@KeysT
hopefully you learned your lesson here. in case u didnt, here are the basic common sense rules you should abide by:
1. never again in ur life, meaning, for the rest of your days on planet earth, should u EVER, EVER bring ur girl around a bunch of guys. she can never be the only girl in the midst of men. sure, there are times when it cant be avoided but if it must happen, watch her closely. very closely. any girl who seems to enjoy that kinda company (at the expense of your dignity) is immediate bush status.
2. that friend of yours who was flirting with her. u need to keep your distance from him.
3. you are not insecure at all for being uncomfortable with the situation. u have every right to be livid.
4. be careful of whose advice you take on this forum. i was very disappointed by most of the posts that responded to you.
if u dont take anything out off what i just said, read listed item 1 above and stick to just that.