Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I live in Minnesota its like 5 month winters damn near :mjlol:

I guess I just don't get too lonely anymore. If I want some ass I now know how to get it and keep it being only ass but at this point sex isn't that big of a deal to me. Time is becoming a huge factor and I now realize the sunk cost of dealing with women. Real talk at this point I'd rather chill at home playing games than go out and entertain a byrd for some ass nowadays. If I want to just get easy sex sure I can put that mask on but I'm over not being completely myself at all times. Its not worth the cognitive dissonance for me. This is just me personally however so I can understand if other brehs disagree.
This is why I can't "go out there" but very soon I won't have a choice.
 

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Some or a lot of men seem to think women are stupid. That false. Women are smart and they always know what they're doing when it comes to men. They are in control of their actions and they are very selective.

If a female you are cool with is not interested in meeting up, it's not that she has other plans or just not interested in meeting up in general. It's that she's not interested in meeting up with you. If a different dude asks her the same thing, she will put off plans, re-arrange plans or drop all excuses to make sure she meets up with him.

If a female does not respond to your message, it's because she's not interested in speaking to you. Women always check their phone, messages etc. They see everything and read everything. The excuses they provide are bullshyt because if a certain dude messages them, they will respond come hell or high water and do everything they can to keep the conversation going.

If a woman is thinking about cheating/seeing someone else, they will tell certain dudes they have a boyfriend, but wait for the right dude and throw it all at them. It could be a friend of her boyfriend, or just someone she finds physically attractive. Again, very selective on every single thing and circumstances are considered.

If a woman claims she doesn't give head, the real story is that she will only do it for the right person she feels the most comfortable with.

I don't know why men think they are stupid when it comes to dealing with men. Granted their emotions may get in the way of rational behavior, but when it comes to being calculating, selective and secretive, they masters at that. And that does include manipulation.

Eddie Murphy said it best. Men are dogs. Women are cats. One is messy and easily noticeable, the other is secretive and diligent.
 

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Some or a lot of men seem to think women are stupid. That false. Women are smart and they always know what they're doing when it comes to men. They are in control of their actions and they are very selective.

If a female you are cool with is not interested in meeting up, it's not that she has other plans or just not interested in meeting up in general. It's that she's not interested in meeting up with you. If a different dude asks her the same thing, she will put off plans, re-arrange plans or drop all excuses to make sure she meets up with him.

If a female does not respond to your message, it's because she's not interested in speaking to you. Women always check their phone, messages etc. They see everything and read everything. The excuses they provide are bullshyt because if a certain dude messages them, they will respond come hell or high water and do everything they can to keep the conversation going.

If a woman is thinking about cheating/seeing someone else, they will tell certain dudes they have a boyfriend, but wait for the right dude and throw it all at them. It could be a friend of her boyfriend, or just someone she finds physically attractive. Again, very selective on every single thing and circumstances are considered.

If a woman claims she doesn't give head, the real story is that she will only do it for the right person she feels the most comfortable with.

I don't know why men think they are stupid when it comes to dealing with men. Granted their emotions may get in the way of rational behavior, but when it comes to being calculating, selective and secretive, they masters at that. And that does include manipulation.

Eddie Murphy said it best. Men are dogs. Women are cats. One is messy and easily noticeable, the other is secretive and diligent.
Some or a lot of men seem to think women are stupid. That false. Women are smart and they always know what they're doing when it comes to men. They are in control of their actions and they are very selective.

If a female you are cool with is not interested in meeting up, it's not that she has other plans or just not interested in meeting up in general. It's that she's not interested in meeting up with you. If a different dude asks her the same thing, she will put off plans, re-arrange plans or drop all excuses to make sure she meets up with him.

If a female does not respond to your message, it's because she's not interested in speaking to you. Women always check their phone, messages etc. They see everything and read everything. The excuses they provide are bullshyt because if a certain dude messages them, they will respond come hell or high water and do everything they can to keep the conversation going.

If a woman is thinking about cheating/seeing someone else, they will tell certain dudes they have a boyfriend, but wait for the right dude and throw it all at them. It could be a friend of her boyfriend, or just someone she finds physically attractive. Again, very selective on every single thing and circumstances are considered.

If a woman claims she doesn't give head, the real story is that she will only do it for the right person she feels the most comfortable with.

I don't know why men think they are stupid when it comes to dealing with men. Granted their emotions may get in the way of rational behavior, but when it comes to being calculating, selective and secretive, they masters at that. And that does include manipulation.

Eddie Murphy said it best. Men are dogs. Women are cats. One is messy and easily noticeable, the other is secretive and diligent.

THIS. Reason why I pray for women downfall.
 

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Since 2017 I only went on 2 dates. All I met at work. Anyway, I go out a lot and talk to a bunch of women still taking Ls. Nothing poppin. I truley hate women Breh. I dispise them. American society allows them to get away with so much it's insane. Just last night I went out I saw this white chick around my age with another white lady that around 40 but had a body of a 26 yr old. I said what's up to her she walked right past me with her middle finger in my face. I didn't do anything just blew it off n started talking to this black chick that was right next to me. All a sudden the same white girl that gave me the finger walked back to me and told me she was sorry she did that. I told the chick I'm good and ignored her. As I'm talking to the black chick her dude pulls up and get real close to her as if I was gonna snatch her. He tells me what's up i says what's up they leave to this club next door. Real talk it don't matter where I go I talk to women, I get ignored, I change my game up from being aggressive to assertive still taking Ls. Black women to White women whatever fukk em.
 

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How do you deal with stuff like this brehs? :patrice:

Had drinks with this girl on Monday. Prior to that we were hitting it off and extremely flirty before meeting. During it we did the normal icebreaker stuff and asked questions.

Later that night she said that I was nervous during our date. I explained myself (too much) that I wasn't and any sort of nervousness is normal meeting someone with romantic intent.

We texted a little but she stopped Tuesday. She texts me this afternoon. I haven't texted her back. Should I even bother with her mind games? She's attractive and I thought we had in commin, but I could be wrong.

In order for women to stop playing games you gotta tell them exactly what you want to do. You have to have a plan. No plans equals mind games. She ether down or not. If not charge her to the game.
 

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Chick I hung out with today was chill. Sexy as hell. We went to this pool/spring area and she joked saying "You get to see me with no makeup and bikini to see what I really look like!"

The thing is she is going through a divorce right now and she is probably emotionally everywhere. Even today she decided to dip out because of something she had to deal with.

I noticed that she had some small scars, therefore she used to be into cutting herself so she probably had issues early on. She seemed very funny and outgoing around me though.

I like her but she may be emotionally unavailable. Her friend told me to hang out with her more so I will do just that from time to time.

fukk that. Charge her to the game. Don't deal with women that have those issue. Bipolar, panic attacks all that. They just gonna mess up your mental health or even get you hurt cause they cannot control their emotions.
 

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Breh that shyt aggravated me. You fukk up the dinner plans and then have the nerve to show up to my crib stinking of cigarette smoke. Got that smell getting all into my couch. She had to go. Been bushes for her ever since.

THIS. Bet she got done sucking 2 dikks at once before she got there. Women are disrespectful as hell.
 

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took this chick out for drinks, having a good time took her back to the crib and then go for the kiss and she say she has a boyfriend. bytch WHY THE fukk YOU GOING OUT FOR DRINKS AND GOING BACK TO nikkaS CRIB IF YOU HAVE BOYFRIEND.

I really can't fathom some of these chicks sometimes.:hhh:

then had tha nerve to say I hope this doesn't mean we can't hang out :dahell:
nipped such foolishness in the bud immediately. I don't need friends I'd fukk

fukk that. Call her boyfriend up to tell him that she is trying to set him up to get killed. Tell her to give you your money back. Chicks like this are stupid. You don't know if her bf a simp and could show up on that date a murk you both.
 

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fukk that. Charge her to the game. Don't deal with women that have those issue. Bipolar, panic attacks all that. They just gonna mess up your mental health or even get you hurt cause they cannot control their emotions.

You're right. I gotta stop being blinded by a woman's looks.

Hung out with a girl this weekend. Sweet girl but seems that her life isn't in order right now. I end up meeting girls I'm luke warm into. I haven't been excited for a girl in a while and starting to miss my ex and what we had.

I got a date with this one girl next week so let's see what's up
 

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fukk that. Call her boyfriend up to tell him that she is trying to set him up to get killed. Tell her to give you your money back. Chicks like this are stupid. You don't know if her bf a simp and could show up on that date a murk you both.

I aint fukk with ol girl further. I also didn't spend money on her, never do on preliminary dates. If they don't like going dutch till I get to know them then theres the door.
 
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Chick I hung out with today was chill. Sexy as hell. We went to this pool/spring area and she joked saying "You get to see me with no makeup and bikini to see what I really look like!"

The thing is she is going through a divorce right now and she is probably emotionally everywhere. Even today she decided to dip out because of something she had to deal with.

I noticed that she had some small scars, therefore she used to be into cutting herself so she probably had issues early on. She seemed very funny and outgoing around me though.

I like her but she may be emotionally unavailable. Her friend told me to hang out with her more so I will do just that from time to time.

Once you fukk she will try to consume you.

Be warned.
 
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