You say this is your first white woman so it doesn't sound like you out here just pawging haphazardly

Forget the looks and stares. The relationship is between you and her. Not, you, her and strangers on the street. If she treats you right that's all that matters at the end of the day. I wish I had known this when I was younger
She may not be able to relate to what you go through as a black man but she may very well want to or try to understand. To test the water you can always try vent to her about things you've been through and see how she receives you. If she's like "America is fair, you need to stop asking for handouts

" then hit her with the


But if's she's like "aww babe, I haven't experienced that but I hate that you had to deal with those things. How does it make you feel? Tell me more, I want to understand

" then you have a
Life is too short to pass up happiness bro.