Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Poitier]

So instead of being proactive and either asking or finding out yourself you should be reactive and peruse her social media (which if she is a hoe is gonna be doctored anyway), going to her hood (what if she a transplant ), being around her stupid ass friends etc...when you could just check her phone if you really suspect something. If she doesn't give it up without any hassle she probs up to something. I'd let a chick go through my phone. Aint gonna find shyt but me hollering at my boys and asking my manager about hours . so if she like naw i'm not comfortable with you going through my phone its obvious she on some bullshyt. Being reactive is how nikkas end up caught off guard a year later with they ass out when they could have saved themselves a year earlier...

Personally I've went through my girl phone before and didn't find anything but I did that because why not check on an investment because thats what an relationship is. Its a lot of fukking time and commitment.

You don't think a phone can be doctored or there is no work around for that, too? And yeah, I do all those things and they have saved me in the past.

 

[TRUEST]

A girl will get real comfortable and tell you what you need to hear unknowingly tbh, being around her girlfriends and seeing what they like, being in her hood and seeing how nikkas move around her, social media, etc

if stalking is the only way yall can deduce if you dealing with a hoe or not

i warned you. now u just keep showing ur hand and revealing how moronic u are. but keep on trying to explain ur stance. let us hear this.

 

[Poitier]

i warned you. now u just keep showing ur hand and revealing how moronic u are. but keep on trying to explain ur stance. let us hear this.

"I warned you"

says the nikka with 1000 post in here full of Ls you need to warn your future self nikka because apparently shyt aint sinking in

 

[Deafheaven]

You don't think a phone can be doctored or there is no work around for that, too? And yeah, I do all those things and they have saved me in the past.

If a bytch has enough hindsight to delete every sheisty text she ever sends how you think you ever gonna catch her slipping in any other fashion lol. In that case time to just charge it to the game you get hemmed up can't win them all just hope that if she is doing dirt its not soul crushing.

 

[Poitier]

If a bytch has enough hindsight to delete every sheisty text she ever sends how you think you ever gonna catch her slipping in any other fashion lol. In that case time to just charge it to the game you get hemmed up can't win them all just hope that if she is doing dirt its not soul crushing.

Man, this shyt is about balance. There is a way to do your due diligence and keep an eye out while not coming off like a slave master. You can take every precaution but everyone on this Earth got relationship Ls waiting for them...its inevitable. If checking her cell without any rhyme or reason is your MO then fine but nikkas calling anyone an idiot when they not a model for success need to tone that shyt down.

 

[Poitier]

And I actually agree with Truest that you can learn from failure but if you still failing then maybe you still got much more to learn.

 

[Deafheaven]

Man, this shyt is about balance. There is a way to do your due diligence and keep an eye out while not coming off like a slave master. You can take every precaution but everyone on this Earth got relationship Ls waiting for them...its inevitable. If checking her cell without any rhyme or reason is your MO then fine but nikkas calling anyone an idiot when they not a model for success need to tone that shyt down.

I could see if brehs don't want to check up on they girl. I don't agree but if a cheater gonna cheat they gonna do it anyway. But any girl I've been with IDGAF they look at my phone. I don't even have a lock on my shyt. so like if they getting angsty about me looking at their shyt on a whim I know something up. I operate on accountability tho so I would not ask anything of anyone I would not do. so yeah if she wants to check on her investment go ahead. I aint hiding shyt.

 

[Poitier]

I could see if brehs don't want to check up on they girl. I don't agree but if a cheater gonna cheat they gonna do it anyway. But any girl I've been with IDGAF they look at my phone. I don't even have a lock on my shyt. so like if they getting angsty about me looking at their shyt on a whim I know something up. I operate on accountability tho so I would not ask anything of anyone I would not do. so yeah if she wants to check on her investment go ahead. I aint hiding shyt.

I'm not saying dont check on your girl. Im saying there is levels to this shyt.

Checking the phone is a code red type move for me....not something you have as a default. If the relationship is good no need for that but I stay aware of behavioral changes, weird schedule changes, toxic elements that might come up and use that as my guide as to if I need to turn into Sherlock Holmes.

She get fidgety about her phone, got it in airplane mode all the time or taking calls outside of your presence all the time then yeah its time to raise the alert level and snoop

 

[TRUEST]

And I actually agree with Truest that you can learn from failure but if you still failing then maybe you still got much more to learn.

who says i was failing or still failing? dont confuse ur life with mine. we've already established ur a moron. so, before u speak, word of advice, think. especially if u want to challenge me of all people. go reconvene with that other gangbang loving girl, discuss the way forward then reach back in here for some knowledge.

and if u wanna talk about Ls. look at the number of posts u have, and compare it to mine. look at the time i registered, and look at the time u registered. u obviously have no life outside of a computer screen. dont let me go in on you.

 

[Deafheaven]

I'm not saying dont check on your girl. Im saying there is levels to this shyt.

Checking the phone is a code red type move for me....not something you have as a default. If the relationship is good no need for that but I stay aware of behavioral changes, weird schedule changes, toxic elements that might come up and use that as my guide as to if I need to turn into Sherlock Holmes.

She get fidgety about her phone, got it in airplane mode all the time or taking calls outside of your presence all the time then yeah its time to raise the alert level and snoop

Naw. agree to disagree. sometimes you just gotta do it on a whim when shyt is seemingly good anyway. I had one of my exes tell me she go through my phone sometimes and at first I was like and ready to bush her but then I was like I'm around bytches all day cuz of my field. I'm a young fly nikka. maybe she trying to know if I'm creeping or something idk. So I was like aight take your lock off your shyt. I aint look at it then and there but every once in a while I would and I found nothing ever. Could she had been cheating, maybe, but I found no such proof and it puts you at ease in some ways. And lets not just attribute it to stepping out on the relationship. It could be all types of wild shyt your girl keeping from you that you would want to know. I don't go snooping often. tbh I've done it like less times than I can count on my hand but I see why nikkas should do so.

 

[TRUEST]

I'm not saying dont check on your girl. Im saying there is levels to this shyt.

Checking the phone is a code red type move for me....not something you have as a default. If the relationship is good no need for that but I stay aware of behavioral changes, weird schedule changes, toxic elements that might come up and use that as my guide as to if I need to turn into Sherlock Holmes.

She get fidgety about her phone, got it in airplane mode all the time or taking calls outside of your presence all the time then yeah its time to raise the alert level and snoop

be a man and own up to your foolishness

 

[Poitier]

who says i was failing or still failing? dont confuse ur life with mine. we've already established ur a moron. so, before u speak, word of advice, think. especially if u want to challenge me of all people. go reconvene with that other gangbang loving girl, discuss the way forward then reach back in here for some knowledge.

and if u wanna talk about Ls. look at the number of posts u have, and compare it to mine. look at the time i registered, and look at the time u registered. u obviously have no life outside of a computer screen. dont let me go in on you.

I'm on a forum.....so I post, not lurk all day like a bytch and I'm in every section dropping knowledge not just in a relationship thread sounding like the male iyanla fix my life

I'm done doing the back and forth til you are in a successful and healthy relationship not built around you "getting angry" all in your hoemotions like a woman

 

[TRUEST]

If a bytch has enough hindsight to delete every sheisty text she ever sends how you think you ever gonna catch her slipping in any other fashion lol. In that case time to just charge it to the game you get hemmed up can't win them all just hope that if she is doing dirt its not soul crushing.

dude just wanted to argue. but he chose the wrong thing to argue on. but he's backed himself into a corner and is now looking stupid, trying to back track on some "aaaaa i never said u shouldnt spy on ur girl" lol

 

[Asiatic Black Hebrew]

@Poitier @TRUEST

 

[TRUEST]

I'm on a forum.....so I post, not lurk all day like a bytch and I'm in every section dropping knowledge not just in a relationship thread sounding like the male iyanla fix my life

I'm done doing the back and forth til you are in a successful and healthy relationship not built around you "getting angry" all in your hoemotions like a woman

says the guy arguing on the same side of a woman who thinks gangbanging is ok, and its ok to prevent her future boyfriends/husbands from knowing.

unfortunately for you, all the 62000 messages uve posted over the years have been reduced to these last pitiful messages from u. u basically showed ur ass and highlighted how dense u are. cant formulate a sentence to back up any argument. u just argue just to argue. classic trait of a airhead.