Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[ViShawn]

So third date with this Latina I've been seeing. I cooked a few dishes for us and she REALLY appreciated that I did that. Later after the date complimented me for my skills.

Actually she hugged me at first in the beginning but I gave her a kiss. I was ill dressed for the park (it is mad active here) but we walked around a little bit. She teased me a bit for wearing jeans at the park. Good talk, but given the fact that we started things a bit late, we had little sun.

I played around with her a bit and showed her some MMA stuff (she saw some of my moves). I later moved in for a kiss when she said "you're supposed to protect me"


We went to go bowling somewhere. First two dates she was paying and splitting. I took the lead instead and bought the fees and stuff for the bowling and a drink. We had a really fun time. She lit up playing and we talked a bit.

Later talked a bit at the park. I find out why she is holding back a bit - she's an introvert. She admits she sort of holds back on things a bit.

This date she was touching me a lot more though and more kissing. It's just frustrating because I'm used to girls blowing smoke up my ass a lot more LOL but she's different.

 

[Atlrocafella]

What do y'all say to your girl when she text you about guys trying to get at her..

e.g. the librarian or janitor tried to holla

Her former fukk buddy hit her up out the blue

I aint the jealous type so miss me with that 'you share dat gurl.. pimp slap dat hoe blah.. blah..'

She wants to see if you'll get jealous and how far you'll go. Next thing she'll be telling you about new dudes who are just her "friend".

 

[King & Duck]

She wants to see if you'll get jealous and how far you'll go. Next thing she'll be telling you about new dudes who are just her "friend".

So how do you respond to that shyt via text?

 

[Deafheaven]

So how do you respond to that shyt via text?

shes trying to normalize her talking about other men. Its a red flag tbh, be very observant going forward. Honestly if it was me I'd tell her "Thats cool, so when they taking you out :D ?"

shes either trying to get a rise out of you or setting you up for the day she cheats with one of these nikkas shes throwing in your face. Its really no in between from my experience.

 

[Atlrocafella]

shes trying to normalize her talking about other men. Its a red flag tbh, be very observant going forward. Honestly if it was me I'd tell her "Thats cool, so when they taking you out :D ?"

shes either trying to get a rise out of you or setting you up for the day she cheats with one of these nikkas shes throwing in your face. Its really no in between from my experience.

Took the words right out of my mouth. I had this happened to me in the past, bytch kept mentioning her co worker randomly, ended up being the same nikka I caught in her phone who she was texting real spicy too.

 

[King & Duck]

shes trying to normalize her talking about other men. Its a red flag tbh, be very observant going forward. Honestly if it was me I'd tell her "Thats cool, so when they taking you out :D ?"

shes either trying to get a rise out of you or setting you up for the day she cheats with one of these nikkas shes throwing in your face. Its really no in between from my experience.

Props

 

[How Sway?]

the easiest way to meet chicks is by smoking and doing drugs(esp under 25)

 

[HearNoEvil]

Getting girls without filtering for low self esteem is like catching fish without filtering for sharks.

Knowing how to catch isn't enough. We have to know what to catch as well.

 

[ball15life]

I'm being Too picky

Why you say that?

 

[Atlrocafella]

the easiest way to meet chicks is by smoking and doing drugs(esp under 25)

 

[360dagod]

What do y'all say to your girl when she text you about guys trying to get at her..

e.g. the librarian or janitor tried to holla

Her former fukk buddy hit her up out the blue

I aint the jealous type so miss me with that 'you share dat gurl.. pimp slap dat hoe blah.. blah..'

Women only pull this shyt when they feel you are too comfy and smell blood..u dropped the roster and now she gets bold...

Not knocking you because you doing the right thing, but these women don't respect right...

Sometimes you gotta drop 40 on nikkas to let them know you still got it...

 

[TRUEST]

shes trying to normalize her talking about other men. Its a red flag tbh, be very observant going forward. Honestly if it was me I'd tell her "Thats cool, so when they taking you out :D ?"

shes either trying to get a rise out of you or setting you up for the day she cheats with one of these nikkas shes throwing in your face. Its really no in between from my experience.

nah. u dont wanna say that. those are fighting words. sure u can say that if its a girl u dont care about. there's a slight, very slight chance she has no sexual intentions about them. but, its good to check them right then and there.

one of the exes i was dating who was really into me pulled something similar. i gave her money to hire movers to help her move cause im not living that physical labor lifestyle. so later that night when we went out to eat, she was telling me stories of the different conversations she got into with the movers. and how she told them this and that (all about her). yeah, listening to her say this irritated me. i doubt she did it to get a rise out of me, but i had to shut it down cause my spirit was disturbed. i told her, hun, wtf is wrong with u sharing all those details with these other men"?? are u fuccking serious? they're there to help u move. u keep it short and point them where they to go."

yes i understand a lil small talk was necessary cause of the nature of the move and i most likely overreacted because this girl was deeply into me. but, i was disturbed. and i dont like being disturbed.

she never brought up another man again.

 

[Atlrocafella]

Women only pull this shyt when they feel you are too comfy and smell blood..u dropped the roster and now she gets bold...

Not knocking you because you doing the right thing, but these women don't respect right...

Sometimes you gotta drop 40 on nikkas to let them know you still got it...

, If you're girl doesn't feel like she can't be easily replaced, she gonna try you tough.

 

[DaHNIC82]

Another thing folks do is that they try to mascarade their frustration with the dating world. Dudes say "Fukk bytches, I'm focusing on my paper" or women by saying "Fukk men I'm focusing on me".

People often force themselves to adapt this vague mentality because they been taking Ls in the game. Guarantee if the right person they attracted too come along and cooperate, they'll drop all of that bullshyt at a dime. Its just like with feminism movement. Broads would promote and stick their chest out promoting that agenda heavily. BUT the moment the right man come along. They drop that ideology QUICK. Gloria Steinman dropped all that bullshyt quick when she married David Bale. These narrcistic concepts are what people are adapting because Its a defense mechanism people are forcing themselves to adapt out of hurt.

You can DO BOTH... You can get paper AND talk to chicks... Alot of Nikkas be making it like you can't balance both nowdays

 

[Ohene]

You can DO BOTH... You can get paper AND talk to chicks... Alot of Nikkas be making it like you can't balance both nowdays

lol ive said this numerous times in the thread