Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[jadillac]

I was on YouTube last night listening to this song (really great song by the way)


And I scroll down to look at comments and this is the top comment:

Same here brother. after three years, she tells me she wants to "act her age". In other words, party and act like a YOLO slut. I did everything for her, i was the sweetest guy. I made her wooden treasure chest for her birthday & i added items from new york (where she dreams to go) & so much more i added inside the treasure chest. she texted me saying she regrets leaving me & cheating on me. I changed my number and told her to leave me alone forever. she broke my heart. She regrets it. Her Loss.

here's another comment:

Wow, I come here and here all these stories about the same exact thing that I am currently going through. Nice to know I am not alone out here in this cruel world. My ex left to go party and in her words "act her age and be young". Thought she was one in a million but turns out she is one of the millions.

After being seperated from the girl i use to love for 3 years due to her "moving on" she called and told me she wanted to meet up, saying she missed me. But after i listened to this song i stayed home and haven't answered a call from her since.

There's tons more just like these.

Good to see these dudes arent caving in to these silly women who see they messed up.

 

[CrossBones]

The Days and Nights of an NBA Groupie: Profiles: GQ

aww, man! /kayslay


this shyt is full of hilarity! line after line of insanity and delusional bullshyt. yall, check it out

It will be here, in the lovely Doubletree Hotel, that the working girls will set up camp for the next three days. By working girls, we don't mean hookers, though these will infiltrate the Doubletree as well. (It gets a little tricky, because the working girls and the "working girls" tend to dress alike.)

oh really??

then it says

All-Star weekend is their mecca. They save all year for this. They put in for their vacation time early. They spring for hair extensions and new boots.

And with a little bit of luck, they might even get to blow a basketball player.

THERE ARE GROUPIES, and then there are Groupies. The first divide is those who will admit it—and those who won't.

As a general rule, the girls who are actually scoring—with real basketball players—(a) don't identify themselves as Groupies (if you've blown a player, you have somehow been elevated, at least in your mind, to a much higher status) and (b) don't give interviews. Talking about it is the quickest way to cut off your supply. Or worse, to lower yourself in the Groupie Hierarchy.

Im not even done with the article. I just ... I got no patience for these nonsensical ass bytches. its funny, but its crazy too. I know Im gonna read it, but aye ... these hoes are trashy. smh just smh



edit: damn I kept reading. they are some scandalous ass hoes. yall should peep this.

 

[MikelArteta]

Crossbones where were you before breh

I agree on ignoring women, nothing bothers them so much than a heterosexual male giving them zero attention

 

[CrossBones]

Crossbones where were you before breh

I agree on ignoring women, nothing bothers them so much than a heterosexual male giving them zero attention

oh, me? I been having to get things right at my own house first


but I been here for a minute, giving out daps and green for a while to the brehs in the thread. I really like how this is here made to learn, and build with others. and we dont have to put up with the yapping noise a lot of females make. clears the vision. its important.

 

[winb83]

[ame=http://youtu.be/886UlSIPdwk]Charlene Amoia Charter Communications Commercial - YouTube[/ame]
I really hate this ad. The way this guy proposes to that chick is disgusting. It's like when you're trying to get a small child to eat and you do the whole spoon is an airplane thing. I mean seriously that's the whole attitude behind marriage?

 

[MikelArteta]

Never, never, never date a single mom in the U.S. You could end up on the hook for child support when you break up with her. : MensRights

I've never heard of one good story of a guy dating a single mom


I never understand how a "man" can be ok being a proxy father with no benefits

 

[MikelArteta]

I remember when I got engaged I was a simp, the whole one knee, special place bs

Never again

 

[CrossBones]

Charlene Amoia Charter Communications Commercial - YouTube
I really hate this ad. The way this guy proposes to that chick is disgusting. It's like when you're trying to get a small child to eat and you do the whole spoon is an airplane thing. I mean seriously that's the whole attitude behind marriage?

LOL. women are the biggest spenders of cash, especially when you consider how much men have to spend on them. they typically dont invest, save, or build companies with their money. its not even surprising to see the tv use their every waking opportunity to enamour, cater to, and act like the world is at the feet of women. that its all out there for them to have (buy/get.)

in a way, we're to blame for that, the pushed attitude of seeking acceptance through buying her things is a tricky one. yet, actually groveling and kissing up to women just in order to buy her more things (including privileges) is inexcusable. the media will you have thinking you have to whoo her, and buy her mind blowing shyt just so she feels special. men are reducing themselves as being cash mines for women. and they bend, beg, and bow to women solely so that they can be accepted by them. and buy them more things. all just so that they can "stay in love" and "show her you care"

its a toxic thing to see, but if you look carefully below the surface, all you will see there is programmed consumerism and a sickness from both sexes. instead of being there for each other, you have to be there to constantly buy shyt for "love." GTFO

I have no problems on spending something if its my girl, but if she isnt getting me shyt or acting like if its not enough money being spent on her

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

the crazy thing is, it might be that youre getting assistance from the glasses, but the glasses dont win no wars! ya nahmean?! but really, you seein it all comes down to what you present to them. I see the little moves youre doing, and its on point with what you want to do. of course they love to see a man with resources doing his thing. thats some real fire that attracts these moths.

but Im going to switch it up on you, and give some things that I notice youre doing, and what you might want to be doing. now keep in mind, if it works for you, keep doing what you do. everyone is comfortable in doing what they like, so this may not be for you.


but look, when youre telling them a lot about yourself, youre sort of giving up the chase early. you need to build intrigue. youre taking away from your own mystery. always theyre trying to figure you out, and youre giving them the whole plot from jump. now these are just random women youre approaching and (I think) trying to fukk and thats it. but you want to pry into them. make them the main attraction and the feel like the star. turn all the questions around on her. when she questions you, give her vague, witty answers that dont really answer her.

not only do women love that, but it protects yourself from stalker ass, clingy bytches. keep yourself more of a mystery. and fukk around with the glasss if its you, or just throw them away. thats not the important part. do your own thing. thats what they find intoxicating. we know already they never like some dude who follows around her. theyre not leaders, and they know that, so it disgusts them (which we know you dont do, Im just pointing it out).

then as almost an afterthought, include a bytch in your activity. holla at her or just let her come to you. just make sure you are enjoying yourself before she is with you. they love that, because it shows that you made your own way. and they always wanna join in that! married, single, glasses or not

My bad for taking a long time to respond to this. It was the last thing I saw before I left the house today and only had time to dap real quick before I had to run off to school.

You have a few gems that I want to adopt here. It'll take some new breaking ground on my part, therefore a little more brain work on my part. It'll also take a little more brain work because it also seems, on the whole, a little more cerebral. At least at first, until it becomes natural.

The inclusion of a new girl in my activity should be easier to adopt, thinking of new questions to keep the conversation about her will take a little practice, but hells yeah I'll be trying it.

On another note, I am currently encouraging my fellow brehs to do this. When you do this as part of a daily regimen for a month, it becomes WAY less scary to get rejected because it's more like you're starting an experiment rather than actually going into the "field" trying to get laid. You don't feel like anything is at risk. Like you're playing with house money. You've got nothing to lose except maybe time. In the end you realize you never have anything to lose to begin with, which makes field play easier, as well...

 

[Brandsdale]

Charlene Amoia Charter Communications Commercial - YouTube
I really hate this ad. The way this guy proposes to that chick is disgusting. It's like when you're trying to get a small child to eat and you do the whole spoon is an airplane thing. I mean seriously that's the whole attitude behind marriage?

if you hate this you're gonna despise the effort dude went through to do this shyt

 

[CrossBones]

My bad for taking a long time to respond to this. It was the last thing I saw before I left the house today and only had time to dap real quick before I had to run off to school.

You have a few gems that I want to adopt here. It'll take some new breaking ground on my part, therefore a little more brain work on my part. It'll also take a little more brain work because it also seems, on the whole, a little more cerebral. At least at first, until it becomes natural.

The inclusion of a new girl in my activity should be easier to adopt, thinking of new questions to keep the conversation about her will take a little practice, but hells yeah I'll be trying it.

On another note, I am currently encouraging my fellow brehs to do this. When you do this as part of a daily regimen for a month, it becomes WAY less scary to get rejected because it's more like you're starting an experiment rather than actually going into the "field" trying to get laid. You don't feel like anything is at risk. Like you're playing with house money. You've got nothing to lose except maybe time. In the end you realize you never have anything to lose to begin with, which makes field play easier, as well...

no doubt player, I feel what you doing. shyt is g.

when I have trouble finding things to talk about, I either 1) ask her some questions/opinions - girls like to talk about themselves always 2) keep it quiet and suggest more drinks (start to make a move), or 3) get up and go somewhere else. walk with her.

having activities that you like to do is important, because then shes going to get to know you a bit more through that, and you can share something you enjoy with her. and, like previously said you still going to have fun doing what you like - fukk all that other stuff of trying to impress her ass

I found that having little activites to do together are the most fun. go swimming, walk the beach, bowling, wine tasting, boat ride, gun range, or whatever. you find what you like to do first and also where you like to go. then just hang out with her in your spot. everything else comes easy when youre focused on sharing shyt that YOU like to do with her. she'll probably see the fun in it too

as for approaching bytches, I cant even do all that right now. I got personal business I gota get cleaned up first. ay but keep us updated

 

[jadillac]

I've never heard of one good story of a guy dating a single mom


I never understand how a "man" can be ok being a proxy father with no benefits

I wont say never.

There's people like Reggie Bush, DL Hughley who were raised by men other than their natural fathers.

I just would say you have to look at the situation. If she got a divorce or the guy beat her, or something else like that and they had a kid that's one thing. Maybe she has a good job and is positive.

You avoid the single mom who still goes clubbing every week, or has a "baby daddy" who she argues with, etc.

 

[philmonroe]

I wont say never.

There's people like Reggie Bush, DL Hughley who were raised by men other than their natural fathers.

I just would say you have to look at the situation. If she got a divorce or the guy beat her, or something else like that and they had a kid that's one thing. Maybe she has a good job and is positive.

You avoid the single mom who still goes clubbing every week, or has a "baby daddy" who she argues with, etc.

Yeah I agree with this too and can add Shaq to that list also. I still personally find it hard to do cause the time I did it it was the chick that still had the "baby daddy" she was always arguing with. Dude was also singing like Jodeci so I had to be out even though her kids are cool.

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

Approaching a new woman every day for a month, Day 5:

I was determined to stay on point for this, so after work tonight I made a short detour to a local bar downtown in order to hit on this really hot greeter at one of the classier joints downtown. I figured it was a good opportunity to try and sharpen my game with restaurant staffers that get hit on all day long.

I made it a point to not be sure where I wanted to sit. She was helping me out a bit and I kept trying to make witty comments along the way. She also had a thick Swedish accent. Was not ready for that, but I didn't let it disrupt my flow. I was able to playfully ask for her name before she sat me down. Dayum she was so hot...

Tried making small banter with the bartender. She seemed really exhausted, she said she was on the end of a 8 or 10 hour shift. Not sure, I can't remember. Doesn't matter, though. I didn't let it affect my confidence, though.

I also tried to find her after, but I think that she may have gone on break before I left. Got her name, though, and left what seems to be a good impression.

Saw a cute chick while I was putting my stuff into my car after my beer. I would have said something to her, but we were in a parking structure and I'm not trying to get myself pepper sprayed.

I will have a better one tomorrow.

 

[Malta]

I was on YouTube last night listening to this song (really great song by the way)
Jerrod Niemann - What Do You Want - YouTube

And I scroll down to look at comments and this is the top comment:


here's another comment:




There's tons more just like these.

Good to see these dudes arent caving in to these silly women who see they messed up.

My friend's ex just contacted him the other day, they hadn't spoken since maybe Feb or March I think. She left him after 4 years and wanted to remain friends, he said that wasn't possible and stopped talking to her. I feel bad for him now, cause he was getting over it and now that she hit him up, the shyt has completely mind-fukked him. Women can be evil, she damn near destroyed him with her surprise breakup. So what exactly did she have to gain from hitting him up and telling him she was worried about him.

This is one of the few people I consider somewhat of a friend, and now I gotta talk him through this shyt all over again cause the dude is now just out of it. That song couldn't be anymore true, dude told me he sent her a long message, and hasn't gotten a response.


nikkas hate on Reincar and crack jokes about his situation all the time, but it takes a strong ass person to go through what he went through. Regardless of how someone comes out of it, that brother went through the fire and came out of it.