Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Rich Spirit]

Brehs, incorporate more coffee dates as the first or second option when taking a woman out. You really get to know who’s worth your real $$ if you two can vibe and have a conversation in that setting. Often times, fancy restaurants and the food can be used as a crutch, and most chicks aren’t turning down free food. They may be worth something if they are down for some coffee and conversations tho.

I don’t usually do coffee dates since I don’t drink coffee, but I would hit up a Tea Shop. Some women love tea

 

[Atlrocafella]

I don’t usually do coffee dates since I don’t drink coffee, but I would hit up a Tea Shop. Some women love tea

Yeah, “coffee” can be substituted for anything relaxed. I went to Starbucks which has both.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Coffee dates or bar ones are perfect for both men and women as if the meetup is not feeling right you can make an excuse and bail after you finish the first drink.

Or you can extend it and go somewhere else afterwards.

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

I was chopping it up with this chick then proceeded to ask her what’s her number so I can call you sometime..........she responds by saying:

“Not, may I have your number or is it okay if we exchange numbers?”

Then says: “I’m sorry, I’m not trying to give you a hard time, but there is a difference between asking & telling.”

I’m getting a feeling that I have to ask for permission to get the number

Chime on this brehs..

I hope you ain't get her number my nikka. shoulda just kept it movin after she said that.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

I know as I start to bc more disciplined in,my education the better I'll be.

With that being said I've been playing catch up like a mofo doing all of this reading. I got an assignment due on thursday, a late one, and one due on Friday. But I like that I'm actually learning and getting a lot out of it. It's going better now I wanna knockout the other things in life. My car, earning more cash, I might start working 2 extra shifts at work. Investing, copping some new clothes, finally! (over the years I gave most of my shoes and pants shirts and jackets to charity, became a minimalist) I need to get my dog back. Then start doing clothes like I've got lined up in my head. A t-shirt brand, I wanna do socks too. Investing in stocks, and save up for a,new car as well as make waaaay more money than I do now. Or ever did.

Still got military option on the table too, but for right now I got stuff to do

 

[True Blue Moon]

Seem you got yourself a good one breh

How did you two manage to stick through the hell portions of a relationship

Honestly, bruh, we just always commit to living our dreams and holding ourselves and each other accountable to living the best lives we can live

We got together with the mindset that we want to live life to the fullest, and anyone who lets marriage stop them from doing that, that's their bad.

We honor each other, are faithful and loving, but don't play that little white lie because that's what you're supposed to do shyt. I don't do the little cliche "Happy, wife, happy life," tuck my balls in thing, and she doesn't dance around my ego if I have blindspots.

I think that commitment to honesty allows us to check ourselves and have hard conversations, which may solve the problem in 5 minutes or a recurring problem we don't get over until 5 years later. But because we acknowledge that this marriage thing is an option and not something we're stuck in, we work to find a way to do what's best for the squad.

When you move like that you don't do what's best for you selfishly, you don't do what's best for yourselves and each other while living as two individuals, you do what's best for love and this ride we call life as a whole

 

[Deafheaven]

I’m learning to value my time. I think people might think I’m stuck up now lol. But I wasted way to much time on the wrong females and I had the gut feeling they were the wrong ones, I just ignored it. A lot of the times these females let us know how they are , they can’t hide it. they aren’t good at lying , they aren’t master manipulators, they tell on themselves all the time, we just ignore it and try to think she’ll be different with me . Naw most people don’t change for good or bad unless some major event happens to them( shyt some still don’t change ).

Time is easily the most valuable commodity man has to give imo. I'm more upset at wasted effort and time than any type of monetary value wasted on women in life.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Any of you guys notice women say same things "I been hurt before" "I don't trust easily" "I have layers and walls up" "My ex cheated" "Most men cheat""I'm 35 I wanna be married before it's too late"

 

[letti cook]

wrong thread like shyt

 

[TRUEST]

rewatching family matters..2 scenes in particular really bothered me

1. when Laura jumped Stefan Urkelle on the dance floor, kissing him crazy...Eddie was in the background celebrating like shyt, dapping nikkas up...he might as well had a towel to wave.

2. Eddie came home one day cysed as shyt to set Laura up with an employee of his that ended up tryna pressure her into fukkin at a drive-in theater

i dont have a little sister but i would imagine this isnt proper older brother decorum

Wrong thread.

 

[letti cook]

Wrong thread.

my bad

 

[twan83]

Any of you guys notice women say same things "I been hurt before" "I don't trust easily" "I have layers and walls up" "My ex cheated" "Most men cheat""I'm 35 I wanna be married before it's too late"

And all that shyt out the window with the quickness if u know how to talk too them
Even more when they get dikk down real good too
I’ve heard all that shyt before I’m like uh huh
If it’s true coo if not don’t say the shyt cuz then after it’s said and done gonna say told u so no need to lie

 

[Fly]

in yalls experience, how true is the above tweet? 100% BS to me

 

[twan83]

in yalls experience, how true is the above tweet? 100% BS to me

That’s subjective as hell cuz there are some females who are like that to be honest

I say females fukk with dudes who keep it 100 more than anything else and put their feelings as secondary cuz it shows alpha and brute honesty
Not some simp shyt or beat around the bush shyt

 

[Deafheaven]

That’s subjective as hell cuz there are some females who are like that to be honest

I say females fukk with dudes who keep it 100 more than anything else and put their feelings as secondary cuz it shows alpha and brute honesty
Not some simp shyt or beat around the bush shyt

Yeah, I agree. you can show feelings, emotion, all that shyt but it has to come from a place of strength not weakness. you can't be a groveling depressive wreck all the time but a brief "I'm really fukked up today baby, chill" or something like that fine. As long as you masculine and centered you can move out of the stoic emotionless mold. just don't get in the habit of using your girl as your psychiatrist.