Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Me and my girl been on a break since last week. :blessed: shyt feels so good not having to call/text about bullshyt. Havent even really been thinking about her:manny:. Ive already cheated on her like 3 weeks ago. But I always cheat on my GFs.

Trying to set up something with the same chick this weekend but, she being flakey with texts.

Im trying to build a roster up. I just dont be in the mix like that. I dont cold approach and I hit bars nshyt alone and jut never have the urge to talk to bitxches :bryan:

Im 6'4, muscular with dreads and Im letting it go to waste on purpose:heh:
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Actually the older you get the easier it becomes to meet women, quality? No but women in general yes.

I always say when you want something so bad that's when you never get it, you need to concentrate on other stuff and just enjoy life.

Women are everywhere, it's not like there's a famine in the land of single women in your age range.

It's your life whatever is not working and you can change do it, go to the gym, get a hobby, change your wardrobe, work on your confidence.

Regardless of what you think of yourself there is someone uglier than you, fatter than you, broker than you that has a decent girl who loves him right now.

The odds are still in your favour, there's probably like 100 million women out there that are single in your demographic and what you want? Imagine getting 100 million shots from three and you just had to hit one to win?

Some brehs get it on the first try some on the 50th, but if you quit it'll never go in right?

Keep shooting working on your form and it becomes natural.

I always say Thank God when people reject you, because it's a blessing from.God, you don't know where they would lead you
So basically continue trying to get women but don't try to hard and thirsty and desperate because it wont come you way.
 

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Basically, what's going to happen In life is going to happen. If a woman is going to like you she's going to like you, remember there's only one of you your special and don't ever forget that


So basically continue trying to get women but don't try to hard and thirsty and desperate because it wont come you way.
 

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I always say Thank God when people reject you, because it's a blessing from.God, you don't know where they would lead you


I agree & dating someone who is REALLY in to you is much better than dating someone you tryna convince to be with you or someone you have to keep interested or always try to keep happy so they wont leave you.
 

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Yeah man, that's exactly what I've been doing. Trying to get more consistent at the gym, doing a lot more artwork, trying to get my brain right, etc. My cousin once told me after some chick rejected e (basically) "Could of been blessing. She might of brought you nothing but grief for all you know...." I always try and remind myself that the p*ssy factory is not closing anytime soon. i think what I need to do is just start putting myself in places/positions to be around more women; but at the same time I don't want to make it my main concentration. That's actually a good analogy. Plus, I'm not really that picky of dude; whatever gets the juices running is a go, no matter what color/creed/size...


I always felt there wasn't, but at the same time I always had this thing where females won't respect you or look at you crazy because of it. Like "Whats wrong with HIM, how you only had one gf and only fukked with 2 women?" Stupid shyt like that.....or they'll act like they can; but never fukk with YOU.
Basically what I want is....PRACTICE. In other words, an ACTUAL DATING LIFE. I don't even really have to juggle a bunch of females (though it's very practical to do nowadays), I could just go one at time. To put it simply, I'd like to get all (if not most) of it out of my system, and that may take a while.....
I'm not necessarily against having something more serious, but the way my life is set up, idk if it would be a good move.....

DON'T TELL THEM THE REAL TRUTH OF YOUR PAST(or lack of ) WOMEN HISTORY BREH. THAT'S TO YOUR DISADVANTAGE.


LIE, LIE, LIE
 

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one thing i've learned recently (past 24 hrs) is to never let a woman you're dealing with get too comfortable with you. As in, she can say some outlandish stuff and feel entitled that she can say those kinda stuff or certain other things and think there won't be repercussions. :camby:

shorty i've been dealin with for awhile gettin iced out cuz i noticed she been sayin stuff outta pocket. If she calls/texts, she getting ignored and if i lose her, so be it :yeshrug:

always keep the women you're dealing with on thin ice brehs. You'd rather have a female say and feel she can't read/gauge you versus her knowing/saying she has you.
 

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I moved in with a woman I wasn't attracted to because I was in a financial crisis. Long story short, I found out she sleeping with the neighbor. My ego couldn't take it, so I left in a fit of anger. Now I'm broke and homeless. Karma is kicking my ass
Update on my story, I've been hopping from motel room to motel room. I now have a second job it's only part time but it will do, and I have been apartment hunting the past couple of days. I hope something comes through. I came across the neighbor who my ex was sleeping with, and he did some low key disrespect crap. I'm on some :demonic: when I see his ass again.
 

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DON'T TELL THEM THE REAL TRUTH OF YOUR PAST(or lack of ) WOMEN HISTORY BREH. THAT'S TO YOUR DISADVANTAGE.


LIE, LIE, LIE

That was one of my main flaws...I was just way too honest. I'm thinking I'll just say I've messed around with a few....keep it cryptic.....that seems to be the way to go nowadays, keeping them in the dark about certain things....
 

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Update on my story, I've been hopping from motel room to motel room. I now have a second job it's only part time but it will do, and I have been apartment hunting the past couple of days. I hope something comes through. I came across the neighbor who my ex was sleeping with, and he did some low key disrespect crap. I'm on some :demonic: when I see his ass again.
You know it's bad when my little brother who's the goon of the family has to talk sense into me. I almost threw my life away for a dude who still stays with his mom and has no job. :whew:
 

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My exes friend singled me out of a crowd then ran up,and hugged me tight like she was tryna put her body on,me. I told her to text me or something.

Idk tho I got another girls number but iont feel like hitting her up and I don't want my exes friend to hmu bc I feel thatd be wrong. I just wanna take some space and be me. Idk there's still other girls at my school looking at me.

I feel weird I'm still anticipating my ex to hmu and what I would say. But I shouldn't.
 

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My campus is filled with so many fine sistas. :banderas: Mostly undergrad. My grad program is like 90% cac. :camby: This morning while getting breakfast b4 class there was this fine thick sista with glasses :noah:looking at me and looked at her back but I had to rush to head to my 8 o'clock class that I'm in right now. Brehs next time I see her make a move or is that coming off way too thirsty? :jbhmm:
 

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My campus is filled with so many fine sistas. :banderas: Mostly undergrad. My grad program is like 90% cac. :camby: This morning while getting breakfast b4 class there was this fine thick sista with glasses :noah:looking at me and looked at her back but I had to rush to head to my 8 o'clock class that I'm in right now. Brehs next time I see her make a move or is that coming off way too thirsty? :jbhmm:

Make it
 

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My campus is filled with so many fine sistas. :banderas: Mostly undergrad. My grad program is like 90% cac. :camby: This morning while getting breakfast b4 class there was this fine thick sista with glasses :noah:looking at me and looked at her back but I had to rush to head to my 8 o'clock class that I'm in right now. Brehs next time I see her make a move or is that coming off way too thirsty? :jbhmm:
Shoot your shot breh. shyt fukk class you should have bagged her and pulled up a couple minutes late :hubie:

I hate when I see a shortie on camp and I don't approach and don't see them either ever again or for a long ass time :shaq2: :mjcry:
 

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So I have an observation & a question..



( I already made a thread on this topic but I doubt a lot of y'all seen it lol)


So my buddy invited me to a beard gang fb page.. it has over a million member, majority women like 85%



So last Saturday I posted my pic up, as of today I have about 7k likes & 800 comments ...


My inbox has been FLOODED


I put this on my mothers soul I now have a bad female from Dallas flying up in November to visit me


I literally have women in my inbox that wouldn't have even GLANCED at me before.. now I'm not saying I'm hideous, I've always done so - so with women but never was no brad pitt women drooling over me, I had to put in work




So my observation is .... idk how to put this, but women don't really give a fukk about looks or anything of that bs, if they see 6,999 women liking your shyt they're gonna be heavy on your dikk, which is weird because like I said before the women I have inboxing me now I wouldn't have even got a glance before



Now my question is


I have shorty from Dallas flying up in November, so over a month away...


My thing is ... how should I parlay this, there's literally too many women for me to put in the actual work to fukk, I actually feel overwhelmed, so how should I go about this
 
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