Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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The concept of a "GOOD WOMAN" is a concept I would like to attempt to shed some light on as I have observed the term being used without any contextualised understanding here.

A woman tends to be more a product of her family upbringing at a younger age.
By sexual maturity she becomes more susceptible to social(peer) pressure and is moulded by what the larger DOMINANT "tribe"/society values as being desirable.

The current white supremacist/anti -black, materialistic driven global landscape we live in does not allow for a conducive environment for a black person , especially a girl/women to have any other ideals besides material driven or emotionally immature notions like "romance" "connection" "it feels right " when choosing a long term partner.

Essentially most women you meet check for how much money you have and how avaliable you are maritally and start moulding their behaviour to suit whatever they need to attract and keep you.

You can have what you consider a "good girl" and when you talk to her ex man he'll tell you she is a vindictive superficial woman. Women mould their behavior towards based on what they know they are gonna get as far as long term commitment and resources. Chances are she perceived he Ex as merely a dikk fling and thus her behaviour was moulded around that.

A lot of guys catch women who have 10-15 years of relationship failures/experiences,an imminent biological clock and social(peer) pressure and stigma of being single whilst her friends have "families". These women can go from being narcissistic self-centred individuals to "family/wifey" orientated almost over night. You can call this "maturing" or you can call it "running out of options and father time catching up" depending on what end of the cynical spectrum you are on.

My point here is that a lot of female behaviour is being interpreted with loosely defined, monolithic and ambiguous concepts/ideals of "Good" "bad" "marriage material" etc when the real underlying motivation behind female behavioural patterns is biological impulses and social/tribe conditioning/pressures, and when it comes to black women these notions have already been retarded or distorted by a white supremacist capitalistic, anti black people/men/women/children/culture society.

If you feel you have a "good woman" I would simply ask you an age old question. WHY DO YOU THINK SHE CHOSE UP ON YOU? (If you factor in her age, looks, previous relationships, kids or none, money/career status etc.)

I'm not asserting no good women exist or that they do. I'm saying that what we define as an intrinsically "good woman" is based on our social upbringing and conditioning (especially from our mothers) and when you see a woman displaying these maternalistic "good" traits, why do you think she's suddenly moulded her behaviour in such a manner since meeting you ?

Is she matured? Or is she making sure that she gets an Alpha provider and protector long term before her looks fall apart in a decade of less?.

Regardless your perspective and level of cynicism or innate optimism when it comes to women/relationships,we should and strive to always be cognizant of the social and biological forces at play that determine the majority or core of a woman's decision making when choosing a partner. We can then interpret these to suit out agenda or life perspective, but the underlying forces at play remain the same.

I hope I'm clear and concise here coz I feel this is a crucial concept as you get more seasoned.

Peace

Cualture and family background has a lot to do with bad/good women. I have notice in my case, Latinas born in the USA tend to be more reckless than those born overseas.

Choose wisely brehs.
 

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You better off using both ways since its a numbers game and those apps can get you wouldnt have a chance to meet while out.
I feel like cougars in my city (ones that are looking to fukk casually) are mostly at downtown bars. I really gotta get outta my house. nikkas are single and bored as fukk.
 

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I feel like cougars in my city (ones that are looking to fukk casually) are mostly at downtown bars. I really gotta get outta my house. nikkas are single and bored as fukk.

Fasho man you know your city better than anyone. Ima house body to but lucky for me i bartend so i can shoot my shot at work and then go back to the hotel room if we hit it off :wow:
 

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Just met up for food and drinks with the girl I met in Vegas...Brehs she is mad cool! And bad too...her eyes :noah:

We def clicked. Interested to see where me and her or me and the girl I took to the escape room go

When you went to escape room? Was it just you and ole girl? I've heard its best to go in groups but I thought about taking just my girl.
 

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When you went to escape room? Was it just you and ole girl? I've heard its best to go in groups but I thought about taking just my girl.

It was us 2 and a group of 5-6 that we never met. They just so happened to schedule the room at the same time we did. Everyone was mad cool though and we all worked together without any problems
 

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what you mean by that :patrice:
Different answer, but you've got guys giving advice when 5 months ago they had the simpest of posts. :sas1:
I'm talking real basic shyt. Like they wanted other posters to hold their hand or something.

What's more likely, I trust that sort of advice or it'll set me back a couple months?:sas2:
 

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Past ten days were a revelation brehs. I probably canoodled and cavorted with like 10 different women. Beautiful women drop dead gorgeous women, totally different from over here. Where you have to simp and literally beg and offer good tidings of joy to just take some average scalawag out for meal.

What I experienced was like the great valley in the land before time it exists brehs. I dunno how I can return to this pile of dung now that I have tasted the sweet nectar.
 

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She still lives with her parents AND them mf's tryna dictate where she can and can't go
:francis:

Edit: yeah dropping her

do NOT want to deal with a 20 year old "teenager" who's a sneaky daddies girl

Busted them guts 4 weeks ago, now she acting like she too good to come swim in the pool in my apt complex cause "my dad's home"
plus she tryna play that whole game bytches do where you tell em how you feel cause they want you to and they all like "well damn somebodies mad"

she gon be HURT if this chick come through tomorrow and swim
 
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Going to Chicago next week.. I got a decent game plan for local hoes on Tinder but if the crehs wanna drop some advice on quick strikes when you out of town (a few days only) lemme know. Mans trying to close the deal not just play booboo at a restaurant :ufdup:

was thinking of copping that 'tinder gold' so I an set my location to the Chi a few days in advance of my arrival and start matching with hoes early
 

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If it makes it easier to get more bytches, I would get the tinder gold and whatever the fukk else they want.




Going to Chicago next week.. I got a decent game plan for local hoes on Tinder but if the crehs wanna drop some advice on quick strikes when you out of town (a few days only) lemme know. Mans trying to close the deal not just play booboo at a restaurant :ufdup:

was thinking of copping that 'tinder gold' so I an set my location to the Chi a few days in advance of my arrival and start matching with hoes early
 
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