Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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No homo in advance but i need some advice brehtren about sex.

So yesterday me and my girl decided to go on air bnb and get us a room in a house instead of hotel which was nice. Everything was going well until after we had sex. Mind you it was our first time doing it together. She said that the sex was good but it wasn't what she expected. So, now im confused like "What do you mean"?

She then said "Dont get me wrong, it was good but I couldnt feel shyt".

"Im just not used to this"

"I Wanted you to pound my shyt"


Im like :why:
So she's basically straight up telling you that she's used to dudes blowing her back out :picard:

I'm honestly not even sure how I'd feel about that.
 

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No homo in advance but i need some advice brehtren about sex.

So yesterday me and my girl decided to go on air bnb and get us a room in a house instead of hotel which was nice. Everything was going well until after we had sex. Mind you it was our first time doing it together. She said that the sex was good but it wasn't what she expected. So, now im confused like "What do you mean"?

She then said "Dont get me wrong, it was good but I couldnt feel shyt".

"Im just not used to this"

"I Wanted you to pound my shyt"

Im like :why:

It wasnt like I was stroking her like an old ass man lol. I was giving it to her and managed to Stay hard the entire time but I did go on autopilot at times just so I can last longer. We also did foreplay beforehand. I used a condom but I dont like em because sometimes it make my shyt go soft.

Then i heard her whispering to a homegirl on the phone in the bathroom. I didnt hear the Conversation though.

Im like Damn you gotta tell her our Business smh. I got my nut and was satisfied. I did what I had to do:yeshrug:

It just makes it seem like theres something wrong with me. Lowkey it got me thinking that she used to fukking bigger guys 8-12in. Im on the average side of the game and im content with that. I cant do nothing about it. Thats what i was born with.

But It sorta put me on notice to see what can I do better. She just chalked it up to trying a different Position Next time.

She ended up giving me head later in the night and no Problems...no problems until I got on my phone and played a Quick game of Spades

She started bytching about that saying that I disrespected her.

What I can't lay down, get head and play Spades on my phone?:gucci:

Idk brehs...Im really feeling this chick but Damn :snoop:

She's in a good Mood now, just dropped me off but Im still thinking about last night. I feel a lil insecure now.:francis:

Abort...you lost her respect and you are not satisfying her
 

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The irony of the folks who've gone through and continue to go through a litany of bad and toxic relationships where they get played calling anyone naive or an idiot.

what makes u and idiot is quite simple. those who u claim went through and continue to go through a "litany" of bad toxic relationships actually found out about it early on and dipped. the naive idiots like u usually dont realize ur in a bad toxic relationship until years down the line when you;re raising someone else's kid.

the fact that u and a woman who loves to engage in gangbangs are on the same side of an argument did not tip u off that you're not very smart? :jbhmm: you may be slower than i originally thought.
 

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what makes u and idiot is quite simple. those who u claim went through and continue to go through a "litany" of bad toxic relationships actually found out about it early on and dipped. the naive idiots like u usually dont realize ur in a bad toxic relationship until years down the line when you;re raising someone else's kid.

the fact that u and a woman who loves to engage in gangbangs are on the same side of an argument did not tip u off that you're not very smart? :jbhmm: you may be slower than i originally thought.

Breh no offense, but you're a goofy nikka and you act like a scorned female. We get it....you don't want to be hurt again so instead you try to control every aspect of your world.

But, you aint no relationship guru and your advice isn't some one-size fits all approach for everybody.

And no, just because you "get out early" doesn't mean you not a simp with terrible taste in women hence the repeated cycle of "getting out early"

The fact that hoes keep playing you didn't tip you off you're not as smart as you think you are and simply being reactive to the women who have power over you? :russ:
 

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How is this feasibly possible friend.

A girl will get real comfortable and tell you what you need to hear unknowingly tbh, being around her girlfriends and seeing what they like, being in her hood and seeing how nikkas move around her, social media, etc

:mjlol: if stalking is the only way yall can deduce if you dealing with a hoe or not
 

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Breh no offense, but you're a goofy nikka and you act like a scorned female. We get it....you don't want to be hurt again so instead you try to control every aspect of your world.

But, you aint no relationship guru and your advice isn't some one-size fits all approach for everybody.

And no, just because you "get out early" doesn't mean you not a simp with terrible taste in women hence the repeated cycle of "getting out early"

The fact that hoes keep playing you didn't tip you off you're not as smart as you think you are and simply being reactive to the women who have power over you? :russ:

i cant take offense to anything u say because ur not bright. and nothing u assumed in this ridiculous post makes sense. unlike u, i learn from other people's mistakes.

and again, i ask, u weren't tipped off on how ridiculous u sound when u found urself arguing on the same side of a self proclaimed gangbang loving female?
 

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i cant take offense to anything u say because ur not bright. and nothing u assumed in this ridiculous post makes sense. unlike u, i learn from other people's mistakes.

and again, i ask, u weren't tipped off on how ridiculous u sound when u found urself arguing on the same side of a self proclaimed gangbang loving female?

sure buddy

mr "I'm gone control my woman like a slave and if she don't go along I'm gone get angry:fire::fire::mad::mad::angry::angry: " ass nikka :mjlol:
 

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A girl will get real comfortable and tell you what you need to hear unknowingly tbh, being around her girlfriends and seeing what they like, being in her hood and seeing how nikkas move around her, social media, etc

:mjlol: if stalking is the only way yall can deduce if you dealing with a hoe or not

So instead of being proactive and either asking or finding out yourself you should be reactive and peruse her social media (which if she is a hoe is gonna be doctored anyway), going to her hood (what if she a transplant :ld: ), being around her stupid ass friends :scusthov: etc...when you could just check her phone if you really suspect something. If she doesn't give it up without any hassle she probs up to something. I'd let a chick go through my phone. Aint gonna find shyt but me hollering at my boys and asking my manager about hours :yeshrug: . so if she like naw i'm not comfortable with you going through my phone its obvious she on some bullshyt. Being reactive is how nikkas end up caught off guard a year later with they ass out when they could have saved themselves a year earlier...

Personally I've went through my girl phone before and didn't find anything but I did that because why not check on an investment because thats what an relationship is. Its a lot of fukking time and commitment.
 
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