Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Stir Fry]

Why would you marry a woman who have cheated in all her previous relationships and she told you?

I'd always felt a certain connection with her, even back in high school that I've never experienced with anyone else before. Sometimes you just gotta take that leap of faith. FWIW, she only had two guys from her past that she had fallen back on when she wasn't feeling the relationship she was in. She wasn't out doing one night stands with randoms when she stepped out at the very least. I actually new one of the guys even before she did, and the other was always just kind of a goofy lame that we all knew from highschool. Childhood breh, is a good friend to both of us, and goofy breh ain't even worth worrying about. He probably would be the one that my wife would go for if she ever were to step out, but that would just be because he's easily manipulated and my wife doesn't give a damn about him. If it ever got to this point then, I'd probably say it's something that I did seriously wrong as a husband to push her to that point.

 

[Atlrocafella]

dealing with a young girl is stressful. The sex is amazing, but her 24 year old problems be some annoying shyt to listen to. I don't give a fukk about some chick you mad at for wearing the same outfit as you at work

 

[Ohene]

dealing with a young girl is stressful. The sex is amazing, but her 24 year old problems be some annoying shyt to listen to. I don't give a fukk about some chick you mad at for wearing the same outfit as you at work

lol

how old are you? I didnt realize 24 was young (I'm almost 26)...you should imagine the shyt i hear outta these 21, 22 year old chicks.

 

[ViShawn]

Had another date with this girl. This makes four. She can make anything fun.

I notice that she is very busy with her career and I applaud that. I was complaining about not getting enough time with her but I have a lot on my plate at the moment.

She asks me about my father's death and has told me on more than one occasion I should take some time for myself. She mentioned the other night that I should seek counseling. Even though I visibly don't show it, there are times that I'm thinking about my father and want to break down due to the loss. I'm not afraid of being vulnerable but of course I need to be emotionally healthy.

I'm also job hunting. Got laid off over a month ago and I've had many prospects. Getting to second and third round interviews but nothing in the pocket yet. It's incredibly frustrating considering my last layoff was on a smaller scale, I had more severance pay, had less expenses, and I was able to land an offer within six weeks. I was thankful for that too because I got to spend a lot of time with my parents.

I don't want to divulge the job situation with her and scare of off with that too. I was making six figures in my last role and I'm certain to find something, but for more specialized roles it adds a bit more difficulty to interview and land something. The process is incredibly draining and at times demoralizing. So I think the one day a week pace we are doing is OK for now. I'm not ready for a full relationship at the moment, but her and I can peel the layers of our psyche and get to know one another.

 

[Atlrocafella]

lol

how old are you? I didnt realize 24 was young (I'm almost 26)...you should imagine the shyt i hear outta these 21, 22 year old chicks.

I know you hearing some bullshyt lol

 

[Strapped]

The average jumpoff allows 3-5 good smashes before she start gettin "ideas"

Did you research this

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

We all get fukking hammered. We take the girls back to the crib.
we all bout to go lay down in different rooms.
One girl snaps on her friend for no reason. Like goes all out bytch mode.
Slaps the fukk out of her friend and calls her a C word for literally no reason.
Dude kicks her out the house and she refuses just yelling hes just doing all this so he can fukk you
Everything went south and we took them all home and we went back to our cribs to pass out.

She was really fukking hammered but part of me feels like she wanted to smash my friend instead of her friend so she destroyed any of that happening.

Seems like a total 180 from what a guy would do for his friend.

 

[360dagod]

We all get fukking hammered. We take the girls back to the crib.
we all bout to go lay down in different rooms.
One girl snaps on her friend for no reason. Like goes all out bytch mode.
Slaps the fukk out of her friend and calls her a C word for literally no reason.
Dude kicks her out the house and she refuses just yelling hes just doing all this so he can fukk you
Everything went south and we took them all home and we went back to our cribs to pass out.

She was really fukking hammered but part of me feels like she wanted to smash my friend instead of her friend so she destroyed any of that happening.

Seems like a total 180 from what a guy would do for his friend.

 

[TRUEST]

We all get fukking hammered. We take the girls back to the crib.
we all bout to go lay down in different rooms.
One girl snaps on her friend for no reason. Like goes all out bytch mode.
Slaps the fukk out of her friend and calls her a C word for literally no reason.
Dude kicks her out the house and she refuses just yelling hes just doing all this so he can fukk you
Everything went south and we took them all home and we went back to our cribs to pass out.

She was really fukking hammered but part of me feels like she wanted to smash my friend instead of her friend so she destroyed any of that happening.

Seems like a total 180 from what a guy would do for his friend.

Wow

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

Tell me what I did brother so I don't do it next time

 

[PuffTheMagicDragon]

dealing with a young girl is stressful. The sex is amazing, but her 24 year old problems be some annoying shyt to listen to. I don't give a fukk about some chick you mad at for wearing the same outfit as you at work

I'm sure you have more examples but it's not just young chicks who complain about that lol

Tell me what I did brother so I don't do it next time

It's in bold. He's saying you shouldn't be messing with chicks under the influence. It's a rape charge waiting to happen.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

Level up

 

[360dagod]

Tell me what I did brother so I don't do it next time

A female who is hammered is automatic do not touch...

Next morning she like she don't remember what happened...you could be in deep issues

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

Bull shyt how its considered rape for them.
What about all them times I smashed a grenade drunk
Why they get the double standard we be out of our minds too.

 

[Tug life]

Ive been smashing this chick all summer and she has a boyfriend. As we started chilling more and more i can see she started to develop feelings for me.


Recently she just dubbed me because she says when i tell her things like i miss her, without planning to see her she think im full of shyt. She wants me to always make plans to be with her but she got a whole boyfriend she mad that she's always making plans to see me. But im not gonna extra hard for a girl that's not mine and she's in a relationship. So i dont think im wrong in this situation. what do my coli brehs think?