Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
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lets be realistic though. yes, u can get paper and talk to chicks. but i doubt u'll understand how difficult it is to do both when u have real life responsibilities.
what does "talking to chicks" mean? when u get with a chick who likes u, u can bet she'll be blowing up ur phone. and if u dont respond fast enough, or if ur responses are often delayed, she'll get frustrated and go somewhere else. it aint like ur the only hot stuff around....unless of course u got millionaire type money. now, thats just one chick. imagine having multiple chicks ur talking to? how do u juggle that and still get ur paper? u really cant. somethings gotta give and in this case, ud be wise to let it be the women that gives.
talking to chicks on a consistent basis and maintaining a relationship takes effort and time away from u. between responding to text, setting up time to meet, meeting up, etc, u barely have time to focus on getting real money.
True Blue Moon
Superstar
A man on his purpose always has to be able to figure it out though. Because if it's not women it's kids and a family, or sick parents you gotta help take care of, or fixing personal physical and mental health issues, all while keeping your business afloat.
Now if there's definitely a time for grind season where you gotta shut everything out to hit that next level, but then there's never really a point when you "make it". If you crack six figures you wanna keep that and grow it. If you crack millions you got a gang of other problems that need your attention.
I think the key is setting and enforcing boundaries and being discerning on which chick is gaining any sort of access to your kingdom and giving whatever time you're able without compromising your mission.
Speaking from experience, there are women out there who are down as fukk and know when to yield the right of way to your mission. I got some potentially life changing news the other day that may require me to be busy and traveling. When I expressed the slightest concern over my wife missing me or wondering if she's gonna be OK, she was like "fukk that, this is what we've been working for. You do what you have to do and I'll take care of home."
I can't stress how foundational it is to have a good woman who has your back and helps build the dream with you
Now don't go fitting any old chick in that role, but women are also put here to support us. So having the right one you can dish the rock to and build with is critical. Dudes who don't learn how to deal with women on the come up will end up making bad choices in women once they're rich because they never learned the right lessons or the nature of a woman.
Shameonyou
All Star
the key point in dealing with women is being relaxed. What a bytch does shouldnt affect the way you view yourself. If she thinks you aint shyt, let her have that thought, and continue to live your life like she never existed. At the end of the day, these hoes really aint shyt. Real women wont need to be convinced to fukk with a real man. If you have to convince someone to be with you, you doing it wrong.
A man on his purpose always has to be able to figure it out though. Because if it's not women it's kids and a family, or sick parents you gotta help take care of, or fixing personal physical and mental health issues, all while keeping your business afloat.
Now if there's definitely a time for grind season where you gotta shut everything out to hit that next level, but then there's never really a point when you "make it". If you crack six figures you wanna keep that and grow it. If you crack millions you got a gang of other problems that need your attention.
I think the key is setting and enforcing boundaries and being discerning on which chick is gaining any sort of access to your kingdom and giving whatever time you're able without compromising your mission.
Speaking from experience, there are women out there who are down as fukk and know when to yield the right of way to your mission. I got some potentially life changing news the other day that may require me to be busy and traveling. When I expressed the slightest concern over my wife missing me or wondering if she's gonna be OK, she was like "fukk that, this is what we've been working for. You do what you have to do and I'll take care of home."
I can't stress how foundational it is to have a good woman who has your back and helps build the dream with you
Now don't go fitting any old chick in that role, but women are also put here to support us. So having the right one you can dish the rock to and build with is critical. Dudes who don't learn how to deal with women on the come up will end up making bad choices in women once they're rich because they never learned the right lessons or the nature of a woman.
i understand what ur saying. in your situation though, the woman in question here is your wife. not just any ol girl. im sure u married her for specific reasons, number one being u knew in ur heart she was down for u.
my post is geared really towards those who are trying to juggle multiple women. if u have a wife, like in ur situation, she actually can help propel u onto greater heights than u would have on ur own. but again, it depends on the woman.
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
What's good y'all! Got back from my vacation in Asia last week and I've been working my way back into my usual routine. Took me a minute to catch up on this thread, it took a serious jump lol. I'm glad to see so many people contributing in here.
This vacation was exactly what I needed. It allowed me to get refocused and set some goals for myself. I've got a five year plan and I'm putting it into effect.
I also came to a realization while I was relaxing and chopping it up with different women from all over. I'm through making concessions when it comes to the women I allow into my life. I put way too much hard work in to do that anymore. So to me, if she's not fulfilling the role I need her to, then she can keep it moving. Real talk. It's cutthroat out here as you guys well know already. If you fall short in whatever area a woman wants, she won't hesitate to cut you off or ghost you. We should be willing to do the same.
This vacation was exactly what I needed. It allowed me to get refocused and set some goals for myself. I've got a five year plan and I'm putting it into effect.
I also came to a realization while I was relaxing and chopping it up with different women from all over. I'm through making concessions when it comes to the women I allow into my life. I put way too much hard work in to do that anymore. So to me, if she's not fulfilling the role I need her to, then she can keep it moving. Real talk. It's cutthroat out here as you guys well know already. If you fall short in whatever area a woman wants, she won't hesitate to cut you off or ghost you. We should be willing to do the same.
Shameonyou
All Star
A man on his purpose always has to be able to figure it out though. Because if it's not women it's kids and a family, or sick parents you gotta help take care of, or fixing personal physical and mental health issues, all while keeping your business afloat.
Now if there's definitely a time for grind season where you gotta shut everything out to hit that next level, but then there's never really a point when you "make it". If you crack six figures you wanna keep that and grow it. If you crack millions you got a gang of other problems that need your attention.
I think the key is setting and enforcing boundaries and being discerning on which chick is gaining any sort of access to your kingdom and giving whatever time you're able without compromising your mission.
Speaking from experience, there are women out there who are down as fukk and know when to yield the right of way to your mission. I got some potentially life changing news the other day that may require me to be busy and traveling. When I expressed the slightest concern over my wife missing me or wondering if she's gonna be OK, she was like "fukk that, this is what we've been working for. You do what you have to do and I'll take care of home."
I can't stress how foundational it is to have a good woman who has your back and helps build the dream with you
Now don't go fitting any old chick in that role, but women are also put here to support us. So having the right one you can dish the rock to and build with is critical. Dudes who don't learn how to deal with women on the come up will end up making bad choices in women once they're rich because they never learned the right lessons or the nature of a woman.
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African_brehda
Superstar
Brehs, never thought anyone will have me in my feels.
Told my main chick, we weren't compatible in the sack, so this shyt might not work.
and I left. Texted me the next day, I was kinda cold. Haven't heard from her since
What do I do?
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
Hope y'all been lifting. No excuses.
True Blue Moon
Superstar
True words, but the thing is that I had to have a roster to whittle down before I was able to figure out which woman did or didn't fit into my life. And as down as my wife is for me, marriage is 100x harder and more time and energy consuming than the single and juggling chicks days. When me and my lady aren't on the same page now, it's a serious blow to everything, so not only is there more work to keep stuff straight, we're playing for keeps every day.
Life never slows down for a man on his purpose and women take time and energy at every stage of the dance. I've been on both sides, which is why I'm trying to get brehs out of thinking there's any sense of completion with any of this.
Plus, affection and p*ssy are like a recharge for a man out there getting it, as long as he fits it into timetables that suit him, with the right women.
Poh SIti Dawn
Staying Positive, Getting Better Everyday. Holler!
My girl is in Mexico city for 2 weeks with her friends. I gotta keep it straight but I'm definitely going to socialize a lot. B4 she left she was being hella protective over me. Now that she's gone im like meh
2 weeks
How much u trust her breh is the question
Cuz she comeback acting diff
But if u trust her enough more power too u
Enjoy ur alone time breh chill have fun hit gym.etc...
Just keep an eye out is all I'm saying for any subtle changes
Poh SIti Dawn
Staying Positive, Getting Better Everyday. Holler!
Yeahhhh fair enough. I dunno, I guess I gotta keep it fair and if otherwise then kim and still work on being better2 weeks
How much u trust her breh is the question
Cuz she comeback acting diff
But if u trust her enough more power too u
Enjoy ur alone time breh chill have fun hit gym.etc...
Just keep an eye out is all I'm saying for any subtle changes
Work on being better with or without someone should always be something u should do imo
Hell I'm married and i still try to do that
If i was in your situation I say same shyt to myself and i trust mines but I ain't stupid either
Poh SIti Dawn
Staying Positive, Getting Better Everyday. Holler!
No, you're right and it definitely is something that I focus on.
No me neither, shyt kinda paranoid me and makes me feel like I should be out there cheating you know?
Like I got her car but I don't feel like that means nothing. And we text, but I feel like I gotta put her on ignore for a few days bc she's gone and do me, but I do feel like I should cheat and break this off in fear of her doing the same to me, esp if I'm saying stuff to make her feel secure n she kinda blows it off