Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[BlackManLiveFromLondon]

A nikka like me im only 19 and I'm seeing how fukked up the game is

Then again, I found out at like 15-16 how shyt was

Gotta give a shoutout to you guys in your thirties the advice here has been A1. Furthermore, women really need to be banned from posting in this thread because they don't contribute at all

 

[TRUEST]

This is crazy man....

I normally respect what you have to say on here but this is just going too far.

This reeks of insecurity and unstableness on your part. You have to let people exercise their free will to live life and trust that you've picked one who is loyal.

see. the world revolves around me. and those who choose to be in my world must abide by my rules. if they dont want to abide by my rules, they have the free will to leave.

when im dating a woman, i treat them like queens. im not HOH (hard on hoes). i actually have a very soft spot for the women i date. i buy them sh1t, i take em out to fancy places every time. and they love it. now, if im doing all that for a woman, and its been established that im her man, and she is my woman, she has no, i repeat, NO RIGHT to entertain any other dude. what is entertaining other dudes? text messaging is a start. facebook communications, etc. u get the point.

if ur dating an attractive girl, any man who isnt related to her by blood will be trying to get with her. whether or not u choose to believe this is really irrelevant to me. thats just a fact.

when i tell a woman i dont want them talking via text to any men theyre not related to or any men they havent known since their childhood (even that comes with restrictions), those who arent of a slutty disposition laugh it off on some "aww, he really likes me - he wants me to himself". others who thrive off excessive male attention will put up a fight on some "nah u cant tell me who i can or cannot talk to". and thats fine. a girl who gives me sh1t on this is liable to get tossed deep into the wilderness (otherwise known as the 'bushes' to u coli brehs).

u see. women have the tendency to keep many men around. and a lot of them actually do believe these men are their friends. but im sure uve heard stories of a girl haging out with her friend who shes known for years, and one thing led to another, and voila, they fuccked. yeah, this may happen when shes not dating anyone. but i;ll be damned if a woman cultivates a relationship with another dude while shes with me. over my dead body. it can happen to you though, but thats ok too. im sure ur a bigger boy than me and u can handle it

 

[360dagod]

Yeah it will come to light alright.. months or years later when you find out you got something incurable

Are you gonna give her a curfew and put a GPS on her vagina?

Are you gonna call every number in her phonebook and press them

You could be wifing a broad that was a whore in the next town over that started a new life...

You can get a STD off rip from something she had before she got with you...

You cant control every variable in life...

Do the best scouting report you can and let the chips fall where they may..

Women are good cheaters, but they give hints that shyt aint right

 

[TRUEST]

Are you gonna give her a curfew and put a GPS on her vagina?

Are you gonna call every number in her phonebook and press them

You could be wifing a broad that was a whore in the next town over that started a new life...

You can get a STD off rip from something she had before she got with you...

You cant control every variable in life...

Do the best scouting report you can and let the chips fall where they may..

Women are good cheaters, but they give hints that shyt aint right

this post was not thought out properly.

 

[International Playa]

The truth always comes to light one way or another........but I'm certainly not going to spend my time looking for something negative.

I also operate under the assumption that everyone cheats.

I'll cross that bridge if and when it gets there.

You got dudes out here who ars raising children that are not theirs because their lady was also fukking someone on the side. Them dudes probably dont know their woman cheated.

 

[Atlrocafella]

Even though there is disagreement on the topic of checking on your investment, still good to see a healthy debate/discussion going on

 

[360dagod]

see. the world revolves around me. and those who choose to be in my world must abide by my rules. if they dont want to abide by my rules, they have the free will to leave.

when im dating a woman, i treat them like queens. im not HOH (hard on hoes). i actually have a very soft spot for the women i date. i buy them sh1t, i take em out to fancy places every time. and they love it. now, if im doing all that for a woman, and its been established that im her man, and she is my woman, she has no, i repeat, NO RIGHT to entertain any other dude. what is entertaining other dudes? text messaging is a start. facebook communications, etc. u get the point.

if ur dating an attractive girl, any man who isnt related to her by blood will be trying to get with her. whether or not u choose to believe this is really irrelevant to me. thats just a fact.

when i tell a woman i dont want them talking via text to any men theyre not related to or any men they havent known since their childhood (even that comes with restrictions), those who arent of a slutty disposition laugh it off on some "aww, he really likes me - he wants me to himself". others who thrive off excessive male attention will put up a fight on some "nah u cant tell me who i can or cannot talk to". and thats fine. a girl who gives me sh1t on this is liable to get tossed deep into the wilderness (otherwise known as the 'bushes' to u coli brehs).

u see. women have the tendency to keep many men around. and a lot of them actually do believe these men are their friends. but im sure uve heard stories of a girl haging out with her friend who shes known for years, and one thing led to another, and voila, they fuccked. yeah, this may happen when shes not dating anyone. but i;ll be damned if a woman cultivates a relationship with another dude while shes with me. over my dead body. it can happen to you though, but thats ok too. im sure ur a bigger boy than me and u can handle it

They have a right to do whatever they want regardless of what you do 4 them...And you have a right to dismiss them afterwards...

 

[Poitier]

My thing is you can be in a long term relationship and it fizzles out and you can still feel like you wasted your time, whether folks were faithful or not

And I get the STD thing but I personally haven't been burned nor have I come across folks who that happened to like that to be tweakin like yall doing ITT

As already stated though, different strokes for different folks

 

[Mr210]

Even though there is disagreement on the topic of checking on your investment, still good to see a healthy debate/discussion going on

Cosign...very powerful

 

[360dagod]

Speaking of investments...

Investing heavy into established stocks is like investing into a woman who has already reached her peak and is simply floating around..

Yall buying long on stocks(women) you should be short-selling(not taking serious) or waiting till the recession hit to pounce on and flip when the stock gets higher..(Let the next nikka deal with her bad habits in a real relationship)



Id rather lose buying long looking for the next Amazon(upstart) than to buy long on some stock that i can't even get real bread off of...

The nikka who invested in Microsoft when it 1st started(1st/2nd ex)already got the best the company had to offer...He gonna always be good...I wanna be that guy..Not the nikka who get the leftovers

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

see. the world revolves around me. and those who choose to be in my world must abide by my rules. if they dont want to abide by my rules, they have the free will to leave.

when im dating a woman, i treat them like queens. im not HOH (hard on hoes). i actually have a very soft spot for the women i date. i buy them sh1t, i take em out to fancy places every time. and they love it. now, if im doing all that for a woman, and its been established that im her man, and she is my woman, she has no, i repeat, NO RIGHT to entertain any other dude. what is entertaining other dudes? text messaging is a start. facebook communications, etc. u get the point.

if ur dating an attractive girl, any man who isnt related to her by blood will be trying to get with her. whether or not u choose to believe this is really irrelevant to me. thats just a fact.

when i tell a woman i dont want them talking via text to any men theyre not related to or any men they havent known since their childhood (even that comes with restrictions), those who arent of a slutty disposition laugh it off on some "aww, he really likes me - he wants me to himself". others who thrive off excessive male attention will put up a fight on some "nah u cant tell me who i can or cannot talk to". and thats fine. a girl who gives me sh1t on this is liable to get tossed deep into the wilderness (otherwise known as the 'bushes' to u coli brehs).

u see. women have the tendency to keep many men around. and a lot of them actually do believe these men are their friends. but im sure uve heard stories of a girl haging out with her friend who shes known for years, and one thing led to another, and voila, they fuccked. yeah, this may happen when shes not dating anyone. but i;ll be damned if a woman cultivates a relationship with another dude while shes with me. over my dead body. it can happen to you though, but thats ok too. im sure ur a bigger boy than me and u can handle it

@360dagod sums up how I feel quite well.




I'm quick to throw a bytch in the bushes so I don't think it's about being a "big boy" who can handle it more so than the fact that it sounds crazy to put "restrictions" on a grown adult. It's this type of smothering talk that actually drives women to cheat.

They have a right to do whatever they want regardless of what you do 4 them...And you have a right to dismiss them afterwards...

Are you gonna give her a curfew and put a GPS on her vagina?

Are you gonna call every number in her phonebook and press them

You could be wifing a broad that was a whore in the next town over that started a new life...

You can get a STD off rip from something she had before she got with you...

You cant control every variable in life...

Do the best scouting report you can and let the chips fall where they may..

Women are good cheaters, but they give hints that shyt aint right

 

[TRUEST]

They have a right to do whatever they want regardless of what you do 4 them...And you have a right to dismiss them afterwards...

no they dont. i have the right to ensure she's worthy of my affection and all the goodness that comes with it. she has no right to prevent me from knowing who she is.

try selling a merchandise and tell your potential customers that they cant see or touch it unless they buy it first.

 

[TRUEST]

Even though there is disagreement on the topic of checking on your investment, still good to see a healthy debate/discussion going on

im not sure its a healthy discussion when the disagreement is on something ridiculous like is water is wet.

pros of checking on your investments:
1. know early if ur being played for a fool. avoid the embarrassment
2. save a ton of your money - money that would have been spent on an already doomed relationship
3. avoid getting an STD from a insatiable chick who just had to entertain every guy that comes her way
4. avoid having a kid thats not urs pinned on you (u can always get a paternity test done but theres still 9 months before the baby is born - those 9 months can cost u)
5. ...... im sure there are more benefits if i were to really think about it.

cons of checking on your investments:
1. invasion of privacy -
2. smothering - smothering is calling ur girl every damn time. texting like an obsessed idiot who aint never got laid. bringing her up in every other sentence.
3. crazy - crazy is leaving a toddler near a burning fire and assuming it'll stay away from it because its hot. in other words, not looking through ur girls phone is practically putting ur life in her hands. she can choose to do ur ass dirty and destroy ur life and u wont know until its too late.


i honestly cant think of one valid reason why u shouldnt check on ur girl's phone.

 

[twan83]

Some men never recover from getting cheated on... shyt will shatter a ego to pieces

I didn't went straight a$$hole mode no fukks given pass 100% when I got my heart broken from first love
Went from good guy to bad guy

 

[Darkslayer]

scenario a
imagine you checked through your girls phone and you see her msgn a dude (im pregnant and its yours), you find out and end the relationship

scenario b
your girl is pregnant you guys get married, 5 years down the road you decide to do a dna on little jr to see what hereditary diseases he might fall prey to in the future

the results shock you when you find out jr isn't yours

what scenario would you guys rather be in?

I Swear You're Like The Jesus Christ Of Bad Relationships, Went Through So Much shyt So We Didn't Have To.