So we work in the same hotel.(apparently she only works 1 day a week, in the 3 months I've been there saw her maybe 4 times) then randomly on Facebook i saw we have a mutual good friend in Boston. So when i saw her last night out and about i thought it was ironic. We talk for a few minutes and that's when she hit me with that line.
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I think it's a case by case basis. Met a girl off of Tinder a couple weeks ago and we've been chatting. We plan to meet up tonight and she straight asked me if it's cool she don't give her number to me yet. I was like
becausea) I didn't ask for her number
. I'm already text messaging her at a solid rate...don't need a number for that. If we click on the first date, then I'll see what's up. I don't like a lot of women I've met off of dating apps having my number at first becauseb) if the first date goes south and I'm not feeling her, I don't have to worry about her still trying to hit me up lol. Wish I did that with the girl that I went to the movies with last week
Again, it's a case by case basis, IMO
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Well the thing is I kinda knew her before hand because I saw her around at work a few times. And then come to find out shes a friend of a friend. But like the other posters have said im just gonna fall back. Maybe give her the whatup nod if i see her in the hallways and thats about it.I think it's a case by case basis. Met a girl off of Tinder a couple weeks ago and we've been chatting. We plan to meet up tonight and she straight asked me if it's cool she don't give her number to me yet. I was like
a) I didn't ask for her number
b) if the first date goes south and I'm not feeling her, I don't have to worry about her still trying to hit me up lol. Wish I did that with the girl that I went to the movies with last week
Again, it's a case by case basis, IMO
havoc
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You dodged a bullet, fam.Been talkin to this girl for a couple of months, been vibing & getting along, met her 2 times for lunch. Just today she told me she had feelings for me but said i needed to know something before we take things further...
her, he gave her herpesRevealed to me when her ex cheated on ...
Yeah, I’m good.
Some of you brehs are very lucky 
ChiefKenji
Lord Cuts
Talking less
Nuke Dukem
Da Bears
How often do you text a girl you're interested in before a date?
This girl I met last weekend her and I agreed Saturday would be ideal to do something. Six days
I talk a lot and overthink so I'm trying to backtrack a bit. I want to keep it light in the interim but not go too crazy. Thoughts?
Can someone give their thoughts on this.. I feel like it’s difficult to balance this
Perfect example when it’s a Monday & you set up a date for Saturday @ 8pm
I know Corey Wayne says shyt like phones/text are for setting up real life dates .. I get that ..
What’s a good middle ground so you don’t run out of shyt to talked about when you actually link
Or just enough so she doesn’t forget about the date altogether
I tend to talk fluff but never "how are you?". Something interesting. Even phone calls have helped. One time due to our scheduling I couldn't see a girl for over two weeks and we finally met.
But I actually had one girl I set a date with 5-6 days out and didn't even text her and I took her out and we had sex so go figure.
Might have to develop an edge
BornStar
Marathon Continues
Facts. Your probably too straight edge, nice and predictable like a husband. She wants that type after she is washed up.
Tell them cool and suggest being friends/cut buddies and put them in your backpocket; no more consistent communication
havoc
Superstar
If long-term relationship is what you want, you should pursue women who want the samething.