Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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She gave you a signal. Good shyt for reacting to it. Would you say that it's useless to cold approach a chick unless she gives a signal?

Nope, setup the assist for me... but i've done cold approaches before with no hint from the chick and still pull off a win. doesn' twork all the time though of course.
 

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I be getting on tinder

See the matches

shyt change from 10 miles away to 1008 miles away
Lol wtf
I be forgetting this a hookup app sometimes
 

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right now i'm dealing with a very annoying women, she messages me all day long, always call and i nevr answer. She will message and I won't reply then she will message again. She even gave me her "private cell" number only her family members have.

The gist of the story is that, when a woman likes you and sees you as a man of value they will constantly hound you to the point you think its annoying. That's why you never have to sit back and be :to: did she get my text? why isn't she messaging me and ish, she ain't because you aint a priority and some other breh is getting all her attention.

I'm not saying let a chick hound you to the point of annoyance just THAT if a chick really wants to be in your life She WILL BE
 

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I'm literally not good at these dating apps/OLD :dead: I can spend months not getting a single match or message. My height is most likely the main problem there (i'm 5'6") but also i'm just an average looking breh so i'm not standing out. I do workout 6 times a week though but I doubt that means much :manny:

Sucks that i'm introverted as well so i'm not in the streets like that :francis:
 

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LOL I kinda fukked up by kissing my female friend and feeling myself too much. She keeps inviting me to shyt now and I'm not into her. I also don't want to poison my social network I built by knowing her. :snoop:


I've been eying this one female colleague more and more and she can probably sense it. I see after our team outing that she pays attention to me slightly more. It could be friendliness but I do have more rapport with her now. She is totally my type... but I said I wouldn't pursue women at work any more lol.

BTW been listening to Corey Wayne more and he has a few gems that are congruent with a lot of things I believe and do already.
Messing with broads at work is tricky, because when they throw it at you and you don't want it they get :usure: towards you.
 

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Messing with broads at work is tricky, because when they throw it at you and you don't want it they get :usure: towards you.

It's a slow thing right now. I recall a few months back that she would hardly notice me but now she's friendlier to me.

I could be misreading or projecting my own attraction on her actions. I may have to shoot my shot and invite her out though because it seems like something is up. Her noticing me from across the room, waving at me. Just subtle body language.
 

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I'm literally not good at these dating apps/OLD :dead: I can spend months not getting a single match or message. My height is most likely the main problem there (i'm 5'6") but also i'm just an average looking breh so i'm not standing out. I do workout 6 times a week though but I doubt that means much :manny:

Sucks that i'm introverted as well so i'm not in the streets like that :francis:

Na height ain't I'm 5"6 ate well
Comes down what ur saying in ur profile
How ur convo goes when u message someone
Trust I prefer just hollering at random people in public places than that online dating.
I've met females online starting from aol chatrooms
Yahoo chatrooms
Blackplanet
Myspace
Migente
Asia Avenue
Tinder
Pof
Okcupid
Match
Eharmony
Fiber
Think that's all of em lol
 
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Messing with broads at work is tricky, because when they throw it at you and you don't want it they get :usure: towards you.

Yeah this chick at work she from Ghana, think I'm gay now or my dikk don't work. :mjlol:

I'm not that attracted to her but the ass is ridiculous. I made the mistake of chillin with her after work on some late night spot and we start kissin/palming the ass

but then I hit the restroom and a light went off in my head like nooo this ain't good, so i made up an excuse about how i gotta get going.

then she hits me up before i get home. hits me up again that morning. hits me up again that night. i told her the truth about how i had a bad experience at work before and it's just not a good situation right now and she basically thinks either I'm a lowkey fakkit or my dikk don't operate :mjlol:

we cool tho. she'll joke every now and again but she ain't try nothing after that. i've never called or texted but I have texts from her saved on my old phone if I needed to bring them to light to save my ass from HR :manny:
 

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Messing with broads at work is tricky, because when they throw it at you and you don't want it they get :usure: towards you.

Maaaaaan I ain't trynna mess with this chick at work but it's tempting.

When I got back from holiday she asked to see my pics and she saw the pics I took with girls I met on my trip.

She hit me on some:

"I see you phcitywarrior. What is this? A different girl everyday"

Since then she'll pop around me just to chat. Tell me about her past office flings, and just show slight signs of being keen.

It could just be friendly banter but it do be tempting. Especially since her man lives 2.5 hours away and he only sees her every now and then.

I ain't trynna get caught up though :francis:
 
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Maaaaaan I ain't trynna mess with this chick at work but it's tempting.

When I got back from holiday she asked to see my pics and she saw the pics I took with girls I met on my trip.

She hit me on some:

"I see you phcitywarrior. What is this? A different girl everyday"

Since then she'll pop around me just to chat. Tell me about her past office flings, and just show slight signs of being keen.

It could just be friendly banter but it do be tempting. Especially since her man lives 2.5 hours away and he only sees her every now and then.

I ain't trynna fet caught up though :francis:

shyt is hard to avoid:russ:

No matter how much you try to run from it, it's always one that will test your temptation:francis:
 

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Na height ain't I'm 5"6 ate well
Comes down what ur saying in ur profile
How ur convo goes when u message someone
Trust I prefer just hollering at random people in public places than that online dating.
I've met females online starting from aol chatrooms
Yahoo chatrooms
Blackplanet
Myspace
Migente
Asia Avenue
Tinder
Pof
Okcupid
Match
Eharmony
Fiber
Think that's all of em lol

Damn breh, I'm just trying to get one message lol. But I don't think my profile or the messages I write are the problem. I write witty shyt, it just gets read and discarded though. Maybe it's my pics, all the pics on there are ones I've taken myself but I have a HDR cam. It's hard to believe but I don't have any recent pics of myself that someone has taken :francis:
 

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Damn breh, I'm just trying to get one message lol. But I don't think my profile or the messages I write are the problem. I write witty shyt, it just gets read and discarded though. Maybe it's my pics, all the pics on there are ones I've taken myself but I have a HDR cam. It's hard to believe but I don't have any recent pics of myself that someone has taken :francis:

U be surprised what a profile page can do to catch person interest or messages u write.
Also some people aren't photogenic either they look way better than pics or worse which plays a factor.
If ur having less success online switch it up a bit but also go old school and holler at people in person too.
 
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