Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Poh SIti Dawn]

My ex hmu asking if I left a t shirt over her house. Haven't been there since August but it is mine smh.

I told her yeah, she wants to meet at school on Wednesday.

An og of mine said "that girl likes you you just keep hurting her, she'll hit u up again" this is after last week when I put her out at 5am and she said we shouldn't talk anymore. Left her panties at my crib, I tossed em tho n told her iont want no one but her but okay I understand we need to grow.

And genuinely I feel like we do. I'm getting me a career and getting me some gwap. Applied to work as a conductor and for the union doing construction. Got a reference from someone who's UP for the electricians union. Like let's go, I'm ready to take off and make gwap

 

[Cynic]

My ex hmu asking if I left a t shirt over her house. Haven't been there since August but it is mine smh.

I told her yeah, she wants to meet at school on Wednesday.

An og of mine said "that girl likes you you just keep hurting her, she'll hit u up again" this is after last week when I put her out at 5am and she said we shouldn't talk anymore. Left her panties at my crib, I tossed em tho n told her iont want no one but her but okay I understand we need to grow.

And genuinely I feel like we do. I'm getting me a career and getting me some gwap. Applied to work as a conductor and for the union doing construction. Got a reference from someone who's UP for the electricians union. Like let's go, I'm ready to take off and make gwap

Why did you reply ?

 

[Mike Ock]

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congrats on your marriage. I'm 32 one thing I would say for me when a relationship ends or a chick I'm hanging out with goes up in flame i no longer feel "down" like I used to. After a breakup years ago I don't even think I went on a date for a good like 3 years, had a broken engagement 5 months ago and was over it fast and i've been on tons of dates since, as you get older you just short of shrug things off.

bolded is interesting, stuff like what

She got flaws doggy.....I should make a thread about it

 

[MikelArteta]

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She got flaws doggy.....I should make a thread about it

spill it breh

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Why did you reply ?

Because I still care about her obviously. So maybe I can care about her from a distance or without having sex?

Plus I'm intrigued, so I respond.

Anyway,

I was leaving this dispensary, got a pre roll expecting my brother to come through and I left seen a girl, asked her if she had a lighter, then we started chopping it up after I asked if she wanted to hit it lol. So she asks if there's food or bars near and I point her to this bar called Hobos which is actually pretty dope. She's Ethiopian and from D.C..

We got beers, went and sat by the fire, she bought my beer btw lelele. And talked for a while then her homegirl came and we all talked, then she got my number (my phones dead) and her and her friend dipped. She was pretty cool, we both say the same stuff oddly enough. She was surprised by my west coast mannerisms and stuff lol.

But yeah, that was dope. Kicked it for at least an hour just on a whim leaving a dispensary lol

Plus she's got her degree, older, and is out here working on a farm and she's got that metal but black millenial college intellect swag.

Lowkey called me out for c00ning too

 

[Cynic]

Because I still care about her obviously.

On a serious note, best to cut/block her off and move on to this ethiopian breh.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

On a serious note, best to cut/block her off and move on to this ethiopian breh.

I think, imma put these females in they spots and be still. I need to stop hearing words and just seeing actions.

 

[eufemism]

How do you get young chicks to come thru once you cold approach?



I'm not trying to take these chicks on dates if I'm only going to smash once

 

[ZoeGod]

Dead ass tho that Ron Willis dude someone mentioned a couple pages has alot of good gems on game especially for black men.

 

[Shabazz]

Dead ass tho that Ron Willis dude someone mentioned a couple pages has alot of good gems on game especially for black men.

Who?

 

[Uitomy]

I don’t think I can deal with women like that anymore , at 22 I’m burned the fukk out. Like I can barely be friends with any of them and if I am they literally put me on a cut off limit for simple shyt. This one girl keeps telling me about these rappers she be fukking with and I just tell her I do not like them and a bunch of other shyt, she did it again today we argued, and stopped talking to me saying I never say nice shyt about anyone even tho she be confiding and relying on me for shyt.

Then trying to get to know a girl to date Just is too time consuming and trying to fukk, I just don’t feel motivated. Like I’m just gonna settle with the girl friends I got, and after this date I go on with this chick this week imma lay shyt on the table and see if she wanna move further, if that don’t work out I don’t realistically see myself dating or fukking anything for and indefinite amount of time.

Like man, with this snap chat and tinder and Instagram shyt it’s fukking with my head too much, too much anger and sadness and loneliness.

 

[Killigraphy]

How do you get young chicks to come thru once you cold approach?



I'm not trying to take these chicks on dates if I'm only going to smash once

Plan cheap or free coffee dates. Its convenient for me since I live next to Central Park, which means multiple dates, multiple locations to flirt, kiss, fukk, and go to indefinitely. Remove your bedroom from the equation, she's gonna see right through that easily. In fact, make your place a mystery, one of my biggest moves, is to take them to the front of my house and leave them downstairs waiting while I change a shirt or something. This makes her curious out the gate, though she'll never tell you of course. Repeat that until she wants to come in, then work your magic inside.

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

How do you get young chicks to come thru once you cold approach?



I'm not trying to take these chicks on dates if I'm only going to smash once

Lol sorry breh, world aint working that way. These chicks been taken to dinners, movies,sporting events nshyt and didnt even have to pay. Unless you get lucky it aint happening that much unless you a famouse nikka or buying p*ssy.

Ive only dmashed 2 women this yr wherevI aint go on a date

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

I don’t think I can deal with women like that anymore , at 22 I’m burned the fukk out. Like I can barely be friends with any of them and if I am they literally put me on a cut off limit for simple shyt. This one girl keeps telling me about these rappers she be fukking with and I just tell her I do not like them and a bunch of other shyt, she did it again today we argued, and stopped talking to me saying I never say nice shyt about anyone even tho she be confiding and relying on me for shyt.

Then trying to get to know a girl to date Just is too time consuming and trying to fukk, I just don’t feel motivated. Like I’m just gonna settle with the girl friends I got, and after this date I go on with this chick this week imma lay shyt on the table and see if she wanna move further, if that don’t work out I don’t realistically see myself dating or fukking anything for and indefinite amount of time.

Like man, with this snap chat and tinder and Instagram shyt it’s fukking with my head too much, too much anger and sadness and loneliness.

You gotta delete it and love in real life nikka. Take time for yourself and just do you.

 

[Uitomy]

You gotta delete it and love in real life nikka. Take time for yourself and just do you.

Well I can’t really delete myshyt cause I have to make my photography visible, but I’m definitely cleaning the shyt out,
I’m definitely gonna follow your advice tho, it’s a bit hard cause I think I have a sub conscious neednto check on people now cause it’s convenient having instant connection but that’s the same as instant gratification. Life is funny