Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Mr Hate Coffee

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It doesn' t matter what you decide to do in life, if your woman is not your biggest supporter or biggest fan, she shouldn't be your woman. It would be too easy for another woman who shows more interest than she does to get between yall, and that shouldn't happen. Your woman should be gone so that the woman that appreciates you can get your full and undivided attention.


I bookmarked this two years ago. I wanted to re-share it because it's a good point and very relevant to a recent situation I was dealing with.
 

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"Get you somebody that can do both."
Well for now, Do Both Man can have her :manny:

Women aren't going anywhere and new ones turn 18 everyday. Being great while I have on my side has a clock attached. I'm very stubborn once I say "this is what I'm doing/not doing." Plus I know this is for my sanity and happiness. The only reason what I'm saying is challenged is because I don't have any "I got her brehs :wow:" posts in here.

bytches gotta wait till I'm happy :manny:
 

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this thread can really be boiled down into simple rules

1. no matter how busy u are, create a time in ur schedule where all u do is chase girls. keep ur roster full (of desirable women - not women no one else wants )
2. if number 1 is accomplished, you u can never, i repeat, never, get hung up on any chick. sure, u may find one or two that u like or even love, but should they act up and leave, u wont be heartbroken over them. u'll be over them in a few days or even a week at the most.
3. have a hobby. no, im not talking about sports or gym or anything of the sorts. yeah, those things are fun activities to do but, but, they dont make u a great person. make sure ur hobby is a business. be about ur money!
4. like ol boy bboy said, never find yourself doing sh1t for these women (being a provider). sure, u can buy her gifts, give her rides but that is only after she has done many things for you. u dont wanna be that guy she brags to her friends about on some "see what he bought me? see what he did for me? i've got him wrapped around my finger". Every girl u get with, its easy to check them when u ask them "what do you bring to this relationship?".
 
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Need some 3rd date ideas brehs. I want something physical where I have an excuse to get close with the girl. We made out last date and she seems to be into me. Well I know she is but she is holding back, maybe due to my father's death or the fact that she is around my age so she is more selective in who she is dating and wants to get to know me.

Anyway I was thinking dancing. Blues Dancing was on Monday but she just flew back home and said let's do something Wednesday. I was thinking Salsa. She told me the instruction was bad at this place though, but she'd still be down just to dance with me which is GREAT, but I'd still like to make it a great date overall.

Other ideas?
 

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Need some 3rd date ideas brehs. I want something physical where I have an excuse to get close with the girl. We made out last date and she seems to be into me. Well I know she is but she is holding back, maybe due to my father's death or the fact that she is around my age so she is more selective in who she is dating and wants to get to know me.

Anyway I was thinking dancing. Blues Dancing was on Monday but she just flew back home and said let's do something Wednesday. I was thinking Salsa. She told me the instruction was bad at this place though, but she'd still be down just to dance with me which is GREAT, but I'd still like to make it a great date overall.

Other ideas?

Take her to the doubletree with a bottle of brown liquor, backwoods and dirt weed. If you don't smash by the 3rd date... abort mission.
 

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Need some 3rd date ideas brehs. I want something physical where I have an excuse to get close with the girl. We made out last date and she seems to be into me. Well I know she is but she is holding back, maybe due to my father's death or the fact that she is around my age so she is more selective in who she is dating and wants to get to know me.

Anyway I was thinking dancing. Blues Dancing was on Monday but she just flew back home and said let's do something Wednesday. I was thinking Salsa. She told me the instruction was bad at this place though, but she'd still be down just to dance with me which is GREAT, but I'd still like to make it a great date overall.

Other ideas?
Just cook some food at your crib...
 

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She tells me she doesn't give head, she's a vegetarian, she isn't "sexual" (another bullshyt lie women tell us men) which not gonna entertain. She bland and boring, I gotta ask her questions as if I'm a detective on the First 48. I'm not gonna be a dikk to her cause she didnt do anything bad to me.


I'm confuse :ohhh:


You say she isn't sexual,bland and boring but this happen:

"she ask me "You want to go watch porn?" She said she was down. So we watched porn in my car. She was into scenes with Caramel. She watches anything. Told her I'm not watching no tranny, gay or any weirdo stuff. :beli: She told me cool but can she watch "anal":pachaha: I said yeah. She put on the bangbros pov with that Mike Dude that always eating chicks ass. I didn't know how to react cause she was really into watching it. She told me she likes that "clapping sound" when the chick is in a cowgirl position getting pounded. I told her that's cool. She said the also likes when dudes slap the chick. I'm told her "ok cool.." She told me to look to see if anyone was coming by the car cause there were cars parked by us. I told her no. :whew: I asked her how big were her t*ts, she told me they were a 34DD. So I felt up on her t*ts"



:ehh:
She responds to your text,Always asking you if your going out. AND is down/Likes spending time with you....:patrice:

You could of smashed that night y'all was in the car watching porn to..........:patrice:




The response you want from other chicks, your getting from her tho......:patrice:
 

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@Crayola Coyote

I see a familiar problem in your posts.

When I most wanted girls, those were the loneliest times. I thought I wanted women because I was lonely. Turned out, I was lonely because I wanted women. When I stopped chasing girls (too much heartbreak, focused on sports), they appeared in droves. I realized women aren't like achievements. Determination doesn't work. Girls are people, and people are repulsed by those who are too determined to hang out with them. Getting women is not an accomplishment. They are compliments to your life, not the focus.

What are some other goals you're trying to accomplish at the moment breh?

Im not interested in talking about other goals. My focus is to get better looking women that I deserve. I refuse to accept the leftovers that Life gave me when it comes to women. Thes ww
I'm confuse :ohhh:


You say she isn't sexual,bland and boring but this happen:

"she ask me "You want to go watch porn?" She said she was down. So we watched porn in my car. She was into scenes with Caramel. She watches anything. Told her I'm not watching no tranny, gay or any weirdo stuff. :beli: She told me cool but can she watch "anal":pachaha: I said yeah. She put on the bangbros pov with that Mike Dude that always eating chicks ass. I didn't know how to react cause she was really into watching it. She told me she likes that "clapping sound" when the chick is in a cowgirl position getting pounded. I told her that's cool. She said the also likes when dudes slap the chick. I'm told her "ok cool.." She told me to look to see if anyone was coming by the car cause there were cars parked by us. I told her no. :whew: I asked her how big were her t*ts, she told me they were a 34DD. So I felt up on her t*ts"



:ehh:
She responds to your text,Always asking you if your going out. AND is down/Likes spending time with you....:patrice:

You could of smashed that night y'all was in the car watching porn to..........:patrice:




The response you want from other chicks, your getting from her tho......:patrice:

I don't like her. I want the other chicks not her. I could have smashed, but I stopped myself cause I don't want to get in a habit of smashing any chick that chose me. I'm good.
 
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