Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[True Blue Moon]

Well me and my girl just broke up...she told me that we weren't connecting sexually and i couldnt Please her enough with not having a Monster dikk

The crazy thing is she the first chick to complain about this. Im fukking hurt right now.

My Pride

Yo breh. You might not hear this now, but your life is about to become amazing because of this if you roll with the energy properly.

Not even being funny, but it may be a matter of needing to get your sex game right. Women don't communicate as bluntly as this chick in most cases, but will suffer in silence or not give you the proper criticism that you need to be as mind blowing in bed as you as a man of high achievement are able to be. So your sexual history MIGHT (I'm on the outside looking in, so this is just one perspective) consist of chicks who never told you things you could do better, or who (like most women) don't know what peak sexual experiences are because they've only been with dudes who don't fukk them right (which is most dudes).

Basically, it's my belief that most people have sexual shame or hurt, so they're not able to really open up and fukk each others' brains out in ways that are give and take. It's either two people getting a nut without really connecting, or two people sexually incompatible. Couple that with the fact that neither side really tries to fix their own shyt or communicate with their partner, and we have a pool of people with sexual hangups or having bad sex.

So if you eat this L and use the energy of the pride being hurt into turning you into a dude seeking peak sexual knowledge, skill and experience, you'll become a monster in sex and all areas of your life. The hurt points you toward a blessing, so stay on "fukk that bytch" for however long you need to heal, but then put your man boots on and get better from it.

While her sexual enjoyment is NOT the end all be all of your ability as a man to please a woman, it may be an indicator that you need to explore sexuality deeper so that you have the wherewithal to be able to adapt to any woman's sexual energy and lay it down like a king.

 

[reserved_one]

That was brutal of her. A simple I'm not feeling this should have been enough. U don't need a heartless person like that in ur life anyway

And the thing is she still wanna be friends. I dont know if i can do that, not because im Selfish but because im gonna be constant reminded of that shyt when i talk to her or see her.

 

[reserved_one]

Yo breh. You might not hear this now, but your life is about to become amazing because of this if you roll with the energy properly.

Not even being funny, but it may be a matter of needing to get your sex game right. Women don't communicate as bluntly as this chick in most cases, but will suffer in silence or not give you the proper criticism that you need to be as mind blowing in bed as you as a man of high achievement are able to be. So your sexual history MIGHT (I'm on the outside looking in, so this is just one perspective) consist of chicks who never told you things you could do better, or who (like most women) don't know what peak sexual experiences are because they've only been with dudes who don't fukk them right (which is most dudes).

Basically, it's my belief that most people have sexual shame or hurt, so they're not able to really open up and fukk each others' brains out in ways that are give and take. It's either two people getting a nut without really connecting, or two people sexually incompatible. Couple that with the fact that neither side really tries to fix their own shyt or communicate with their partner, and we have a pool of people with sexual hangups or having bad sex.

So if you eat this L and use the energy of the pride being hurt into turning you into a dude seeking peak sexual knowledge, skill and experience, you'll become a monster in sex and all areas of your life. The hurt points you toward a blessing, so stay on "fukk that bytch" for however long you need to heal, but then put your man boots on and get better from it.

While her sexual enjoyment is NOT the end all be all of your ability as a man to please a woman, it may be an indicator that you need to explore sexuality deeper so that you have the wherewithal to be able to adapt to any woman's sexual energy and lay it down like a king.

I hear you breh...appreciate the feedback. Im really going thru it right now but im going do Everything i can to turn this into positives.

 

[brebabyyy]

Well me and my girl just broke up...she told me that we weren't connecting sexually and i couldnt Please her enough with not having a Monster dikk

The crazy thing is she the first chick to complain about this. Im fukking hurt right now.

My Pride

That's awful. How long were y'all together? Those things could be worked on, that's just me. Don't be down on yourself about it.

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

I hear you breh...appreciate the feedback. Im really going thru it right now but im going do Everything i can to turn this into positives.

Yeah breh, if anything appreciate the honest feedback. At least it's something you can bounce back from.

"Do you want a pretty lie? or the ugly truth"

 

[True Blue Moon]

I hear you breh...appreciate the feedback. Im really going thru it right now but im going do Everything i can to turn this into positives.

Don't rush feeling better about it. I know exactly what you're going through. It's a blow to the ego because we're men, so unless you allow yourself to feel the L completely and every emotion that comes with it, you're going to hide it in other things. Once the negativity runs its course or gets old, then you're ready to start thinking positives.

 

[MalikX]

Well me and my girl just broke up...she told me that we weren't connecting sexually and i couldnt Please her enough with not having a Monster dikk

The crazy thing is she the first chick to complain about this. Im fukking hurt right now.

My Pride

She did you a favor. She sound like a bytch. Imagine a dude breaking up with a girl and telling her, her p*ssy was wack If she had any kind of decorum she could've just said she wasn't feeling you. No need to blow your ego like that. Plenty of chicks out here breh.

 

[MalikX]

The convo is a few pages old but, I just assume most women are hoes

All the nastiest shyt you can imagine a broad doing, I just assume they all did it.

And then if over time they show themselves to be otherwise, my mind will change.

Disappointment comes from expectations. You build things up in your head about how things are supposed to be and then when it doesn't happen how you expected it to happen in your head, you get butthurt. You can apply that to alot of things in life, not just women. If you didn't have all that entitlement or those expectations about people, you wouldn't get so angry when it went left. Some people might say that's a negative/bitter outlook but, its probably alot better for your mindstate than putting everybody on a pedestal they aint deserve and losing it when the reality of that person didn't end up matching what you built them up as in your head. So basically everybody aint shyt until they prove to me otherwise I'm still a happy jovial guy but, in my mind you aint shyt

 

[Swagaveli]

Yo breh. You might not hear this now, but your life is about to become amazing because of this if you roll with the energy properly.

Not even being funny, but it may be a matter of needing to get your sex game right. Women don't communicate as bluntly as this chick in most cases, but will suffer in silence or not give you the proper criticism that you need to be as mind blowing in bed as you as a man of high achievement are able to be. So your sexual history MIGHT (I'm on the outside looking in, so this is just one perspective) consist of chicks who never told you things you could do better, or who (like most women) don't know what peak sexual experiences are because they've only been with dudes who don't fukk them right (which is most dudes).

Basically, it's my belief that most people have sexual shame or hurt, so they're not able to really open up and fukk each others' brains out in ways that are give and take. It's either two people getting a nut without really connecting, or two people sexually incompatible. Couple that with the fact that neither side really tries to fix their own shyt or communicate with their partner, and we have a pool of people with sexual hangups or having bad sex.

So if you eat this L and use the energy of the pride being hurt into turning you into a dude seeking peak sexual knowledge, skill and experience, you'll become a monster in sex and all areas of your life. The hurt points you toward a blessing, so stay on "fukk that bytch" for however long you need to heal, but then put your man boots on and get better from it.

While her sexual enjoyment is NOT the end all be all of your ability as a man to please a woman, it may be an indicator that you need to explore sexuality deeper so that you have the wherewithal to be able to adapt to any woman's sexual energy and lay it down like a king.

And how does one go about embarking on such a noble mission?

 

[True Blue Moon]

And how does one go about embarking on such a noble mission?

Everything we need to know starts on the inside, so that's the first place to look.

Example, if I'm a dude that busts super quick as a grown man, there's probably more of a psychological than a physical reason. The average dude would just start buy some numbing cream or do math in his head. A dude who wants permanent change would ask himself why his body is literally running from the p*ssy, and that'll take a lot of tough questions and honest answers until he finds the hangup that holds all the symptoms together.

To be more specific to dudes example, his chick wanted him to "pound that shyt". Because it doesn't take much for a woman to notice when a dude is dropping his strokes in with some umph behind it, I'm going to assume breh is naturally more tender with chicks than most might like. There's always different tastes, but her being completely put off by the whole thing leans more toward breh not being dominant enough in bed.

That "blame" goes both ways perhaps, but this could either be a one-off situation of being sexually incompatible, or one of many instances where breh, in some form or fashion, was more on the tender side when the chick he's dealing with craved the more dominant side.

Asking yourself questions and being real with the answers that come up is always a good starting point.

 

[BigMan]

And the thing is she still wanna be friends. I dont know if i can do that, not because im Selfish but because im gonna be constant reminded of that shyt when i talk to her or see her.

Remain friends?

Is that bytch dumb ? Why would she think you'd do that

 

[reserved_one]

That's awful. How long were y'all together? Those things could be worked on, that's just me. Don't be down on yourself about it.

We known each other since April but things got more serious between us in May when we started spending more time together and we became official this month.

I just started bringing her around the family too...met her fam last week.

This week was our first time having sex.

 

[brebabyyy]

We known each other since April but things got more serious between us in May when we started spending more time together and we became official this month.

I just started bringing her around the family too...met her fam last week.

This week was our first time having sex.

Wow. She's sounds childish as hell. Looks like in reality you've dodged a bullet. Y'all just started having sex and she's already complaining yall weren't connecting? smh

 

[MalikX]

We known each other since April but things got more serious between us in May when we started spending more time together and we became official this month.

I just started bringing her around the family too...met her fam last week.

This week was our first time having sex.

Moved way too fast bro. Way too fast

 

[MollyGalaga]

Just when I think i finally found a woman to date, she hits me with the " im not looking for a relationship right now everytime i get into one i always waste my time"
Which is cool i understand. So i told her how i felt and she was like "put it like this she just kind of going with the flow"
Then i was like "ok lets go with the flow then etc etc etc"

She says "idk"

So i say, "its cool im not asking u right now for ur answer, im saying think about it"

Feel like i need to just chalk it up as an L yo