Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Mister_DoItNice]

did you say nothing, turn to the bartender, drop $20, look at her and say take care?

bruh, the vision of that happening got my soul like so i can't imagine how she felt. I bet her tone different now though.

but FDB.

I honestly haven’t spoken to her since that date. I don’t care for that type of behavior. Shorty was in the restaurant trying to tell me she’s not gonna accept me texting other women around her; blah, blah, blah. Part of me was amused that she thought she could exercise this level of control over me but a bigger part was just annoyed and repulsed.

So I just told her look I’m not feeling this, paid the tab, and dipped out. She walked outside the restaurant because she lives nearby and when she saw me walking in a different direction, she asked me if I was seriously leaving.

pretty much man.

i literally scheduled rendezvous with three women this weekend knowing that at least one would flop.
one was the chick i mentioned above.

I do this as well now. I’ll purposely double and triple book my Friday/Saturday plans. You know someone is bound to flake. And if none of them do then I’ll just make up a reason to reschedule for another day and roll with the shorty I like the most. I feel no remorse for it either. Women do it to us all the time, fukk it lol.

I had this one shorty I was putting on the back burner for weeks. She hit me with a text last night saying “I guess this isn’t ever going to happen.” I chuckled reading it because I could see it was a last ditch effort on her part. Didn’t have shyt going on today so I called her up and asked what she was doing and what she liked to drink. Long story short I ended up over at her apartment cracking her after I cracked the bottle of gin. Brehs gotta be willing to play this game to win.

 

[MikelArteta]

I honestly haven’t spoken to her since that date. I don’t care for that type of behavior. Shorty was in the restaurant trying to tell me she’s not gonna accept me texting other women around her; blah, blah, blah. Part of me was amused that she thought she could exercise this level of control over me but a bigger part was just annoyed and repulsed.

So I just told her look I’m not feeling this, paid the tab, and dipped out. She walked outside the restaurant because she lives nearby and when she saw me walking in a different direction, she asked me if I was seriously leaving.




I do this as well now. I’ll purposely double and triple book my Friday/Saturday plans. You know someone is bound to flake. And if none of them do then I’ll just make up a reason to reschedule for another day and roll with the shorty I like the most. I feel no remorse for it either. Women do it to us all the time, fukk it lol.

I had this one shorty I was putting on the back burner for weeks. She hit me with a text last night saying “I guess this isn’t ever going to happen.” I chuckled reading it because I could see it was a last ditch effort on her part. Didn’t have shyt going on today so I called her up and asked what she was doing and what she liked to drink. Long story short I ended up over at her apartment cracking her after I cracked the bottle of gin. Brehs gotta be willing to play this game to win.

 

[Mr.bocario]

Let me just say this real quick....


These women I’ve been talking to lately are some of the biggest waste of time bytches I’ve ever dealt with..


I had this cute, super thick , flat stomach Jamaican chick I was talking to on tinder on Monday

I’m texting the bytch here & there

Playing iMessage games with the bytch here & there

FaceTiming with the bytch a few times..


Middle of the week I secure the date bag & ask if she’s free on Saturday , she says yeah let’s do something ...

So it’s early Saturday morning like 1:30am

She text me “you with your gf”

I was asleep so I replied when I woke up “your ass is funny, I was knocked out”.. The text showed read but she never replied so I thought that was weird but whatever

Then I text her around 1pm “I’ll pick you up around 7pm “ again read n no reply, I knew it was some flukey shyt but she at work so I said fck it maybe she’s busy..


So now it’s 4pm n I say “so wasssup that cool or what I’m trying to coordinate everything” that mfer never got opened ... I probably shouldn’t have even text that but fck it.. she was already flaking before that so it didn’t matter


Overall though it’s not too much of a loss, she was cute and super thick but

She lived 50mins away

She wasn’t mobile, had no car


But damn I hate putting any amount of time in with a bytch for it to be for NOTHING , shyt is irritating as hell..

You only messed up by constantly texting,

But good job forcing the issue to make plans

A lot of dudes would’ve kept playing back and forth texting games, thinking that’s progress

 

[Ohene]

I honestly haven’t spoken to her since that date. I don’t care for that type of behavior. Shorty was in the restaurant trying to tell me she’s not gonna accept me texting other women around her; blah, blah, blah. Part of me was amused that she thought she could exercise this level of control over me but a bigger part was just annoyed and repulsed.

So I just told her look I’m not feeling this, paid the tab, and dipped out. She walked outside the restaurant because she lives nearby and when she saw me walking in a different direction, she asked me if I was seriously leaving.




I do this as well now. I’ll purposely double and triple book my Friday/Saturday plans. You know someone is bound to flake. And if none of them do then I’ll just make up a reason to reschedule for another day and roll with the shorty I like the most. I feel no remorse for it either. Women do it to us all the time, fukk it lol.

I had this one shorty I was putting on the back burner for weeks. She hit me with a text last night saying “I guess this isn’t ever going to happen.” I chuckled reading it because I could see it was a last ditch effort on her part. Didn’t have shyt going on today so I called her up and asked what she was doing and what she liked to drink. Long story short I ended up over at her apartment cracking her after I cracked the bottle of gin. Brehs gotta be willing to play this game to win.

Lol

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

Had a young Black professional event on Friday where a bunch of people met at a hookah bar.

I'm talking to a bunch of chicks, having a great time but my FWB invited herself so I only got one number on the sly. Found out the girl was from my state and she was a cool 7.5. Pretty face, cool body

Exchanged numbers and she texts me on the spot her name. I text her right there "Dont forget about me"

Sent her a message the next day in the afternoon: "Hey its ____ from ____. I hope you had a good time last night."

No reply. She may have seen me leave with my FWB but Do these bytches have boyfriends? Are they afraid to say they're not interested? On to the next one.

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

Also, I'm coming to terms that people consider me "light skinned".

Is this why I attract so many dark skinned women?

 

[MikelArteta]

Exchanged numbers and she texts me on the spot her name. I text her right there "Dont forget about me"

Sent her a message the next day in the afternoon: "Hey its ____ from ____. I hope you had a good time last night."

No reply. She may have seen me leave with my FWB but Do these bytches have boyfriends? Are they afraid to say they're not interested? On to the next one.

same broads who will scream from the pulpit they hate ghosting etc.

 

[MikelArteta]

Let me just get this off my chest real quick...

I've been more loyal to Black women than a gotdamn German Shepard K-9 police dog.

I'm gonna start venturing out more. fukk that loyalty shyt. White girls, Latinas...its an open door policy now.

I don't know if its me but i'm finding more and more black women that don't even mess with brehs anymore
@Asantehene I wonder if this is a toronto thing

 

[J.E.T.S]

Let me just say this real quick....


These women I’ve been talking to lately are some of the biggest waste of time bytches I’ve ever dealt with..


I had this cute, super thick , flat stomach Jamaican chick I was talking to on tinder on Monday

I’m texting the bytch here & there

Playing iMessage games with the bytch here & there

FaceTiming with the bytch a few times..


Middle of the week I secure the date bag & ask if she’s free on Saturday , she says yeah let’s do something ...

So it’s early Saturday morning like 1:30am

She text me “you with your gf”

I was asleep so I replied when I woke up “your ass is funny, I was knocked out”.. The text showed read but she never replied so I thought that was weird but whatever

Then I text her around 1pm “I’ll pick you up around 7pm “ again read n no reply, I knew it was some flukey shyt but she at work so I said fck it maybe she’s busy..


So now it’s 4pm n I say “so wasssup that cool or what I’m trying to coordinate everything” that mfer never got opened ... I probably shouldn’t have even text that but fck it.. she was already flaking before that so it didn’t matter


Overall though it’s not too much of a loss, she was cute and super thick but

She lived 50mins away

She wasn’t mobile, had no car


But damn I hate putting any amount of time in with a bytch for it to be for NOTHING , shyt is irritating as hell..

nikka. You are preaching to the choir right now!

Do you realize how much of this crap I've ran into in the past 6 months?!

It's NEVER been this bad. EVER.

I had a chick recently cross me over, spin move HARD.

I coordinated the entire date the day prior, even scheduled myself to get off work a couple of hours early.

The day come, she hit me with a good morning text. We kickin flava back n forth all day. Around 5pm all communication ceases.

Like you, I requested confirmation around 7pm. I see read, but no reply.

Do you realize how heated I was?!

I was well done my nikka. Smoke whistling out my ears like a teapot.

She hit me up the next day that she fell asleep and her homegirls came into town.

I must've cursed that funky hoe precisely the fukk out. Blocked her.

fukk some AMS shyt. I let ALL my emotions show. fukk that.

What are these chicks problem now a days?

A couple years ago, Every chick I wanted and tried I, at the very least, got them to kick it with me. Haven't anything about me physically has changed. Matter of fact my mouth piece has improved imo.

 

[Balla]

For real bro, it's funny actually because I never knew girls flaked so much until I got on this site. I thought it was just the chicks I got, but all bytches do that shyt.

So now I'm getting back into the game with no emotions for these women.

pretty much man.

i literally scheduled rendezvous with three women this weekend knowing that at least one would flop.
one was the chick i mentioned above.

the second one went like this:

me - "hey I was thinking we could meet up at 6 tmw. Does that work for you? Also do you live downtown"
10 hrs later
her - "hey I was thinking"
her - "I dont live downtown though. sorry for the late response I was at a seminar"
me - "you were thinking what?"
me - "where do live I can probably pick you up. call me so we can sort it all out"

brother eventually took the whip and she didnt respond so that was that

lol.

Then the third one actually hit me up a day before to make sure we were still good to go out. She arrived on time and we had a good night. Shes a cool chick and will be the one I give attn to cause she deserves it. My homie asked how I afford to go out with three chicks in one week and I told him I know what I'm doing...that girls flop and theres no way I'm spending anything more than 50 bucks this weekend...plus I know cheap but good date spots in the city. At the end of the day I see it as the girls weeding themselves out, and saving us money/time

 

[sheedteef]

This is what I’m saying. What direction do you feel we going in with all this? As an American culture? We need each other as men and women but things gotta be complicated haha

nikka. You are preaching to the choir right now!

Do you realize how much of this crap I've ran into in the past 6 months?!

It's NEVER been this bad. EVER.

I had a chick recently cross me over, spin move HARD.

I coordinated the entire date the day prior, even scheduled myself to get off work a couple of hours early.

The day come, she hit me with a good morning text. We kickin flava back n forth all day. Around 5pm all communication ceases.

Like you, I requested confirmation around 7pm. I see read, but no reply.

Do you realize how heated I was?!

I was well done my nikka. Smoke whistling out my ears like a teapot.

She hit me up the next day that she fell asleep and her homegirls came into town.

I must've cursed that funky hoe precisely the fukk out. Blocked her.

fukk some AMS shyt. I let ALL my emotions show. fukk that.

What are these chicks problem now a days?

A couple years ago, Every chick I wanted and tried I, at the very least, got them to kick it with me. Haven't anything about me physically has changed. Matter of fact my mouth piece has improved imo.

 

[sheedteef]

Just got back from the Hispanic chick’s crib since her kids are with their grandmom for the weekend. Got some fire head and she swallowed all my churn hopefully she don’t get no ideas or anything haha

 

[Ohene]

For real bro, it's funny actually because I never knew girls flaked so much until I got on this site. I thought it was just the chicks I got, but all bytches do that shyt.

So now I'm getting back into the game with no emotions for these women.

yea i used to think i was the problem but it aint us. I'm sure most if not all of us are simple dudes and dont ask for much. Stop thinking youre the problem guys.

And yea its gotten WAAAY worse now. It wasnt always like this

 

[Balla]

It's gotten worse?!



It was trash for me years ago, I had to go through so much shyt to bring a chick back to the crib. I had flakes on flakes with excuse on top of excuse.

I got cuffed up right when I was fukkin mad btiches inna row, I was puttin in work then, I got cuffed and said fukk these bytches playing games, then I barely holla'd at bytches because of their games.

Now I realized I have been out the game for a minute and I need to fukk mad bytches.

fukk the bytches that flake and play games.


I will beat them at their own game and succeed.

yea i used to think i was the problem but it aint us. I'm sure most if not all of us are simple dudes and dont ask for much. Stop thinking youre the problem guys.

And yea its gotten WAAAY worse now. It wasnt always like this

 

[finallyjames]

I don't know if its me but i'm finding more and more black women that don't even mess with brehs anymore
@Asantehene I wonder if this is a toronto thing

Oh, you from Toronto too b?