Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[winb83]

The friend zone is REAL my friend however; it should only be known as a state in which a man is trapped. Being in the friend zone is a point at which you have between two choices, get out and let her know you aint bout that life , or slowly stop talking to her and she'll get the message, and the other choice is to let it keep going and keep a friendship with the female if you truly like her as a female and enjoy the friendship (which is highly unlikely). Friend zone is real but it only exists to remind a man that they fukked up and need to move on unless without being friend zoned a female would most likely just lead him on and lead the man to self destruction. In the end mistakes and failures are VERY beneficial for nikkas to move further and progress in life.

It's just rejection. You can call rejection whatever you want and it's still rejection. The supposed "friend zone" is just what a man does after the rejection. Has nothing to do with the woman and everything to do with the man.

 

[CrossBones]

But are yall making these b1tches orgasm?

response is one of the most important things to do in sex, and even a relationship. and from there you have to be bold.

during sex, every girl is going to like different things. it going to be up to you to take immediate notice of what she likes or doesnt. you will notice when theres a change in her moans, or at a certain speed her body shifting, her p*ssy contracting, she'll outright say she cumming, fukk her harder, etc etc. she will give you the signs. you have to take notice of it at first. from there if she likes it, you just keep doing what you do or go harder for some time. do not change course when youre doing right.

and the key to getting that point is switching things up on her if shes not responding. see I say that you always need responses from her, or else its going nowhere. and in that case, take control, tell her what to do, and if necessary move around and change up the stroke on her when she looks a little complacent. move her legs, pull her hair, say some nasty shyt to her, splash some water on her ass. she cant always expect what youre gonna do, so make sure you keep her guessing and keep her open like that. make the adjustments on the fly and itll be more exciting. responding to her body and some improvisation is what they need

 

[CrossBones]

Approaching a new woman every day for a month, Day 4:

Barely have the energy to write this one out. Just took my sleeping pill.

I was talking a waitress at the hookah bar that I frequent. I kept buying shots for the table to keep up an image of abundance around me, and it was a quick and easy way to make friends with everyone in my general vicinity. I started talking about work and school and she was all about it.

There was something more, I think though. Two things, actually. One was that I was wearing glasses, which for some reasons gets girls to put down their defenses and lets me talk to them much more easily. I think that having glasses causes them to associate me with intelligence and reading, and also makes me look less threatening physically because of the physical limitation on my eyes. The second was that she was a single mother, it turns out, and her baby's daddy was some loser drug addict.

Anyway, she wants to meet me Wednesday. I've never had a woman feel me that strongly. Gonna embrace it though. Needless to say, I'll be using a condom when I hit that.

If I need to add more or if you have questions, let me know. I'll be glad to add or edit to this post. It may be lacking because I'm a little out of it right now.

the crazy thing is, it might be that youre getting assistance from the glasses, but the glasses dont win no wars! ya nahmean?! but really, you seein it all comes down to what you present to them. I see the little moves youre doing, and its on point with what you want to do. of course they love to see a man with resources doing his thing. thats some real fire that attracts these moths.

but Im going to switch it up on you, and give some things that I notice youre doing, and what you might want to be doing. now keep in mind, if it works for you, keep doing what you do. everyone is comfortable in doing what they like, so this may not be for you.


but look, when youre telling them a lot about yourself, youre sort of giving up the chase early. you need to build intrigue. youre taking away from your own mystery. always theyre trying to figure you out, and youre giving them the whole plot from jump. now these are just random women youre approaching and (I think) trying to fukk and thats it. but you want to pry into them. make them the main attraction and the feel like the star. turn all the questions around on her. when she questions you, give her vague, witty answers that dont really answer her.

not only do women love that, but it protects yourself from stalker ass, clingy bytches. keep yourself more of a mystery. and fukk around with the glasss if its you, or just throw them away. thats not the important part. do your own thing. thats what they find intoxicating. we know already they never like some dude who follows around her. theyre not leaders, and they know that, so it disgusts them (which we know you dont do, Im just pointing it out).

then as almost an afterthought, include a bytch in your activity. holla at her or just let her come to you. just make sure you are enjoying yourself before she is with you. they love that, because it shows that you made your own way. and they always wanna join in that! married, single, glasses or not

 

[CrossBones]

you know whats one of the most pathetic things to see? a man trying to get a womans attention and shes ignoring him. I saw a guy at the grocery store deli the other day, humming along to a love song on the radio trying to get the bytch in front him the look at him. and he started humming louder, sort of sheepishly leaning towards her at times, looking dumb as fukk.

I know what he was doing. and she KNEW what he was doing also! she didnt pay him ANY attention. purposely ignored him. you know who she was clocking?

all I was doing was standing there waiting for my sandwich with my shirt slightly unbuttoned making small talk with the workers there. arm all on the counter leaning like I give a fukk. slightly on some gtfo shyt with the dude who humming and smirking and his weak shyt. shaking my head. and I didnt give a fukk about her. it looked like she was the last thing in my mind. but she was looking at me the whole time through the side of her eyes and trying to see what Im about. I literally turned around to face the line behind me an acted like she wasnt there. just turned to look around and have a change in scenery.

stop giving a fukk when youre out. go out, have fun. even on a date. do what you like, a woman is going to want to join in and have fun too. if not, kick rocks bytch. this attitude works at strip clubs, bars, public places, parties, whatever. and you know why? because ultimately youre focus is on you having fun anyways!

 

[Brandsdale]

It's just rejection. You can call rejection whatever you want and it's still rejection. The supposed "friend zone" is just what a man does after the rejection. Has nothing to do with the woman and everything to do with the man.

true true. well put breh

 

[gameover82]

you know whats one of the most pathetic things to see? a man trying to get a womans attention and shes ignoring him. I saw a guy at the grocery store deli the other day, humming along to a love song on the radio trying to get the bytch in front him the look at him. and he started humming louder, sort of sheepishly leaning towards her at times, looking dumb as fukk.

I know what he was doing. and she KNEW what he was doing also! she didnt pay him ANY attention. purposely ignored him. you know who she was clocking?

all I was doing was standing there waiting for my sandwich with my shirt slightly unbuttoned making small talk with the workers there. arm all on the counter leaning like I give a fukk. slightly on some gtfo shyt with the dude who humming and smirking and his weak shyt. shaking my head. and I didnt give a fukk about her. it looked like she was the last thing in my mind. but she was looking at me the whole time through the side of her eyes and trying to see what Im about. I literally turned around to face the line behind me an acted like she wasnt there. just turned to look around and have a change in scenery.

stop giving a fukk when youre out. go out, have fun. even on a date. do what you like, a woman is going to want to join in and have fun too. if not, kick rocks bytch. this attitude works at strip clubs, bars, public places, parties, whatever. and you know why? because ultimately youre focus is on you having fun anyways!

this always works..always had chicks come up to me like "why u never say anything to me"

 

[CrossBones]

this always works..always had chicks come up to me like "why u never say anything to me"

most women need validation. constant validation. if their make up good enough, if their bodies looks right, their hair is good, is their ass looking nice, do they "still have it" ...


and if for whatever reason theyre noticing you, and you dont validate them, they will try to get that stamp. men and acceptance make their world go around. whether theyre competing with us, trying to get us to notice them, trying to get something from us, whatever. if you catch their eye, and play them off, they will want you even more.

 

[CASHAPP]

you know whats one of the most pathetic things to see? a man trying to get a womans attention and shes ignoring him. I saw a guy at the grocery store deli the other day, humming along to a love song on the radio trying to get the bytch in front him the look at him. and he started humming louder, sort of sheepishly leaning towards her at times, looking dumb as fukk.

I know what he was doing. and she KNEW what he was doing also! she didnt pay him ANY attention. purposely ignored him. you know who she was clocking?

all I was doing was standing there waiting for my sandwich with my shirt slightly unbuttoned making small talk with the workers there. arm all on the counter leaning like I give a fukk. slightly on some gtfo shyt with the dude who humming and smirking and his weak shyt. shaking my head. and I didnt give a fukk about her. it looked like she was the last thing in my mind. but she was looking at me the whole time through the side of her eyes and trying to see what Im about. I literally turned around to face the line behind me an acted like she wasnt there. just turned to look around and have a change in scenery.

stop giving a fukk when youre out. go out, have fun. even on a date. do what you like, a woman is going to want to join in and have fun too. if not, kick rocks bytch. this attitude works at strip clubs, bars, public places, parties, whatever. and you know why? because ultimately youre focus is on you having fun anyways!

2 weeks ago before Sandy, there was this tall slim and sexy light skinned latina walking by the sidewalk and getting ready to walk in this cell phone store she manages....she stops in the front door to talk to this guy and I guess his little daughter about I guess the phones...

I see this black car with tinted windows slowly rolling up to the side....and the windows slide down..but before it happened I just knew a thirsty dumbass would pop out and I was right.

This lame ass dude out of nowhere just says "HI friend...." "Hi friend" and then when she is talking to the father and the little daughter, he just yells out "u can't say hi"?
And the windows roll down and he drives away.

Now a lot of us in this thread have said negative things about many women but in the case of thirsty dudes, I am sure that is something we can all actually agree with the women about.

They love to talk about how the woman is being stuck up(sometimes that may be true but in the case you mentioned about the mall, and my example I don't think either was an example of a case like that).

The two dudes we both mentioned just look straight up pathetic and its dudes like that who brag about how easily they "bag"?.

Dudes just straight up looking desperate

'If this girl doesn't respond to me I'm just gonna call her a bytch and drive away!!" "She hurt my feelings"



I remember back in the summer I saw this thirsty ass walmart worker act that way. This girl with a nice fatty was shopping, they speak for a quick minute and when they leave each other he is going up to the other workers and starts getting hype and everything like he popped his cherry for the first time. Okay she got big titties a fat ass ..some dsls and is good looking....u gonna make a big deal out of it?

That's the type of guy who buries his head in his woman's breasts in public and makes cooing noises

Outside she is going with the bags to her car and this other guy who had the sense to be quiet and not appear thirsty helped her with the bags and they talked and he got her #. While this was going on the guy who popped his cherry for the first time is getting loud and hype like its his first time seeing a girl give out her number to a man.

The shyt pissed me off even more because dudes like that have a job that they ain't even working while I dont(but that's another story)


Like you said man I have no idea when these guys will just learn to stop reacting so fukking easily to a girl with a good body.

 

[gameover82]

it funny how every time women say "I"am not like that" are usually the ones that are...like that

 

[CrossBones]

2 weeks ago before Sandy, there was this tall slim and sexy light skinned latina walking by the sidewalk and getting ready to walk in this cell phone store she manages....she stops in the front door to talk to this guy and I guess his little daughter about I guess the phones...

I see this black car with tinted windows slowly rolling up to the side....and the windows slide down..but before it happened I just knew a thirsty dumbass would pop out and I was right.

This lame ass dude out of nowhere just says "HI friend...." "Hi friend" and then when she is talking to the father and the little daughter, he just yells out "u can't say hi"?
And the windows roll down and he drives away.

Now a lot of us in this thread have said negative things about many women but in the case of thirsty dudes, I am sure that is something we can all actually agree with the women about.

They love to talk about how the woman is being stuck up(sometimes that may be true but in the case you mentioned about the mall, and my example I don't think either was an example of a case like that).

The two dudes we both mentioned just look straight up pathetic and its dudes like that who brag about how easily they "bag"?.

Dudes just straight up looking desperate

'If this girl doesn't respond to me I'm just gonna call her a bytch and drive away!!" "She hurt my feelings"



I remember back in the summer I saw this thirsty ass walmart worker act that way. This girl with a nice fatty was shopping, they speak for a quick minute and when they leave each other he is going up to the other workers and starts getting hype and everything like he popped his cherry for the first time. Okay she got big titties a fat ass ..some dsls and is good looking....u gonna make a big deal out of it?

That's the type of guy who buries his head in his woman's breasts in public and makes cooing noises

Outside she is going with the bags to her car and this other guy who had the sense to be quiet and not appear thirsty helped her with the bags and they talked and he got her #. While this was going on the guy who popped his cherry for the first time is getting loud and hype like its his first time seeing a girl give out her number to a man.

The shyt pissed me off even more because dudes like that have a job that they ain't even working while I dont(but that's another story)


Like you said man I have no idea when these guys will just learn to stop reacting so fukking easily to a girl with a good body.

women are able to see through a guy with no game trying to act like he does. a fake, he tries to show it off and validate it with the girl. you dont do that. thats the mistake. just be ABOUT SOMETHING. have your own shyt going. ok he has the car, the money, and then ... he threw it all away so he could fawn over this bird like his world stopped around her. put her stranger ass on a pedestal SMH

bytches who look good already been run through and know a lot about the game. they dont jump at a man just because he has jewelry on or whatever. they know who is about something and who isnt. even a player, is really about something (himself), and it will show. that interests them because it shows them he can make something with himself and it will show with the confidence and self worth.

dudes who think that just money is the ticket are in for a rude awakening when they realize that they are lame and about to be used up for all their worth. guys like that get juiced until their pockets run dry.

 

[CrossBones]

it funny how every time women say "I"am not like that" are usually the ones that are...like that

thats them trying to validate themselves and their value with the man again. sort of thinking that is "you believe it... if you believe in the lie then it becomes real! Im not like that"

 

[NerdNash]

response is one of the most important things to do in sex, and even a relationship. and from there you have to be bold.

during sex, every girl is going to like different things. it going to be up to you to take immediate notice of what she likes or doesnt. you will notice when theres a change in her moans, or at a certain speed her body shifting, her p*ssy contracting, she'll outright say she cumming, fukk her harder, etc etc. she will give you the signs. you have to take notice of it at first. from there if she likes it, you just keep doing what you do or go harder for some time. do not change course when youre doing right.

and the key to getting that point is switching things up on her if shes not responding. see I say that you always need responses from her, or else its going nowhere. and in that case, take control, tell her what to do, and if necessary move around and change up the stroke on her when she looks a little complacent. move her legs, pull her hair, say some nasty shyt to her, splash some water on her ass. she cant always expect what youre gonna do, so make sure you keep her guessing and keep her open like that. make the adjustments on the fly and itll be more exciting. responding to her body and some improvisation is what they need

I can't front. I gotta switch it up. I think i been giving her the same pipe performance for like 2 years now

 

[Ohene]

response is one of the most important things to do in sex, and even a relationship. and from there you have to be bold.

during sex, every girl is going to like different things. it going to be up to you to take immediate notice of what she likes or doesnt. you will notice when theres a change in her moans, or at a certain speed her body shifting, her p*ssy contracting, she'll outright say she cumming, fukk her harder, etc etc. she will give you the signs. you have to take notice of it at first. from there if she likes it, you just keep doing what you do or go harder for some time. do not change course when youre doing right.

and the key to getting that point is switching things up on her if shes not responding. see I say that you always need responses from her, or else its going nowhere. and in that case, take control, tell her what to do, and if necessary move around and change up the stroke on her when she looks a little complacent. move her legs, pull her hair, say some nasty shyt to her, splash some water on her ass. she cant always expect what youre gonna do, so make sure you keep her guessing and keep her open like that. make the adjustments on the fly and itll be more exciting. responding to her body and some improvisation is what they need

for me its the breathing patterns.

times a chick cant even breathe when im doing my thing. they be tryna bite my ear off or anything they can

that feeling of her breath on my ear is some of the best reinforcement

 

[sixsixtwo]

Never, never, never date a single mom in the U.S. You could end up on the hook for child support when you break up with her. : MensRights

 

[sixsixtwo]

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