Did some shyt happen to him? Sounds like he gave up on life.
I don't have any "friends" to help me, I got the fam support, but you need ya boys to go to the gym with, to bag bytches with.
I don't have anyone to really do that with, mad nikkas is fake.
So I have to do everything myself; gym, club, bar, etc. All dolo.
I have to get jobs dolo because no one wants to put me on, I even tried to have cacs put me on. Nada.
The sad thing about it is, when my boys moved, I only been to the club like 5 times in 2 years, you know how much p*ssy I missed?
I'm still very angry about it, I literally have to go to the club and bars dolo. I mean it's kinda cool because now I can go full hunting mode for one night stands, but I didn't realize how much time I wasted, I didn't even realize.
I have no male figures or peers to push me to do better, just myself.
shyt, didn't mean to rant.
I’m in a doctorate program and making moves. One of my home boys dropped out of college and doesn’t want to go out. I invite him to parties with me he refuses to come or some excuse. He has no other friends except me and my other homeboy. We try to tell him to get his shyt together and he is severely shy. We tried everything and he refuses to change. In all honesty he is a grown man at 28. Almost 30 and he is like this. I tell him to hit the gym and get a job to have some money in his pocket. We have been trying to help him for 10 years now and he is always back to the same bullshyt. In all it comes down to him to figure his self out of this mess he is in. I wish him the best but he refuses to change imma have to cut him off. At this point I’m focused on my career and purpose.