Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[bucks3115]

man
last week , i was talkin to chick on the phone
only whatsapp convo
convo was good and at the end , i told her " there is a party on friday wuld come if you are free"
she said " she working on friday but if im free i will let tou know "
today its friday i sent a msg , till now still no answer

wher did i go wrong ?


@360dagod @ApolloStark @Pclarkrsa @Rice'N Beckford @TRUEST

Update on this situation
Mind u that day she answered after 1 hour said "sorry i finish late , we can do it another time"

The party is every Friday

So today i was like let me talk to her and mayb at the end of the convo i will try to invite her again for friday again

I sent a voice like " hey wassup , hw u doin , u ve been quiet , hw was ur day "

No answer

Thanks God , i had another chick on a roster she said she gon be there

The only problem is abt the 1st one
She fine tho , got a bunch of nikka looking for her
No answer is an L
Sometimes i feel like i take those L personally


Somebody tell me wher did i go wrong ?

 

[FLATOP]

Sometimes I think of my last girls ass when Im with my current girl. It makes me sad

Im gonna get her to work out

 

[Dreamzeedream]

Is going out for breakfast good for a first date or meet up?. I'm just to get her alone, talk and see where her head is at. Plus i don't want to spend to much money

 

[Dreamzeedream]

Sometimes I think of my last girls ass when Im with my current girl. It makes me sad

Im gonna get her to work out

It must be phat?

 

[VertigoKnight]

Update on this situation
Mind u that day she answered after 1 hour said "sorry i finish late , we can do it another time"

The party is every Friday

So today i was like let me talk to her and mayb at the end of the convo i will try to invite her again for friday again

I sent a voice like " hey wassup , hw u doin , u ve been quiet , hw was ur day "

No answer

Thanks God , i had another chick on a roster she said she gon be there

The only problem is abt the 1st one
She fine tho , got a bunch of nikka looking for her
No answer is an L
Sometimes i feel like i take those L personally


Somebody tell me wher did i go wrong ?

Sounds like another breh has her attention, which means you go on the back burner for when she inevitably needs an ego boost. As others in this thread have said, a woman can change her mind from one day to next. She could be all over you one day and cold as ice the next.

I personally wouldn't have messaged her again if she didn't at least suggest another solid day that she would be actually free to do something. Her saying "another time" is too open ended.

You will take the L personally, just seeing that she's listened to your message and hasn't replied will eat a a brehs soul.

Bush her and stop chasing she's obviously not feeling you that much.

 

[bucks3115]

Sounds like another breh has her attention, which means you go on the back burner for when she inevitably needs an ego boost. As others in this thread have said, a woman can change her mind from one day to next. She could be all over you one day and cold as ice the next.

I personally wouldn't have messaged her again if she didn't at least suggest another solid day that she would be actually free to do something. Her saying "another time" is too open ended.

You will take the L personally, just seeing that she's listened to your message and hasn't replied will eat a a brehs soul.

Bush her and stop chasing she's obviously not feeling you that much.

Thanks man

 

[Secure Da Bag]

Is going out for breakfast good for a first date or meet up?. I'm just to get her alone, talk and see where her head is at. Plus i don't want to spend to much money

Meh. Take her to Starbucks .

Seriously, take her out for coffee during lunch hours. Small investment and you don't lose out on much. Plus having her be the first thing on my agenda is too much on a first date. She's not my wife. I may not even be sure she's a jump-off.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

Meh. Take her to Starbucks .

Seriously, take her out for coffee during lunch hours. Small investment and you don't lose out on much. Plus having her be the first thing on my agenda is too much on a first date. She's not my wife. I may not even be sure she's a jump-off.

but i don't drink coffee tho

 

[Astroslik]

No they cannot. The majority of black males are the lowest earning income group of all men and have the lowest chanel of social mobility. Black men tend to travel to places where they can leverage their home currency, so black males travel to Brazil, West Indies, South Africa etc.

Back people don't have money like that coz we live in a system of white supremacy. I'll ask you again , are you a black man ?

clearly your reading comprehension is off because I am not the person you replied to originally.

Second, your assertion that the majority of black males are the lowest income earning group for men actually validated my argument. If there is a majority of black men that can’t travel then there is clearly a minority that can right?

Why do you think the poster you quoted is not apart of that minority?

I’ve been to Amsterdam several times and I’m a black american male from Chicago. I’ve never in my life heard a non c00n black person automatically assert that a black person cannot travel overseas.

You’re most definately a cac or a c00n so which is it?

 

[Secure Da Bag]

but i don't drink coffee tho

They have other drinks at those types of places.

 

[ChiefKenji]

wait are you black or Japanese and where did you grow up, learn English, let alone discover this crazy ass message board. I have a lot of questions about Amsterdam cave thots

Im fully black, grew up in the netherlands and have a thing for japanese culture. I found this board ages ago when everybody from the 360waves message board left and I yearned for the exact same schooling/nikkativity for my soul. Shoot away b, lotsa yella bones here as well

 

[Silkk]

It’s a long story so I’ll start from the beginning. Started dating this chick who is adamant about not wanting a relationship. This is attractive to me because I have commitment issues as well. I’m thinking “great this will be all fun” We get along well and enjoy each other’s company. This is where I probably messed up but I invited her out when I was with a group of friends. I generally felt she was too friendly around my friends and even tried to link arms with one of my guy friends because I didnt Want to. (Red flag) I told Her she should leave...she didn’t and we wound up sleeping together with her realizing the next day that she had fukked up. We agreed that in the future she wouldn’t touch my friends. Fast forward to this weekend. I invite Her out again while I was out with one homie. He was trying to make a point to her and reached out for her hands across the table. She put her hands in his. I immediately Removed her hands and put them on her lap and called him away from the table to tell him not to do that. Then I walke Up to her and told her “you aren’t the person I thought You were you should leave”. She left and I kept Drinking. I dont Think I overreactted especially with us having it clear she wouldn’t touch my friends. . Women always focus on your response to their behaviors and not their actual behavior. I dont See her apologizing

Sound like hoe behavior breh, imagine if you wasn't there

 

[Cape Town JHB]

I'm a

clearly your reading comprehension is off because I am not the person you replied to originally.

Second, your assertion that the majority of black males are the lowest income earning group for men actually validated my argument. If there is a majority of black men that can’t travel then there is clearly a minority that can right?

Why do you think the poster you quoted is not apart of that minority?

I’ve been to Amsterdam several times and I’m a black american male from Chicago. I’ve never in my life heard a non c00n black person automatically assert that a black person cannot travel overseas.

You’re most definately a cac or a c00n so which is it?

I'm a c00n. Peace

 

[Cape Town JHB]

Ayt breh.
I need to know if the young that's there are into black men or I they chase white zaddy.
Since you black and speak Dutch is your cool black man aura still there , in other words do they still exotify or are you just a Clearance Seedorf to them.
what has been your preference of women and why, and which racial groups of women be choosing up on you the most and for what reason.

As a South African I know all about racist Dutchmen from the 1652 onwards. What is the general srate of older black people vs younger black people there when it comes to their understanding of white supremacy.

 

[ApolloStark]

this is negligible if you have clout or a bag. or she just that into you. normally what you saying is right but these byrds are fickle dumb creatures most of the time guided by the light of their own fancy. If Idris Elba met some byrd (or hell some local act that had some clout, nikka making six figures, has a cold whip etc) and he hit her up for a date next day or 2 months from now, she probs going to go for it. Women stay on that hypegamy shyt so if she sees you as a huge prize she gonna fall in line regardless. I'm not on that level yet so yeah I have to play the game as you described but best believe when I have my own business and pulling in mad guap the rules are thrown out the window.

i love this myth bandied around that suggests money = the end of women problems, usually it's only the start. wealthy people never divorce or get cheated on?