this thread can really be boiled down into simple rules
1. no matter how busy u are, create a time in ur schedule where all u do is chase girls. keep ur roster full (of desirable women - not women no one else wants )
2. if number 1 is accomplished, you u can never, i repeat, never, get hung up on any chick. sure, u may find one or two that u like or even love, but should they act up and leave, u wont be heartbroken over them. u'll be over them in a few days or even a week at the most.
3. have a hobby. no, im not talking about sports or gym or anything of the sorts. yeah, those things are fun activities to do but, but, they dont make u a great person. make sure ur hobby is a business. be about ur money!
4. like ol boy bboy said, never find yourself doing sh1t for these women (being a provider). sure, u can buy her gifts, give her rides but that is only after she has done many things for you. u dont wanna be that guy she brags to her friends about on some "see what he bought me? see what he did for me? i've got him wrapped around my finger". Every girl u get with, its easy to check them when u ask them "what do you bring to this relationship?".