Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Deafheaven]

That’s subjective as hell cuz there are some females who are like that to be honest

I say females fukk with dudes who keep it 100 more than anything else and put their feelings as secondary cuz it shows alpha and brute honesty
Not some simp shyt or beat around the bush shyt

Yeah, I agree. you can show feelings, emotion, all that shyt but it has to come from a place of strength not weakness. you can't be a groveling depressive wreck all the time but a brief "I'm really fukked up today baby, chill" or something like that fine. As long as you masculine and centered you can move out of the stoic emotionless mold. just don't get in the habit of using your girl as your psychiatrist.

 

[twan83]

Yeah, I agree. you can show feelings, emotion, all that shyt but it has to come from a place of strength not weakness. you can't be a groveling depressive wreck all the time but a brief "I'm really fukked up today baby, chill" or something like that fine. As long as you masculine and centered you can move out of the stoic emotionless mold. just don't get in the habit of using your girl as your psychiatrist.

When they do they see u as soft as baby ass and too damn emotional which causes conflict later on down the line anybody says otherwise lying imo

Cuz she be like I wanna tell him something but he might be to emotionally or can’t handle what I’m gonna say even tho it’s not that serious such as bad day work , friends fighting, just wanna relax and be left alone

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Seems like since I said hi to shorty in my class she comes in looking at me. We walked near each other today but I didn't say nothing. Then I looked up later on and she passed me. I wanna say something but I been on stuck mode like if she not gon do this I'm not gonna say nothing. I feel like I need to focus but imma need that female sunshine in my life too.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Also reflecting on my speech, I seem to be reluctant to fill in details for ppl. A classmate and I were talking
Where do you work
I'm a bartender
Where at tho
A hotel
Wow you're vague,
Yeahhh I learned that I gotta be sometimes. But what do u do?

I know I've been told if I be cold then it'll get me to a not so good place bc not everyone responds to it. Even tho when she opened the door I said lemme get that for u and she was like naw then I made a joke about my ego and she laughed.

I can't help but be on guard and kinda wanting to shy away from my details

 

[Organic Trees]

I swear it seems like I refused to be happy. Had a nice cool chick that was diggin' me fr. Never judged me, even though I'm going through a financial issue. Proposed to me and all types of shyt. But I messed up due to my lack of trust when it comes to women. Kind of spazzed on her cause I thought she was playing me or something. Come to find out she had a personal issue she was dealing with. How do I get over my past and move on? Now she's gone and some lame nikka will bum through and sweep her up. Guess I'll be one of those dudes who stay alone forever

 

[Road20]

I don't do the little cliche "Happy, wife, happy life," tuck my balls in thing, and she doesn't dance around my ego if I have blindspots. @TrueBluMoon. Bro I'm married too a little over a year now, both in our mid 30's and If this aint the truth. Saves a lot of headaches in my house. And are you a Blue Phi breh? your username had me curious.

 

[VertigoKnight]

I swear it seems like I refused to be happy. Had a nice cool chick that was diggin' me fr. Never judged me, even though I'm going through a financial issue. Proposed to me and all types of shyt. But I messed up due to my lack of trust when it comes to women. Kind of spazzed on her cause I thought she was playing me or something. Come to find out she had a personal issue she was dealing with. How do I get over my past and move on? Now she's gone and some lame nikka will bum through and sweep her up. Guess I'll be one of those dudes who stay alone forever

No chance of reconciliation with her?

 

[Organic Trees]

No chance of reconciliation with her?

Honestly, I do not know. Tried apologizing but she ignored my txt so I just kept it moving.

 

[John Reena]

Making chicks GROW to love you is possible. U just gonna have to go thru it. Ask Jay-Z.

 

[Soundbwoy]

Honestly, I do not know. Tried apologizing but she ignored my txt so I just kept it moving.

Call her and try to open up

 

[True Blue Moon]

I don't do the little cliche "Happy, wife, happy life," tuck my balls in thing, and she doesn't dance around my ego if I have blindspots. @TrueBluMoon. Bro I'm married too a little over a year now, both in our mid 30's and If this aint the truth. Saves a lot of headaches in my house. And are you a Blue Phi breh? your username had me curious.

Congrats on the newlywed life breh. And definitely don't give up that mentality for anything in the world. Your friends and family will be on that go along to get along wave, but make sure you and your lady stick to your guns on being real. You'll be better for it in the long run.

And nah, I'm not Blue Phi, I'm actually a Que

I made the username Blue Moon a long time ago on SOHH, the old site, because at the time Blue Moon was the beer I was drinking. I got banned and came back as True Blue Moon.

I don't drink Blue Moon beer anymore but stuck with the name anyway

You a Sigma, breh?

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

I was thinking I need a new car. I don't really, I wanna start buying clothes tho. Definitely need socks and drawers. Then I'll work towards getting in some judo classes. I feel like that's going to make me feel great. Just being on that mat rolling. Gotta wait till next check and my earnings this week and see if I can even get a jump start. Ofc I've got other things I must pay 4 but this would definitely be like a bright in my life. My work load from school is shrinking. Hoping to get stuff done today and in time for Friday. No wheels is kinda burner tho when it comes to something like grocery shopping. I've been needing too but damn. Ima cop coffee and milk that's for sure.

 

[Organic Trees]

Call her and try to open up

Nah that's dead. She just started talking to her "friend" on Facebook smh

 

[Organic Trees]

Two bad experiences for me so far. I'm done being nice to females until they can prove to be trusted. Simple

 

[mortuus est]

r. I'm done being nice to females until they can prove to be trusted. Simple

but you was clearly in the wrong tho

I messed up due to my lack of trust when it comes to women. Kind of spazzed on her cause I thought she was playing me or something. Come to find out she had a personal issue she was dealing with

you not perfect

no one has to prove anything to you, you looking real insecure right now b