Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Just found out that one of the girls i was housemates with in uni is a dominatrix :dead:
 

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whats that

sound like a car

(n) 1. a woman who practices BDSM in everyday life; a woman who controls her partner mentally and physically, usually in a sexual way. Vanilla people categorize this type of lifestyle as kinky. The Dominatrix is stereotypically pictured as wearing stilleto boots, black leather outfit, and hold a whip.

2. a woman who gets paid to control a person, usually in a sexual way.

3. female counterpart of a Dom
The Dominatrix tied her slave to the bedpost and prepared to whip his ass.
 

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Talked myself out of some PAAG puss yesterday.

:mjgrin::russ:
Can't lie was mad at first then laughed. The situation would have been good. Would have been occasionally meeting for :shaq: no want or need of a relationship from her POV.

Plus she lived on the next street over from me, liked black guys, single, good job as a paralegal etc. Think I spooked her. I'm used to the more exuberant PAAGs I meet up with and how them and I talk to each other. This one was a bit more wallflowerish.

Shame as she was pretty cute but eh. Although I have a feeling she'll come back round. When that late night need appears.
 
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Just found out that one of the girls i was housemates with in uni is a dominatrix :dead:

That line of work pays well. More than straight hooking The real smart ones will find themselves a 'pay pig' one of my friends used to do this.

Don't even need to physically interact with the guy.

I swear some of the ways these guys get off is just

:merchant:
 

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(n) 1. a woman who practices BDSM in everyday life; a woman who controls her partner mentally and physically, usually in a sexual way. Vanilla people categorize this type of lifestyle as kinky. The Dominatrix is stereotypically pictured as wearing stilleto boots, black leather outfit, and hold a whip.

2. a woman who gets paid to control a person, usually in a sexual way.

3. female counterpart of a Dom
The Dominatrix tied her slave to the bedpost and prepared to whip his ass.
Nah man I could never get into that.
Idk how people do it
 

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In response to the OP,

The difference between a true player and the average dude, is not how well he can talk to women, or attract women in general.

What makes a man truly successful in The Dating Game, is his ability to drop women that are on some BS or disrespectful to him. A true player has his expectations of the women that he deals with. If they don't meet those expectations, she gets cut from the roster. Simple as that.
 
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Ive been smashing this chick all summer and she has a boyfriend. As we started chilling more and more i can see she started to develop feelings for me.


Recently she just dubbed me because she says when i tell her things like i miss her, without planning to see her she think im full of shyt. She wants me to always make plans to be with her but she got a whole boyfriend :dwillhuh: she mad that she's always making plans to see me. But im not gonna extra hard for a girl that's not mine and she's in a relationship. So i dont think im wrong in this situation. what do my coli brehs think?:ld:

It's clear that she wants a serious relationship w/ you.
Her current BF is just a proxy, she wants you to fill his spot.
If you don't want to be her new man just drop her, find a new FWB. If you continue messing w/ this chick behind her BF's back it could get real :demonic:
 

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What's your favorite ones

Nothing really specific apart from the basics like don't double text but this thread completely reframed how I view my own situation and relationships on a larger scale. Allowed me to improve my self worth and given me the game that I didn't get from older male figures. I don't think people appreciate how useful this whole forum can be as a resource.
 

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Should I be bothered by my girl saying that she loves me enough to stop breathing if I asked her to?
 

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Decided to focus on self improvement for the next four months to hopefully give myself more options and confidence.

Signing up for the gym and trying to achieve all my goals and saving money.

There's a girl in my class who I'm friends with but only because I was too p*ssy to shoot the shot last year. I've learnt from this for the future but I still kinda like her but I don't think she would benefit me as she isn't driven at all. There's new students to pick from and I want to cure this oneitis. Not sure how to play this one brehs and need some advice.
 

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Decided to focus on self improvement for the next four months to hopefully give myself more options and confidence.

Signing up for the gym and trying to achieve all my goals and saving money.

There's a girl in my class who I'm friends with but only because I was too p*ssy to shoot the shot last year. I've learnt from this for the future but I still kinda like her but I don't think she would benefit me as she isn't driven at all. There's new students to pick from and I want to cure this oneitis. Not sure how to play this one brehs and need some advice.

Pull chicks as you improve. It doesn't have to be one or the other. As you improve, you'll realize that you completely overthought things and these women really aren't anything special in the first place. Improve for you, not someone else. Otherwise your foundation will be incredibly weak.

Oh and as far as the oneitis goes that has been discussed quite a bit in here. There is no such thing as the one, just who you've got on deck right now. Internalize that and you won't have that problem anymore. Take these women off the pedestal, otherwise you'll always be looking up at them as they look down on you.

And good shyt on the gym membership. I'm one of the main people in here who preach about how important it is to get yourself right physically. It'll open up your mind to things you probably didn't think were possible. Stay consistent and kill it homie!
 
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