Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[phcitywarrior]

My company got the new summer interns starting this week. Already seen a couple shawties that looking right (I'm not more than 2 years older than them )

Ima probably not bite the bullet and just keep work for work.

 

[nls743]

How long have u known her?. This is not a L tho

So we work in the same hotel.(apparently she only works 1 day a week, in the 3 months I've been there saw her maybe 4 times) then randomly on Facebook i saw we have a mutual good friend in Boston. So when i saw her last night out and about i thought it was ironic. We talk for a few minutes and that's when she hit me with that line.

 

[TRUEST]

So we work in the same hotel.(apparently she only works 1 day a week, in the 3 months I've been there saw her maybe 4 times) then randomly on Facebook i saw we have a mutual good friend in Boston. So when i saw her last night out and about i thought it was ironic. We talk for a few minutes and that's when she hit me with that line.

Nah. Fall back.

 

[ball15life]

Question, if when asking for a womans number and she says "im funny about giving out my number, I have to get to know you a little more" do you take it at face value or just chalk it up to the game and keep it moving?

I think it's a case by case basis. Met a girl off of Tinder a couple weeks ago and we've been chatting. We plan to meet up tonight and she straight asked me if it's cool she don't give her number to me yet. I was like because

a) I didn't ask for her number . I'm already text messaging her at a solid rate...don't need a number for that. If we click on the first date, then I'll see what's up. I don't like a lot of women I've met off of dating apps having my number at first because
b) if the first date goes south and I'm not feeling her, I don't have to worry about her still trying to hit me up lol. Wish I did that with the girl that I went to the movies with last week


Again, it's a case by case basis, IMO

 

[ball15life]

Going to Vegas tomorrow thru Sunday with the homie

Not the best storyteller, but I'll be sure to report back with whatever happens

 

[nls743]

I think it's a case by case basis. Met a girl off of Tinder a couple weeks ago and we've been chatting. We plan to meet up tonight and she straight asked me if it's cool she don't give her number to me yet. I was like because

a) I didn't ask for her number . I'm already text messaging her at a solid rate...don't need a number for that. If we click on the first date, then I'll see what's up. I don't like a lot of women I've met off of dating apps having my number at first because
b) if the first date goes south and I'm not feeling her, I don't have to worry about her still trying to hit me up lol. Wish I did that with the girl that I went to the movies with last week


Again, it's a case by case basis, IMO

Well the thing is I kinda knew her before hand because I saw her around at work a few times. And then come to find out shes a friend of a friend. But like the other posters have said im just gonna fall back. Maybe give her the whatup nod if i see her in the hallways and thats about it.

 

[havoc]

Been talkin to this girl for a couple of months, been vibing & getting along, met her 2 times for lunch. Just today she told me she had feelings for me but said i needed to know something before we take things further...

her, he gave her herpesRevealed to me when her ex cheated on ...

Yeah, I’m good.

You dodged a bullet, fam.

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

Some of you brehs are very lucky

 

[CityGuy]

Ive been dating again after like a 6 month hiatus. Couple women I was really into and vibing with gave me the "i'm not ready" & "you're too perfect/husband material" angle.

What should I switch up?

 

[ChiefKenji]

Ive been dating again after like a 6 month hiatus. Couple women I was really into and vibing with gave me the "i'm not ready" & "you're too perfect/husband material" angle.

What should I switch up?

Talking less

 

[Nuke Dukem]

How often do you text a girl you're interested in before a date?

This girl I met last weekend her and I agreed Saturday would be ideal to do something. Six days

I talk a lot and overthink so I'm trying to backtrack a bit. I want to keep it light in the interim but not go too crazy. Thoughts?

Can someone give their thoughts on this.. I feel like it’s difficult to balance this

Perfect example when it’s a Monday & you set up a date for Saturday @ 8pm

I know Corey Wayne says shyt like phones/text are for setting up real life dates .. I get that ..


What’s a good middle ground so you don’t run out of shyt to talked about when you actually link

Or just enough so she doesn’t forget about the date altogether

 

[ViShawn]

Can someone give their thoughts on this.. I feel like it’s difficult to balance this

Perfect example when it’s a Monday & you set up a date for Saturday @ 8pm

I know Corey Wayne says shyt like phones/text are for setting up real life dates .. I get that ..


What’s a good middle ground so you don’t run out of shyt to talked about when you actually link

Or just enough so she doesn’t forget about the date altogether

I tend to talk fluff but never "how are you?". Something interesting. Even phone calls have helped. One time due to our scheduling I couldn't see a girl for over two weeks and we finally met.

But I actually had one girl I set a date with 5-6 days out and didn't even text her and I took her out and we had sex so go figure.

 

[360dagod]

Ive been dating again after like a 6 month hiatus. Couple women I was really into and vibing with gave me the "i'm not ready" & "you're too perfect/husband material" angle.

What should I switch up?

Might have to develop an edge

 

[BornStar]

Ive been dating again after like a 6 month hiatus. Couple women I was really into and vibing with gave me the "i'm not ready" & "you're too perfect/husband material" angle.

What should I switch up?

Might have to develop an edge

Facts. Your probably too straight edge, nice and predictable like a husband. She wants that type after she is washed up.

 

[AceMan]

Ive been dating again after like a 6 month hiatus. Couple women I was really into and vibing with gave me the "i'm not ready" & "you're too perfect/husband material" angle.

What should I switch up?

Tell them cool and suggest being friends/cut buddies and put them in your backpocket; no more consistent communication