Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Need an opening line for Tinder. White, 32 year old chick with nothing on her profile to be with with.

what do her pics say about her?? If she has pics of vacation, ask where she been, her love for travel, where she going this summer

Pics of hobbies, ask about her hobbies

Pics of her dog/pets, ask about them & the breed etc.

Or just ask what her interests are, what she does for fun during her weekends etc
 

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So I'm in a weird spot/mood/vibe I guess..

I feel like the women that are coming at me and the ones who talk when I come at them..

They're not the type of woman that I want (looks/has kids/attitude fukked up.. I'm not gonna lie either, I am shallow, and I know that... But my ex had a decent body, flat stomach/fat ass.. So I feel like why should I have to settle and fukk with these chubby bytches I'm not REALLY attracted to... I'm 29 and don't have any kids and I really really don't want to compromise on that, if I did the bytch would HAVE TO be on point with everything (looks/vibe)

I just feel like I'm gonna have to settle... It's been killin my vibe though...

I'm tryin to do shyt to possibly change that (eat better/gym) but idk...


Im in the same boat as you, just turned 30. Wasted my 20s women who were not right for me just to get some regular ass.

Don't force a relationship you not feeling breh. Just relax,put yourself out there, go out with your boys & have fun. Focus on hitting the gym, dressing better & being more social. By all means uplift your mood/vibe/attitude, women can sense it from afar. You will meet someone when you least expect it
 

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dude im with u on that. this is the longest ive gone without being in some type of relationship. been loving the freedom so much that whenever i do have a date planned, its like a chore. the thought of constantly texting, being on the phone, really scares the hell out of me. sh1t is too damn exhausting.

You aint lying breh. I lowkey get mad when chicks wanna spend the night because I wanna watch some anime or be on some nerd shyt and I know her basic ass aint really with all that. These days she's getting DO&KO (Dycked Out and Kicked Out). Makes my life a lot better :blessed:
 

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Once of my best friends came by to the crib to kick it the other day. Been knowing dude for over 20 years, one of my day 1's. Anyway he just recently got married and his wife is pregnant with their second kid.

We playing 2K, lighting up an L and dranking some brewskis talking about the good ol days and his girl called at least 17 times. Asking him "when you coming home?" "you must be out with some bytch". My boy had to get his camera out, do an MTV cribs tour of every room in my crib and prove to her that there were no females inside.

When he put me on the cam and showed I was the only other dude in the house she hit me with the :birdman: like I did something wrong. I don't even know this bytch. :hhh:

That whole incident just reaffirmed why I'm glad I have the freedom I have. Because these chicks will try their best to lock you in a cage and don't want you to be free. I'll be damned if I get put on a curfew and get continuous phone calls asking when I'm coming home. Sad part about it is that it wasn't even late, it was only like 2 in the afternoon. :comeon:
 

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Once of my best friends came by to the crib to kick it the other day. Been knowing dude for over 20 years, one of my day 1's. Anyway he just recently got married and his wife is pregnant with their second kid.

We playing 2K, lighting up an L and dranking some brewskis talking about the good ol days and his girl called at least 17 times. Asking him "when you coming home?" "you must be out with some bytch". My boy had to get his camera out, do an MTV cribs tour of every room in my crib and prove to her that there were no females inside.

When he put me on the cam and showed I was the only other dude in the house she hit me with the :birdman: like I did something wrong. I don't even know this bytch. :hhh:

That whole incident just reaffirmed why I'm glad I have the freedom I have. Because these chicks will try their best to lock you in a cage and don't want you to be free. I'll be damned if I get put on a curfew and get continuous phone calls asking when I'm coming home. Sad part about it is that it wasn't even late, it was only like 2 in the afternoon. :comeon:


lol the worst is when ur driving to see your girl. she already knows ur on the road. she knows u hate talking on the phone. but yet, she wants to call 159 times asking when u gon get to her? wanting play by play which road you're on. or u talking on the phone late into the night, ur tired. u just wanna watch some tv but nah, she wants to have a full blown hour long conversation. babe i goto get off the phone. getting tired. her: oh no nono. im not letting u go that easy.

i honestly question the masculinity of men who can sit on the phone for long periods of time talking about absolute irrelevance.
 

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lol the worst is when ur driving to see your girl. she already knows ur on the road. she knows u hate talking on the phone. but yet, she wants to call 159 times asking when u gon get to her? wanting play by play which road you're on. or u talking on the phone late into the night, ur tired. u just wanna watch some tv but nah, she wants to have a full blown hour long conversation. babe i goto get off the phone. getting tired. her: oh no nono. im not letting u go that easy.

i honestly question the masculinity of men who can sit on the phone for long periods of time talking about absolute irrelevance.

Man who u telling lol...

As a man I absolutely enjoy the time I have to myself. Especially when Im in a relationship. Keeping it all the way 100, you have to be on your game 100% of the time when you around a female, so its refreshing to just kick back and breathe a little when you got some you time or you with ya homies.

Da fuc we gonna talk about on the phone when im already on my way to see yo ass? :dame:

I cant count how many times I had to bullshyt my way into some me time by telling her "sorry babe I got stuck in traffic" :lolbron:

Like damn, I just worked 62.3 hours this week, its friday and im already spending the night with you. Can a nikka get a game of 2K in real quick and chill for a second? :beli:
 
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Once of my best friends came by to the crib to kick it the other day. Been knowing dude for over 20 years, one of my day 1's. Anyway he just recently got married and his wife is pregnant with their second kid.

We playing 2K, lighting up an L and dranking some brewskis talking about the good ol days and his girl called at least 17 times. Asking him "when you coming home?" "you must be out with some bytch". My boy had to get his camera out, do an MTV cribs tour of every room in my crib and prove to her that there were no females inside.

When he put me on the cam and showed I was the only other dude in the house she hit me with the :birdman: like I did something wrong. I don't even know this bytch. :hhh:

That whole incident just reaffirmed why I'm glad I have the freedom I have. Because these chicks will try their best to lock you in a cage and don't want you to be free. I'll be damned if I get put on a curfew and get continuous phone calls asking when I'm coming home. Sad part about it is that it wasn't even late, it was only like 2 in the afternoon. :comeon:

She is pregnant:francis:

The hormones start getting out of whack even worse...
Lots of nikkas have curved their bm during the process because they can't take it...
I don't think he should have did all that, but it's a tricky situation to maneuver around...
 

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The moment when you no longer care is a beautiful feeling
.a great feeling they just become like your fifth grade teacher yeah we had some great times but meh

I ran into a girl from my high school at a work party last weekend and we sat down and had some drinks and talked about where everyone we knew mutually was etc.

We're having some laughs and sharing memories. Everythings cool.

Eventually the subject of one of my ex girlfriends of 3 years comes up, as I knew it would because this girl was one of her best friends.

So she starts venting about not being friends with this girl anymore and how she was a backstabber and blah blah blah.

I'm not saying much at this point and basically giving her a "ehh, shyt happens" :manny: response.

Anyways, midway through this rant she starts talking about I still know her facebook password, you wanna see if she's ever brought you up? And I'm like :dahell:

First of all, this bytch is clearly even crazier than the bytch we were just talking about :gucci:

Second of all, the paranoid tinfoil hat nikka in me is like what if this is all an elaborate set up that these two bytches concocted :gucci:

So I'm like you know what, I'm cool, it's been a long time since then and we barely even know each other anymore :whoa:

She says something to the effect of "you're right, you should keep that poison out of your life anyway :francis:"

Meanwhile I'm trying to find the quickest way to throw this crazy bytch to the bushes aswell

So I gave her a it was great seeing you, you look great blah blah blah :mjgrin: and got the fukk out of there :picard:

but aside from telling y'all how crazy this bytches behavior at this party was, after l left that night there was a beautiful moment where I realized I truly don't care what this other woman that I once loved was doing. It sounds so simple but there was a point in my life after that break up where my entire world revolved around her and I had to question if I was truly ever going to move on. So to think back on that and then fast forward to present where I feel like I'm at a great place in my life and didn't really care to revisit not only my past with her, but what she was presently doing was a powerful feeling.

Also, if y'all knew both of the bytches in question, there is a legit chance that it was a set up that I didn't take the bait for :gucci:
 

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Once of my best friends came by to the crib to kick it the other day. Been knowing dude for over 20 years, one of my day 1's. Anyway he just recently got married and his wife is pregnant with their second kid.

We playing 2K, lighting up an L and dranking some brewskis talking about the good ol days and his girl called at least 17 times. Asking him "when you coming home?" "you must be out with some bytch". My boy had to get his camera out, do an MTV cribs tour of every room in my crib and prove to her that there were no females inside.

When he put me on the cam and showed I was the only other dude in the house she hit me with the :birdman: like I did something wrong. I don't even know this bytch. :hhh:

That whole incident just reaffirmed why I'm glad I have the freedom I have. Because these chicks will try their best to lock you in a cage and don't want you to be free. I'll be damned if I get put on a curfew and get continuous phone calls asking when I'm coming home. Sad part about it is that it wasn't even late, it was only like 2 in the afternoon. :comeon:
Enjoy the single life to the fullest breh. But on some real shyt, that's your boy's fault. Too many dudes sacrifice their balls and principles in the name of doing the "right thing" for a woman and becoming a better man. If he would have checked her like 3 years ago, that first phone call would be "OK, have fun with your boy. See you when you get home".

What bruh doesn't realize is that every time he entertains that goofy shyt he's not making things better, he's digging them both in a hole. Not only is he having to check in like she's his mommy, she's going to get even more abusive out of frustration for him not standing up for himself. Because trust, even though she's getting her way, any woman who does that shyt is miserable due to both her own insecurities and the fact that the man that's supposed to protect her and hold shyt down won't even grab his nuts and stand up to her.
 
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Enjoy the single life to the fullest breh. But on some real shyt, that's your boy's fault. Too many dudes sacrifice their balls and principles in the name of doing the "right thing" for a woman and becoming a better man. If he would have checked her like 3 years ago, that first phone call would be "OK, have fun with your boy. See you when you get home".

What bruh doesn't realize is that every time he entertains that goofy shyt he's not making things better, he's digging them both in a hole. Not only is he having to check in like she's he's mommy, she's going to get even more abusive out of frustration for him not standing up for himself. Because trust, even though she's getting her way, any woman who does that shyt is miserable due to both her own insecurities and the fact that the man that's supposed to protect her and hold shyt down won't even grab his nuts and stand up to her.


I agree 100% on that bro. Sad part is he was on some pimp/playa shyt back in the day but just like most of my friends, they got domesticated. I'm just getting started on these stories though. I've got plenty more where that came from, not including the fukkery I went through personally. I've read this entire thread from page 1 and I owe it to everyone before me to keep the real going. Cause I know there's cats out there that needed this piff as much as I did.
 

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The moment when you no longer care is a beautiful feeling
.a great feeling they just become like your fifth grade teacher yeah we had some great times but meh
I think what bugs me out the most when thinking back on old relationships is the evolution of myself. I think back to those times and it makes me realize how different I am now. It's crazy.

If I see one of these old girls on the street and treat her like a stranger that's not coming from a place of negativity. You are a stranger to me at this point. We had some good times but I am on a completely different path now. And the best feeling in the world is not looking back. I don't care what happened before because It's irrelevant. Letting old shyt brew or thinking about what you could have done differently will get you nowhere. Become a better version of yourself and you won't worry about the past. The present is the only thing I have control of.

It's a simple concept but one that honestly changed my life.
 

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lol the worst is when ur driving to see your girl. she already knows ur on the road. she knows u hate talking on the phone. but yet, she wants to call 159 times asking when u gon get to her? wanting play by play which road you're on. or u talking on the phone late into the night, ur tired. u just wanna watch some tv but nah, she wants to have a full blown hour long conversation. babe i goto get off the phone. getting tired. her: oh no nono. im not letting u go that easy.

i honestly question the masculinity of men who can sit on the phone for long periods of time talking about absolute irrelevance.

Bruh, I absolutely hate talking on the phone. Any girl I talk to, I keep the phone conversations to no more than 10min tops.
 
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