Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Shadow King]

Na breh ain't even like that it's been made clear if u ain't got a damn reason too wtf u need too cuz if u do And she knows I don't play

If she feels she has a reason by all means but if u trying to pull a reason all the damn time just cuz u wanna be nosey or think to find shyt get over ur insecurities or

She knows to come to me if she keeps feeling a certain way and I can talk to her and guide her and ease her mind

Just cuz i allow u access doesn't give u right to abuse it there are still limits I have and u keep crossing them even tho I'm fair and explain them
Kick rocks as far as I'm concerned cuz I'm not gonna give u a reason too be that way

 

[360dagod]

Just been hitting the gym...all this buildup from not having sex and pursuing women is going straight to the workout...

I must say the blessing in disguise is I'm eating better than ever and my cardio game done got...and I gained a lil strength

I'm SLOWLY starting to see the results...

 

[Shadow King]

Just been hitting the gym...all this buildup from not having sex and pursuing women is going straight to the workout...

I must say the blessing in disguise is I'm eating better than ever and my cardio game done got...and I gained a lil strength

I'm SLOWLY starting to see the results...

I need to do a month of no fap and see what happens in the gym
This sex drive though

 

[Mr210]

Real talk if I ever have the urge to check a chicks phone, I will just stop talking to her, because the 3 times I snooped I found stuff...looking back I'm glad I did what I did because it saved me some major headaches, but a part of me feels bad snooping through her phone, looking in files on her computer, looking in her closet when she was at work, looking through her stack of mail

 

[Mr210]

I love how mature this thread has become. Real dudes chopping up game & swapping experiences.

I remember there used to be a lot of lame posts like "how do I get my co-worker to like me" etc

Since most of us here are early thirties & our dating pool shrinks by the day. How do you feel about dating single mothers?

I've dated 2 single mothers, both had 1 kid each....my current GF doesn't have any kids

 

[360dagod]

I need to do a month of no fap and see what happens in the gym
This sex drive though

Breh....take it day by day...

The more time you spend doing shyt the less time you will have to fap..

Don't get it twisted, you will get tested...

But I stay active...

Oh yea...eat clean...

I feel much more in control of myself since I've cut the bad carbs and starting eating more protein and drinking water

 

[Shadow King]

Breh....take it day by day...

The more time you spend doing shyt the less time you will have to fap..

Don't get it twisted, you will get tested...

But I stay active...

Oh yea...eat clean...

I feel much more in control of myself since I've cut the bad carbs and starting eating more protein and drinking water

I won't

 

[TRUEST]

Yes, a "perceived" investment. As adept as women are at wearing gamefaces and keeping secrets, as well as the fact that the boyfriend is the only person out of the loop while the side man knows and enjoys his place, there's nothing REALLY wrong with making sure you aren't getting played, sick or pinned with a baby that isn't yours.

Yes checking your girls phone routinely while clutching yours tightly is hypocritical, but I don't know where @TRUEST and other phone-check advocates stand on the availability of their phones.

You can't control infidelity but you can find out it's occurring and move accordingly while you're least affected.

I have no problems with my significant other going thru my phone.

 

[brebabyyy]

I have no problems with my significant other going thru my phone.

Would it be a issue for you, if your SO didn't want you going through her phone?

 

[TRUEST]

Would it be a issue for you, if your SO didn't want you going through her phone?

Yes. Not to sound arrogant but a chick saying no to me indicates she doesn't like me or respect me as much as I feel she should. And a no to me usually spells regret for her.

 

[FakeNews]

So ive previously discussed how I dont really fukk with coworkers even though ive been tempted in the past. Well me and this lady had been talking to each other on the job casually. She has a nice little personality and a phat ass

She told me she was worried about her job security I didnt take her seriously enough when she told me that because she had been there for a while. Hadnt seen her for a week come to find out she got fired! Ugh. Lessoned learned I played it safe and was too hesistant to make a move.

However I did my research and found her IG. So I need some advice how do I get at her on IG without coming off as a creep even though I am because I want to play this right and make it seem like I found her on there by accident

 

[TRUEST]

So ive previously discussed how I dont really fukk with coworkers even though ive been tempted in the past. Well me and this lady had been talking to each other on the job casually. She has a nice little personality and a phat ass

She told me she was worried about her job security I didnt take her seriously enough when she told me that because she had been there for a while. Hadnt seen her for a week come to find out she got fired! Ugh. Lessoned learned I played it safe and was too hesistant to make a move.

However I did my research and found her IG. So I need some advice how do I get at her on IG without coming off as a creep even though I am because I want to play this right and make it seem like I found her on there by accident

a woman thats worried about her job security could have easily lured u into a sexual harassment situation where she gets to sue the company and not have to worry so much about her job security. u on the other hand, get screwed.

its worth a shot kicking it to her. but if she got fired, she might have ill-feelings towards the company and anyone reaching out from that company will likely ignite her ire quite easily. be careful

 

[brebabyyy]

Yes. Not to sound arrogant but a chick saying no to me indicates she doesn't like me or respect me as much as I feel she should. And a no to me usually spells regret for her.

Interesting. Is that a deal breaker for you when you're dating?

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

Yes. Not to sound arrogant but a chick saying no to me indicates she doesn't like me or respect me as much as I feel she should. And a no to me usually spells regret for her.

What if it's not about respect, but boundaries...?

 

[TRUEST]

What if it's not about respect, but boundaries...?

i have dated enough women to know there is no such thing as boundaries if the girl is really feeling u. if ur not really feeling a guy, then why date him? and when u think about it, why would u be nervous about ur man looking into ur phone? there's obviously something in there that makes u uncomfortable.

to digress a little bit, i dated a girl once who revealed to me during one of our playful sessions we have, that, in the past, she has slept with 2 guys at the same time.

my heart sunk.

up to that point, i had been letting little things she did that i didnt like, slide cause i really liked her. but after she told me that (granted, it was years before we met) i just knew it was a done deal for her. she can never be wifey. the idea of a woman allowing herself to be dominated by two men at the same time is the ultimate sign that that girl is mentally unstable and unsuited for any man of worth.

yes, she revealed this to me herself. but this is the kind of information i would have wanted to know before allowing myself to get emotionally entangled with her, or worse, marry her. she later said she she regrets telling me that because she could tell it really bothered me. but i was glad she did, and had she not, these are the type of things u would find out from going through her phone or other social media accounts.