Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[sfgiants]

what do u do if a girl isnt ready for a relationship cause shes just getting out of one and she tells you herself that shes closed off

do u just move on? even if she enjoys talking to u and even initiates conversation?

It’s up to you because u know what u want
If I’m talking to her because I’m looking to be in a relationship then we’re not in the same page and I’m not going to use my time helping her get through her shyt
If i wana fukk, same thing
If I just wana be friends, then I’ll talk to her

what u don’t wana do is wait around hoping for her to get over that post break up funk hoping she gets on ur page (for sex or relationship)
It’s just a bad move and you’ll only frustrate yourself. You could keep her around if you’re hell bent on being with her/having sex with her while talking to/dating other girls.
Put urself first. Always look out for urself

 

[Apex]

It’s up to you because u know what u want
If I’m talking to her because I’m looking to be in a relationship then we’re not in the same page and I’m not going to use my time helping her get through her shyt
If i wana fukk, same thing
If I just wana be friends, then I’ll talk to her

what u don’t wana do is wait around hoping for her to get over that post break up funk hoping she gets on ur page (for sex or relationship)
It’s just a bad move and you’ll only frustrate yourself. You could keep her around if you’re hell bent on being with her/having sex with her while talking to/dating other girls.
Put urself first. Always look out for urself

any other general tips homie?

i like that ur level headed and not so extreme like the alpha male strategies people

 

[sfgiants]

any other general tips homie?

i like that ur level headed and not so extreme like the alpha male strategies people

When you respect yourself and know your worth it radiates out and women can sense that the same way they can sense a desperate dude. I’m naturally aloof so girls think I’m trying to be distant and non committal and their reaction is to find out why I’m not sweating them like everyone else. . I guess what this shows them is that I’m not desperate and if you’re talking to a really attractive girl there’s prob a handful of other guys trying their hardest to impress her (sending 8484848 selfies or asking them to dinner or asking to hang out over and over)
I am always busy too, so I don’t have time to be asking girls out to “hang out” there’s usually something I want to do anyway and I ask them to do that with me.
Keep yourself busy, hit the gym, think of approaching girls like a baseball player approaches the game. You’re never gona have 100% success rate, and rejection is meaningless. There’s tons of girls out there.
That’s what I’d tell my younger self, shyt isn’t complicated.

 

[Apex]

When you respect yourself and know your worth it radiates out and women can sense that the same way they can sense a desperate dude. I’m naturally aloof so girls think I’m trying to be distant and non committal and their reaction is to find out why I’m not sweating them like everyone else. . I guess what this shows them is that I’m not desperate and if you’re talking to a really attractive girl there’s prob a handful of other guys trying their hardest to impress her (sending 8484848 selfies or asking them to dinner or asking to hang out over and over)
I am always busy too, so I don’t have time to be asking girls out to “hang out” there’s usually something I want to do anyway and I ask them to do that with me.
Keep yourself busy, hit the gym, think of approaching girls like a baseball player approaches the game. You’re never gona have 100% success rate, and rejection is meaningless. There’s tons of girls out there.
That’s what I’d tell my younger self, shyt isn’t complicated.

how do u go about asking em out and how do u approach em

i like ur style cause its not playing games and its being u

 

[Silkk]

Pulled up in the skype IMs on the chick I was talking about a few pages back. Got a lunch date for next week

 

[Silkk]

how do u go about asking em out and how do u approach em

i like ur style cause its not playing games and its being u

You a virgin breh? Serious question

 

[BornStar]

My dumbass somehow has 3 broads on the team idk wtf happened. I dead ass wasn't trying. It just happened. I was focused on my finances, body and purpose.

 

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My dumbass somehow has 3 broads on the team idk wtf happened. I dead ass wasn't trying. It just happened. I was focused on my finances, body and purpose.

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[BornStar]

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I haven't had a rotation since last summer. 2 of them came within the last 4.5 weeks. I seen both of them and fukked both of them twice already. I'm realizing how much time goes into them even if its half of a day. They randomly text you some bs. I'll respond 3 hours later because I'm at work. Sometimes you want some peace of mind without having to entertain or talk to these broads. Especially when you work all week and you dead ass have goals and a purpose...

However I enjoy having the rolodex of p*ssy .


Now I will fake maintain all 3 relationships but also try to forego instant gratification for long term accomplishment.



I know they say balance but I'm an extremist. I know im not the only one headed towards a certain goals. How do you guys do this juggling act of having objectives , meeting your goals and or purpose while working 70+ hours a week?

 

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I haven't had a rotation since last summer. 2 of them came within the last 4.5 weeks. I seen both of them and fukked both of them twice already. I'm realizing how much time goes into them even if its half of a day. They randomly text you some bs. I'll respond 3 hours later because I'm at work. Sometimes you want some peace of mind without having to entertain or talk to these broads. Especially when you work all week and you dead ass have goals and a purpose...

However I enjoy having the rolodex of p*ssy .


Now I will fake maintain all 3 relationships but also try to forego instant gratification for long term accomplishment.



I know they say balance but I'm an extremist. I know im not the only one headed towards a certain goals. How do you guys do this juggling act of having objectives , meeting your goals and or purpose while working 70+ hours a week?

Truly, you just do it and by that I mean you may have to sacrifice time to prioritize. For instance, you may not be able to go to the gym after work because a chick is gonna come through.. or you just go anyway and hang with shorty later. I know you’re looking for checks and balances, but sometimes sacrificing is the easier option.

It’s funny how that works though, that’s why I laughed at your post. Out of nowhere you just got hit with a rotation. Good on you though breh. You’re doing something right.

Currently have less hoes than a monk in the mountains but just reading your post reminded me how much of a hassle it is to actually have hoes. Not making excuses because I ain’t get my willie wet the whole summer Just been working every week and when I wasn’t working I was on my purpose...

The funny part is I’m noticeably more muscular than when the summer started and my income has increased as well. How about that, a dry summer lead to wet results

 

[BornStar]

To be honest, you just do it, and by that I mean you may have to sacrifice time to prioritize. For instance, you may not be able to go to the gym after work because a chick is gonna come through.. or you just go anyway and hang with shorty later. I know you’re looking for checks and balances, but sometimes sacrificing is the easier option.

It’s funny how that works though, that’s why I laughed at your post. Out of nowhere you just got hit with a rotation. Good on you though breh. You’re doing something right.

Currently have less hoes than a monk in the mountains but just reading your post reminded me how much of a hassle it is to actually have hoes. Not making excuses because I ain’t get my willie wet the whole summer Just been working every week and when I wasn’t working I was on my purpose...

The funny part is I’m noticeably more muscular than when the summer started and my income has increased as well. How about that, a dry summer lead to wet results

That can change within a week breh. Like you said chasing the money and fitness will lead to a better life than having a rotation for years. I might have to let them fall off sooner or later. I will not fall into the trap again. Right now im on a mission. Your in a good position at the moment, it will pay off Stay strong breh.

 

[ViShawn]

Using social circle game to get women I think is the way.

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

Using social circle game to get women I think is the way.

...for lazy brehs. SO many dope ass women out there to restrict yourself to the women in your social circles just cause they are more accessible. I try to avoid them as much as I can for my peace of mind. Aint nothing quite like bringing an unknown dime to a friend's party and having nikkas like "where you meet her breh? " and the hoes in your circles like "wow, shes very pretty " while you're chilling and vibing with her like
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[Actually6Foot3]

Got dropped by a chic cause I was taking too long to text her. Hitting up my homie 12 hours after I got her number talking bout why I ain't text her yet(met her through him) like damn Calm down. I'll get to you wtf




I'm trying to get this bag and I have other women I'm working on so I'm busy lol

Honestly this is why I prefer younger women. I'm 26 and she was 30. I prefer to date 20-24 year olds. Less pressure, less expectations, more fun and generally better looking if I ask for the number and take my time with em they don't get upset.

Older chics got a damn timeline due to that biological clock I feel. If theyre talking to you it's cause they view you as potential relationship material 9 times out of 10 even if all they did was give you the digits and if it isn't going in that direction they're upset withoyt constant calls/texts, dates, etc. Older women are more selective and have higher requirements for who they'll give their time to since they feel they don't have much left to give.

My homie is in a situation with an older chic that wants him to move in and they've only been dating 3 months. These older chics are something else

He's about to dead it too he's a clown though because they work together

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

we've only started fukking 3 weeks ago. She came over to visit me last weekend. Now she sent me this shyt all of a sudden

Well, its been good I guess .....i wish a bytch would guilt trip me into a relationship

bushes!