do u respond late to every single text a girl sends or just the INITIAL one
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I'll respond if I have my phone in my hand but I do prefer talking on the phone.
I really am not one for the texting games but I do understand why one may need to play it. Personally, if I have to do the whole texting games thing then idk about it.
Side note - Shawty at work coming in even harder...temptation is a MF.
The Odum of Ala Igbo
Hail Biafra!
I respond given their texting times.
For example:
I text her. She responds 12 minutes later. I respond approximately 12 minutes later.
Another example:
She texts me. I text back. She responds 3 minutes later. I respond around 3 minutes later.
My time is precious
It does
One girl told me she didn’t want a fukk buddy early on and that she was only gona date a guy if he was serious about a relationship
I wasn’t even thinking that far ahead and I was like
Eventually I got her to agree to giving me a 30 minute blowjob and no cuddling after sex and that I didn’t want a relationship
The key is u can’t fake that disinterest and natural aloofness. I lost all interest in her because she was stupid and it only made her wana do whatever it takes to get me interested again
Women are driven by attention it’s crazy
This is childish and immature.
The Odum of Ala Igbo
Hail Biafra!
Works great for me. Why reply right away to an individual who responded to a message you sent 3 hrs ago?
Works great for me. Why reply right away to an individual who responded to a message you sent 3 hrs ago?
You’re obviously not a priority to her, why play these childish games with someone who will go 3 hours without responding to you
You tryna play mind games while she’s having a full convo with another dude
always remember women have their phones on them from when they get up to when they sleep even at work
if a chick takes long to message you back you're not a priority she minimized your text when she received that msg
@The Odum of Ala Igbo i still have chicks in nigeria texting me daily, if someone 10,000 miles away 5 hrs ahead timezone with spotty connection can get back to me asap why are we giving chicks in our own city leeway abeg o
i remember i messaged some chick last week, she didn't reply back to me, but she was doing whatsapp statuses and ish.
like 7 hrs after the fact she messaged me, i didn't even reply and just deleted her number
as kevm3 would say if it was chris brown or trey songz she would have got back ASAP
if a chick takes long to message you back you're not a priority she minimized your text when she received that msg
@The Odum of Ala Igbo i still have chicks in nigeria texting me daily, if someone 10,000 miles away 5 hrs ahead timezone with spotty connection can get back to me asap why are we giving chicks in our own city leeway abeg o
i remember i messaged some chick last week, she didn't reply back to me, but she was doing whatsapp statuses and ish.
like 7 hrs after the fact she messaged me, i didn't even reply and just deleted her number
as kevm3 would say if it was chris brown or trey songz she would have got back ASAP
with how rampant herpes is ....
i actually was a little shook cuz i kissed a few chicks in nigeria and i came back and i had a sore throat and a cold after thought i had herpes
its the disease of leeway brehs, just because she's attractive we keep giving chances like a talented athlete who keeps screwing up (ala josh gordon).
oh she doesn't reply till a few days later that's ok
oh she cancels no worries its ok
stop with the its ok and stand firm breh. That ish won't be me
I used to be the biggest simp ever, prob won an award for simping
I was always mr its ok maybe next week?, its all good I understand?, oh don't worry about it!
Now im mr block and delete, mr don't waste my time, mr
whose up next
Before I went on my trip to Nigeria I was actually talking to this chick down there for a little, we were spose to hang out and all that ish she got angry at me and stopped talking to me. Like last week she hit me up how she missed not talking to me and wished we could have hung out and why didn't I reach out to her. I was like no biggie I met like 15 women, actresses, socialites, drs, lawyers when I was down there and was taking all over the place. You actually thought I'd be locked up in a hotel, or sending some text like hey im here ? 
That's what these chicks think because they look half way decent your life as a man revolves all around them and if they remove themselves you'll be chasing and begging and ish
oh she doesn't reply till a few days later that's ok
oh she cancels no worries its ok
stop with the its ok and stand firm breh. That ish won't be me
I used to be the biggest simp ever, prob won an award for simping
I was always mr its ok maybe next week?, its all good I understand?, oh don't worry about it!
Now im mr block and delete, mr don't waste my time, mr
whose up nextBefore I went on my trip to Nigeria I was actually talking to this chick down there for a little, we were spose to hang out and all that ish
she got angry at me and stopped talking to me. Like last week she hit me up how she missed not talking to me and wished we could have hung out and why didn't I reach out to her. I was like no biggie I met like 15 women, actresses, socialites, drs, lawyers when I was down there and was taking all over the place. You actually thought I'd be locked up in a hotel, or sending some text like hey im here ? That's what these chicks think because they look half way decent your life as a man revolves all around them and if they remove themselves you'll be chasing and begging and ish
So how often do u textIt does
One girl told me she didn’t want a fukk buddy early on and that she was only gona date a guy if he was serious about a relationship
I wasn’t even thinking that far ahead and I was like
Eventually I got her to agree to giving me a 30 minute blowjob and no cuddling after sex and that I didn’t want a relationship
The key is u can’t fake that disinterest and natural aloofness. I lost all interest in her because she was stupid and it only made her wana do whatever it takes to get me interested again
Women are driven by attention it’s crazy
What are ur secrets and tips
The Odum of Ala Igbo
Hail Biafra!
Exactlyits the disease of leeway brehs, just because she's attractive we keep giving chances like a talented athlete who keeps screwing up (ala josh gordon).
oh she doesn't reply till a few days later that's ok
oh she cancels no worries its ok
stop with the its ok and stand firm breh. That ish won't be me
I used to be the biggest simp ever, prob won an award for simping
I was always mr its ok maybe next week?, its all good I understand?, oh don't worry about it!
Now im mr block and delete, mr don't waste my time, mr
Before I went on my trip to Nigeria I was actually talking to this chick down there for a little, we were spose to hang out and all that ish
That's what these chicks think because they look half way decent your life as a man revolves all around them and if they remove themselves you'll be chasing and begging and ish
Treat them how they treat you
Depends on the girl. I always text back when I read a text because I’m not a sassy petty 16 year old girl. if a girl is on some “wait 2 hours to reply” shyt it’s easy to detect and to the bushes she goes
ESP when you’re setting up something to do and they don’t reply then you know they’re indifferent so I don’t even bother. I’ve had a girl reply back the next day with the “sorry I didn’t get ur text/sorry just saw ur text” shyt. What more do u need to see to kno you’re at best her back up option.
I also never ask “wyd” or “what are u up to” because I don’t care. If I wana start talking (because I’m bored or whatever) I’ll say something random. It’s better in my opinion than “wyd”.
what do u do if a girl isnt ready for a relationship cause shes just getting out of one and she tells you herself that shes closed off
do u just move on? even if she enjoys talking to u and even initiates conversation?
Move on