dating still took the risk to drive over my house just to be with me. I didn't have to jump through hoops, buy gifts or go out the way to get any action from her. She liked me for who I was and that was good enough. And that's how it should be.

Another example: I went to shoot my shot at this chick who I thought was digging me and asked her to hang out. Her response was "I'll See". Which is code word for no. When you ask a woman out, anything other than a yes means no. I tossed her to the bushes immediately. Most people would try to salvage the friendship and continue to pursue, but as a man you have to be resourceful on the women you give your attention to. Only the women who has earned your attention deserve to get treated as such.

You will often run across women who expect the man to do an exorbitant amount of chasing before she gives him any play, which means you could potentially lose out on some. But the ones who are into you will make it easy for you and the relationship will be seamless.

If babygirl is being iffy with hanging out and trying to get to know each other better and not giving you the amount of interest you feel is suitable, put her ass on the bench and focus on the ones who are interested or continue to line up new prospects.

 

[Positive Posting]

AM I fukkED UP 4 WANTING TO SWITCH UP the game on these bytches.

like think about it, i dont wanna deal with these females no more. Taking em out on dates, just so they can get they eat on and theres no telling if she trynna play u. I aint with that.

one thing i understand, is that bytches like to go out and enjoy life (in their own way) (going out to eat and have a dumb ass drink that dont even get you lit, corny lil shyt like that) (they love to spend money on dumb shyt and do alot of dumb shyt you feel me, all on the expense of your time and dime, FOH lol.

Im just trynna switch up the game on these hoes. I aint on no heartless shyt, but the game need to be more equal.

Women got a lot of game and the best game to get is from watching a female, paying attention and taking notes. bytches wanna see interest from a guy, how does a guy prove that? he takes her out, pays for everything, and they have a good time. Well bytch, im trynna see some interest too, ya dig me?

unless is a bytch you wanna persue forreal and you dont mind. fukk taking these bytches out first, these females is blood suckaz and cerebral assassins on the low. Be a ill ass, fly ass nikka, and let the bytches who feelin you put in the work first. BE cool and let them initiate the contact.

idk, some how in my mind, its figured out that they gotta PAY FIRST, for all the bullshyt they put nikkaz through. they pay for that first meet up or ya go half. that has 2 be established, im not with trynna be a bytch's "food nikka". I feel like if shyt is cool and the vibe is cool after that and you wanna spend on her, take her out on some im trynna have fun today, thats cool. But if you do it, she gotta return the favor back, she gotta take you out and you got put that shyt out there, you cant let these bytches not pay. THEY GOTTA PAY MY nikka "ya time, your efforts, ya dikk AINT FOR FREE" put some value on ya shyt.

the way i see it is, IF A bytch AINT TRYNNA PAY, I AINT TRYNNA PLAY.

 

[360dagod]

nothing confusing about it she sensed you were trying to cuff and

You bring back bad memories with that gif

 

[Positive Posting]

Pretty much you have to test for her interest level in you. A woman who is into you will let it be known that she likes you and will go through hell and high water to spend time with you.

If you're talking to a chick and you suddenly stop giving her the attention she's used to, she WILL notice and if she likes you, she'll make an effort to keep things going.

Example: It was snowing and ice outside and the freeways were pretty much shut down. This chick I was dating still took the risk to drive over my house just to be with me. I didn't have to jump through hoops, buy gifts or go out the way to get any action from her. She liked me for who I was and that was good enough. And that's how it should be.

Another example: I went to shoot my shot at this chick who I thought was digging me and asked her to hang out. Her response was "I'll See". Which is code word for no. When you ask a woman out, anything other than a yes means no. I tossed her to the bushes immediately. Most people would try to salvage the friendship and continue to pursue, but as a man you have to be resourceful on the women you give your attention to. Only the women who has earned your attention deserve to get treated as such.

You will often run across women who expect the man to do an exorbitant amount of chasing before she gives him any play, which means you could potentially lose out on some. But the ones who are into you will make it easy for you and the relationship will be seamless.

If babygirl and giving you the amount of interest you feel is suitable, put her ass on the bench and focus on the ones who are interested or continue to line up new prospects.

i feel you on that, i can reference to that.

girl when i didnt really love her like that: we had a hookah date planned, she got her hair done, feet done, nails did, new clothes lol. yo, a fukking big ass rain storm unfolded out of no where right before we was suppose to meet up, i told her, im staying home. she begged me to come meet her, went out her way, came to pick me up and take the bus and train from where i live in one of the biggest rain storms i expirienced, her hair got fukked up lmaooo.

girl when i started showing her love: super dubbed me and did me dirty lol.

these bytches is crazy, fukk these hoes, and i aint trynna go crazy over them.

 

[Positive Posting]

i dont got much game, but ima put yall on some of my life game

everything is temporary, nothing lasts forever, every good thing must come to an end. so fukk these bytches, get ya nuts off, enjoy the moments in the moments, be on point, and keep it pushing. u got one life, and the gift to live it, so live it and fukk the bullshyt.

 

[Prynce]

Women can be so cold heartless. I've never met a man that can be as evil and mean as a woman can be.

 

[YOGEBEAR09]

There is this girl that I used to fukk with for a few months and we were pretty much boyfriend and girlfriend but without the title. Some dumb shyt happened and I stopped fukking with her all over some stupid stuff. I then started fukking with a girl who she hated but I didn't know. I didnt fukk with her long and that ended months ago but the girl that I left has always been talking about how I hurt her and how she loved me. She was really down for me and Ive never listened to her and let her get everything off her chest of why she was hurt and I still sense that she still is so should I talk to this girl and let her say whatever she has to say to ease her pain because I really would like to get back to what her and I was on before all the bullshyt. What should I do?